What should I do if I am excluded in the dormitory?

Updated on workplace 2024-03-29
9 answers
  1. Anonymous users2024-02-07

    If being excluded by one person in the dormitory may be the reason for the other party, but if you are excluded by everyone, then it must be your own reason, and you must find shortcomings from yourself to get rid of the bad problems.

    There is a girl in the college dormitory who has a very bad personality, so the other people in the dormitory hate him very much, which also makes him not self-aware, and he lives very, very happily every day, but no one talks to him after returning to the dormitory, which also makes him very annoyed, and slowly he begins to change his bad habits, and really understands his bad problems like we do, and slowly other people in the dormitory begin to accept him.

  2. Anonymous users2024-02-06

    First of all, you should find the reason in yourself to see if you have some shortcomings in yourself, so they will exclude you, and you should take the initiative to communicate with them and take the initiative to be friends with them.

    When I first went to college, I was excluded by the dormitory people, and then I tried to make friends with them, and slowly they accepted me, and later I learned that the five of them came from the same school, and it was very normal to exclude me.

  3. Anonymous users2024-02-05

    If you are excluded in the dormitory, you must first find the reason from yourself, if you are liked, who will exclude you, so you must be kind, compare your heart to your heart, and care about the feelings of others, so that your popularity can become better.

    There is such a person around me, he never finds a reason in himself, he always feels that others have excluded him, and he doesn't know that he has been excluded by others because of what he has done, if you don't change yourself, you can only be excluded by others, and you will never be popular with others.

  4. Anonymous users2024-02-04

    The dormitory was full of different people, and because I had a tougher personality, I didn't take their feelings into account when talking to them, and we had a very serious disagreement.

    In the continuous contact later, I found that my character was particularly bad, a kind of disrespect for others, so I tried to correct it, and then the relationship with the people in the dormitory became more relaxed, and then we became very good buddies.

  5. Anonymous users2024-02-03

    I was in my dorm room, and I was ostracized by my roommates because I was so handsome, with a good body and high emotional intelligence, which led to a lot of girls pursuing me, and they were very jealous of me.

    But I don't like to live this kind of excluded life, so I told them that I still want to play with you, and after you have a heart-to-heart with them, they will not exclude me.

  6. Anonymous users2024-02-02

    My roommate will be ostracized in the dormitory, because he is a person with a more extreme personality, he has a better family condition since he was a child, and his parents' pampering of him has made him unsightly, so many times people will not choose to play with him.

    As we spend more and more time together, we get to know each other more and more, and we find that he is actually a very good person, and being able to play with everyone makes us feel that he is not particularly annoying, so I think we should learn more.

  7. Anonymous users2024-02-01

    I was ostracized by my roommates in the dormitory because I was so handsome, and as a result, I had a good body, high emotional intelligence, and I was very tall, which caused a lot of girls to chase me.

    Because I was both my girls chasing me at the same time, but I didn't know that they had a partner, and their object was still my roommate, which made my roommate misunderstand, and they both excluded me.

  8. Anonymous users2024-01-31

    I was often ostracized in the dormitory because I was so beautiful and I was in good shape, which caused a lot of boys to chase me and buy me a lot of good food.

    My sisters were very jealous of me, envious and jealous, and in the end they began to exclude me, which made me very unhappy, because I was also very innocent, and it was not my fault that I was popular. So I gave what the boys gave me to my sisters, and then my sisters stopped squeezing me.

  9. Anonymous users2024-01-30

    When I was in junior high school, I was ostracized in the dormitory because I had a tough personality and probably didn't consider my classmates' feelings when I talked to them.

    Later, when I realized this problem, I began to work hard to correct it, and when I talked to my classmates, I was very relaxed, and I would consider the feelings of other people and think twice before speaking.

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