Why Chinese parents always choose captive education

Disappear with the wind" is a low cost, and I feel like it's a bit of a point, but of course it's not absolutely. The word "cost", I think it has many definitions, except for the economic cost, I mainly think that in the average family, social cost is the majority. Namely:

If parents do not choose a mainstream education method, they will face a lot of pressure. Although many people have recognized the shortcomings of China's education system, including the country's education director, who also said that "China's education system needs to be reformed", there are still many parents who choose to let their children enter this system. Destroying the mind, killing the child's creativity, stifling the child's childhood, etc., these are not direct, can not be directly experienced and seen, and the most obvious is the number and ranking on the report card, which is also known as the parents' talking points and the standard of comparison with each other.

Think about what would happen to an "mentally retarded" child like Albert Einstein, who couldn't even play with plasticine and could only pinch a small bench, if he were born in an ordinary family in China!

Because of the traditional problem, and most parents have a psychology of wanting to control their children, hoping that their children can develop into what they like, so they will want to keep their children in sight at all times, so they will feel at ease.

Contemporary Chinese parents have suffered hardships themselves, rarely receive the love of their parents, and hope that their children will grow up better.

Think about it, if you are a parent, do you feel free to let your children go out alone without the slightest social experience, if you don't go to school with children of the same age, do you want your children to go through the vicissitudes of the world at a young age, and grow old in youth? What about the more important safety issue, especially in today's society, if even the safety of children cannot be guaranteed, what is the point of other things?

I do this because I care, because I know the dangers outside.

In some parent groups, the so-called "free-range education that releases children's nature" is popular, believing that there should not be too many disciplined rules and regulations to restrict children's growth, which will make children lose their free space for play, make them become conformists, lose imagination and creativity.

Where do these theories come from? Of course, most of it comes from more and more open rumors**, and we can often see some guests talking about not restricting children's behavior too much, and learning to let children live and grow up according to their own wishes.

In addition to traditional dance and art, Songmu Lead led the children to participate in programming, skateboarding, equestrian, wild archery and other interest classes. No matter what kind of interest class, it contains the germination of the child's own life. These courses have an infiltration of aesthetic rhythms and the stretching of natural abilities.

Life is an evolving process, and early childhood life lays the foundation for later life development. "Whatever is the beginning is the most important. Organisms, in particular, are most receptive to cultivation in the stage of effective tenderness, and you can shape it into whatever form you want to mold. ”

Nowadays, many parents advocate a kind of education - to unleash their children's nature. They hold the child up to the sky and let the child do whatever he wants. Liberating the child's "nature" is inevitable and natural.

However, most children have become "bear children" that everyone hates under such education, and naughty, uneducated, and unruly have become their unique labels. There is nothing wrong with free-range education, but there must be an appropriate degree, boundaries and rules.

Let children learn to persist in doing one thing for a long time, to achieve a goal, this kind of exercise is extremely important for children, and will also let children develop a good habit. Therefore, free-range education is to let children continue to subconsciously develop a good habit of life in happiness, such as going to bed early and getting up early, learning to tidy up their room, learning to respect others, and learning to do things in an orderly manner. This kind of education can allow children to establish their own good habits and be brave in the future.