When going on a blind date, boys generally reject girls because of something

Out of the body and appearance, and because I haven't seen it, and then contact the one in front of it, I will hate it, but if I really can't find a girlfriend, I lose confidence, and I can only rely on blind dates, then I can't help it, it doesn't matter to girls, beautiful or not.

Personally, I think. The blind date now is all about looks. After all, it's the first time we've met. Who doesn't understand anyone. If you can't even pass the first level of "physiognomy". How to make friends and get married?

The second point should be the "speech" aspect. If a woman speaks very badly, she opens her mouth with "Mom". Would you want this kind of girl?

First of all, appearance! Secondly, the figure!

The economic foundation of both parties, if the man is richer than the woman, he may not look down on it, and the woman is richer than the man, and the man may refuse, because after all, it will give people a feeling of eating soft rice.

It is very important to have a woman's morality, including speech and demeanor and attitude, and men want to find a thoughtful and capable partner.

There is also the woman's family background, such as the character of the parents, whether the reputation is good, and how many siblings there are, some families are more concerned about these.

And then there's the feeling. It feels like this kind of thing, heh, it's hard to say.

Well, no, I think so much from the perspective of a 23-year-old man.

Hope it helps!

I don't think he's rejecting you, maybe he's a very passive person.

But the feeling of meeting is not speculative and not a taste, forget it, don't think about him, you can't sweep away with a machine gun when fate comes!

It is possible that the man was forced to go on a blind date unwillingly, or it is possible that he doesn't like it, and it is not about external conditions

It's usually a feeling.

Appearance, conversation, manners, literacy, hobbies, and so on are all possible.

When you go on a blind date, girls pay more attention to the work of boys, because you will live with this person in the future, and the material conditions are indeed very important.

Then she definitely wants to settle down, so first, she will value the economic aspect of the boy's family, and she will choose a family with a relatively light financial burden, and it is best that the family still has a stable family business. Second, he will value the quality of boys, and thirdly, he will pay more attention to whether boys have a stable economic income**. Fourth, it will pay attention to whether the boy has a house and a car.

Girls are still more concerned about the overall situation of your family, after all, girls feel that this is where they will live in the future.

When going on a blind date, girls pay more attention to the boy's economic conditions, whether the boy has a stable job, the boy's appearance, and the boy's height will also value the boy's emotional intelligence. Because marriage has an economic foundation, if two people do not have an economic foundation, life will be very tiring, so when going on a blind date, girls pay great attention to the economic conditions of boys.

Pay attention to the salary and prospects of the other party's family and current job, as well as the other party's appearance, because she wants to satisfy her future life and her own eyes.

If you think that a girl on a blind date, the first thing you see is the appearance of the boy, and then you like it, it is the potential of the man, such as its working status, and its development potential. I can only live a happier and happier life with a man who has potential.

Personally, I think that girls still pay more attention to the politeness of boys when they go on blind dates, and if boys are polite, then they will definitely be able to leave a good impression on girls.

If on a blind date, girls pay more attention to the material aspects of boys, because now material is greater than love, and all love is established on the basis of material.

Pay more attention to the man's attitude towards himself, and see if the other party values himself more. Of course, the premise of these is that the eye is okay and the economic conditions are comparable.

I think it is more important to pay more attention to whether the man is self-motivated or not, because if a man is not self-motivated, there will be many problems in the future.

I want CCB to pay more attention to the talent of boys, or the aspect of dealing with people, because boys are the pillars of a family.

Family conditions, as well as appearance, these two are the most direct and can be seen directly.

Although dressing up is not the first place, a sloppy boy with long hair and long nails is easy to disgust.

Although it is not required to have a lot of money, at least a stable job can bring a sense of security to the future family, at least not a young man who is lazy and gnaws at the old.

Can you support yourself with the ability to work? To a good family. Or look at the sincerity of the man.

When going on a blind date, the girl pays more attention to the boy's appearance, clothes and work, if the boy is more handsome, the girl will have a much better attitude towards him.

I think it's family conditions.

Since they all come to go on a blind date, they must talk about some dry goods, such as how many suites you have, whether you have a car, how many people you have, what your parents do, whether you have brothers and sisters, etc. Most of the girls who are willing to go on a blind date are rushing to get married, so they have to face up to economic problems, after all, they can't drink the northwest wind together after marriage.

First of all, we must tell the truth, this is an era of appearance. The first instinct of a person's appearance is very important. Don't say so many grandiose words, I think everyone starts from reality, the first glance must be to see how this person looks, if his appearance is not high enough, I think your chances to meet for the second time may be very few, right?

Therefore, it is concluded that appearance is still very important when going on a blind date. Although we do not agree that everyone is a member of the Physiognomy Association, we must be deeply aware of how important physiognomy is for blind dates. Therefore, it is necessary to dress yourself up well before going on a blind date, people rely on clothes, and horses rely on saddles.

Secondly, let's talk about the actual content of the blind date. We've passed the physiognomy level. If the other person wasn't particularly ugly, I think we'd all continue to communicate.

So the content of the blind date chat has become a reference standard for considering the character of the other party, right? Everyone knows very well in their hearts that a person has only an appearance, but no actual content, and the character of such a person is very difficult to pass. Who will continue to associate with a person who has no character?

Isn't this self-deception and self-inflicted suffering?

To sum up, my own opinion:

When I went on a blind date, I told Wang Chai to look not only at appearance, but also at character, of course, the most important thing is character. The quality of character determines the quality of life, and the happiness of marriage directly depends on character. Do you agree?

It may be that the boy likes her, or the boy knows that the blind date is not a good person, the girl will not like it, and if he goes, he will go in vain, or he knows some secret that cannot be told, something that the girl does not know, and the boy overhears something from the window, so tell the girl not to go.

When going on a blind date, the girl may value the most is whether the boy is calm enough, because this is directly related to the future state of life. If the state shown by the boy on the blind date is not calm at all, then it is easy to cause the girl to feel that the boy is not concerned at all, and it may also make the girl feel that the boy is not reliable at all. Therefore, when a boy is on a blind date, if he wants to get a better result, he must first make himself look more stable.

Because blind date actually means that you want to find someone to live with, and only in this way can you embark on the road of blind date, so you should choose to deal with it in the right way as much as possible when you go on a blind date, and don't do bad behavior. Because the blind date itself is to allow yourself to get a other half who can live together, if you don't take it seriously in the process, then why should the other party be with you. <>

Therefore, when you go on a blind date, you should take into account your own state, and you should also consider the feeling you bring to the other party. Don't be particularly sloppy, and don't give people a particularly flirtatious feeling, which may cause girls to have an aversion to themselves, so don't shake your wit when you meet for the first time. <>

If you want to joke or make the other person happy, you can wait until you are familiar with it in the future. If you behave in this way now, it is easy to cause the other person to feel that you are a very frivolous person, so that your future behavior will appear in the eyes of the other party. Therefore, when girls pay attention to the places that girls will pay attention to, boys should work hard to adjust, only in this way can their success rate become greater.

When the blind date is bad, I think that women and children value the boy's character, economic conditions, whether they are responsible, and whether they are self-motivated; Because girls value these in order to know whether they will be happy in their future life.

The most important thing for girls is the character of boys. Because girls want to find a person with good character, they will also pay attention to each other's words and deeds and conversation in the process of blind date.

The character of the other party. If the other party's character is not good, no matter how rich or handsome the other party is, it is not suitable to be together.

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