How uncomfortable is it to feel betrayed in a relationship?

In the past, when things didn't go well, I always persuaded myself that life and death were trivial. But when it comes to life and death, it turns out that people can become so fragile. With this series of farces of being split and broken up, coupled with the death of loved ones, a two-month period of depression came.

Before I experienced the pain caused by depression, I always thought that those depressed people were people who couldn't resist pressure and were hypocritical, but in fact, everyone has weaknesses. Work pressure, academic failures, family changes, etc., even if there are broken lovers, but in the first 21 years of my life, I never felt that I could not get through anything.

There are only two ways for a woman to be reborn: either she becomes beautiful or she becomes rich. If you are not born beautiful, you must also be born inspirational!

The whole world doesn't believe in you, it doesn't matter, as long as you believe in yourself, you are an idol, if you don't accept your fate, then go and fight hard. One day you will find that you will thank him for his split, because you will be better and he does not deserve to be with you. One day you will find that he will regret that you were so good, and your vision will be better at that time.

Another thing you have to remember is that dogs can't get rid of their habit of eating.

When you wake up every day, if you have a nightmare, it is a continuation of the nightmare, and if you have a beautiful dream, it is the shattering of the dream, and a new nightmare begins. Because every day when I wake up, the first thought that flashes through my mind is that the person I once trusted most intimately and trusted, betrayed me, and the person I once hugged and treated gently in my arms is now lying in someone else's arms. At that moment, I really heard the sound of heartbreak, I really heard it clearly, despair enveloped the whole world, and I couldn't breathe, and I didn't even have the courage to walk out of the door and walk on the street alone.

This is more than two months after my breakup, and my current state, how was the time when I first broke up? It's impossible to have sweet dreams, every day is a nightmare, and you can dream of her every day. Even at this moment, I actually think of the beautiful bits and pieces with her, which is a kind of torture for me, and life is worse than death.

I still remember the moment I opened the photo album and saw him in bed with other girls, there was no sadness or anger at that time, it was unusually calm as if I had forgotten to react, but the tears still couldn't stop falling. Looking at the window for a long, long time, I opened WeChat to find my best friend for more than ten years, and I said I miss you so much, can I go to your place for a few days. Then I bought a high-speed rail ticket to Shaoxing, went to the school to handle the deferred examination of all the courses after that, and left this place where we have been living so depressed that we can't breathe like a run.

After being betrayed, it felt like it was the worst nightmare I had in my life, after three months, it felt like a dream after the breakup, after half a year, it felt like a dream for four years together, and then it felt like it was someone else's dream.

I was so ignorant, I thought my pure feelings were faint at the time, and I tried my best to persuade myself to cherish this hard-won, and it turned out that there was no unresolved dispute between the two lovers who did not betray **, and there was a reason for this, and it didn't take long for things to surface after leaving a message, and then I chose to divorce, and now I am glad that I did it right countless times.

When betrayal happens, it's obviously much better to try some ways to deal with it than to be wronged and resentful. For example, confronting betrayal instead of denying it; Reinterpret things in a positive way as an experience of personal growth; Seek help from friends and experience as little anxiety as possible.

How much you give, how uncomfortable you are, not so much how much you give, but how much you want to get in return, and you don't get it. How uncomfortable it is for you to want how much you want in return and not how much you don't get.

She has been in graduate school for more than six years now, and it has been almost two months since the breakup, and the wound is almost healing, only occasionally a little sad, but it is harmless (is it abnormal to recover so quickly). Now it basically doesn't affect her normal work and life, maybe it has something to do with some of her practices and words! In the past six years, I have been really good to her, and she has also said that her parents have never been so good to her, and I also think that I am better to her than my own family, and I am all concerned.

In fact, what kind of person you become is never something you can choose, it is a choice that fate makes for you. I think the best I can do is to become a strong man of fate, not to say how much I have achieved, but to become a survivor in the face of the constant crit of fate, and not forget my original intention.

Although I was hurt so deeply, I also said a lot of slanderous things about her during the breakup, which can be regarded as a flattening! In the future, they will be passers-by, and there will be no intersection between each and every other. It's the middle of the night, and I feel like it's a bit messy, so let's just record my growth.

This is a very heart-wrenching feeling, because I usually believe in this person, and at this time I am betrayed by him, and at this time I will definitely suffer a particularly big blow to my psychology, and at this time it will definitely affect my mood.

It's a very disappointed feeling, and it feels very sad, and I feel very insecure, and I feel like I don't have anyone to rely on.

It's really painful. And I'm sure next time I'll never trust one person so much again, and I'll keep an eye on everyone.