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There are still many ways to do this.
Falling in love during college will make us no longer lonely on the road to knowledge, let us learn to be grateful and humble, and also learn to share and listen. You will get to know yourself again, and you will gradually mature. College students have outstanding personalities, heavy feelings, and are easily impulsive, and are not limited by traditional customs, and generally do not seek the opinions of both parents before or even after determining the relationship.
Many college students do not think about their future marriage in love, and do not clearly and consciously realize that they should choose a lifelong partner, and they fall in love only because they need to love and be loved. Once college students fall in love, they are often not good at controlling their emotions, allowing their feelings to indulge at will, lacking rational control ability, and being overly dependent on their love partners, and suffering at the slightest twist and turn. Once the relationship is frustrated, it will lose control of emotions and be unable to extricate itself, which will have a serious impact on learning.
At present, the love of college students is showing a lower grade, and the number of people is on the rise. It is not an isolated phenomenon that students start falling in love in the first grade, and some students even fall in love as soon as they enter school. Due to their shallow social experience and simple thinking, many of these junior students do not have a clear concept of their life goals and needs, resulting in simple, naïve and immature treatment of love issues.
In terms of mate selection criteria, the appearance is often emphasized and the inside is neglected. In the way of love, it is often important to focus on form and light on content. In love behavior, the process is often emphasized over the result; Emphasis on pleasure, light on responsibility.
This kind of immaturity in love problems, coupled with the fact that they are not financially independent during school, their feelings and thoughts are volatile in the process of falling in love, and they lack the ability to properly deal with emotional entanglements in love, which can easily cause periodic interruptions in love, or drifting in the choice of love partners, and the success rate of love is very low.
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How to say it, people who can learn, people who learn well, how to fall in love and watch ** dramas, how to be pretentious, how to learn well. For those who don't know how to learn, you may not be able to learn well if you keep learning from morning to night every day, and you can't take the blame for falling in love.
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Promote each other's progress, turn love into strength, so that both will have a good harvest, love is not all, the future career and life is long-lasting, and finally I wish you two a long time of happiness.
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If you want to fall in love, encourage each other to study, and be admitted to the same good university, you can go longer, and your relationship will get better and better.
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In short, it is necessary to have x number ...... in mindWhether you are studying well or not, whether you are working hard or not, whether you are efficient or not, you must know whether you are doing it, and making adjustments according to your own state is the most fundamental.
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First of all, you must adjust psychologically several times, you need to arrange your time reasonably, you can't ignore your studies because you fall in love, and you can't be too obsessed with learning and ignore your other half.
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First of all, you need to set a time for both, for example, you define which study tasks you must complete every day.
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I think learning is a lifelong thing, and it is related to the future. And love is a matter of two people, if something goes wrong in love, you can choose to give up. So between love and study, learning is more important.
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Personally, I don't think that love and study are not in conflict, and college love should be more reasonable and necessary, because two people who love each other can promote each other.
I'm a psychology student. Your current psychological state is not mature at all, and your husband's thoughts are obviously very simple, marriage is a lifelong thing, but you are united because of the so-called money, whether you love each other or not, your union is very philistine, then this is a philistine marriage. A person's life is only so long, and you say that you are still young, if you are a person with ambition or ability, then I clearly suggest that you convince him and his family, if you can't be convinced, divorce is undoubtedly the best choice, if he is really good to you, he will not even give you the most basic respect, you don't even have the right to be respected, what else can not be abandoned? >>>More
She's like this, it's not yours, please don't force it, the forced feelings won't bear fruit, I wish you happiness!
Either you're mature, or you're inferior.
Oh, at that time, he finally had a little private space, of course, to have fun, like chatting with friends I haven't seen for a long time, playing games, etc., you don't care too much, you can check secretly when you have time, want QQ password, or sit with him to play, if you are really angry at the time He ignores you and is coquettish, and then just ignore him, play by yourself, wait for him to take the initiative to find you, if you haven't found it, go back and ignore him, I think if he really loves you, then he will be unable to resist, will tell you why he ignored you, If the reason is acceptable, don't be angry, boys, they're all a little playful, just give him some space (my boyfriend is like this, every time he wants to ignore me, he will tell me what he's doing, and then I'll play my own, and he'll say a few words to me later, hehe).
This is a girl, you must find what you love, not what you love each other.