What if there s a guy who has a hard time with you, but you don t want to fall out with him?

This kind of thing is generally difficult to do, since it is a friend, there must be other good places for him, so don't fall out and lose a friend, it's not worth it.

To such friends, 1You can persuade him or her, (in private, not in front of everyone) that this is not good. It's up to you.

2.If you can't listen, you can demonstrate and say polite words, and he will deliberately ignore him, and his left ear will listen to his right ear, and his ears will not be upset, and his eyes will not be clean. If you are indifferent to him and set an example for a while, you will naturally relent.

For example, the famous Hanshan Pick Up Q&A:

Hanshan asked: "If there are people in the world who slander me, bully me, insult me, laugh at me, despise me, despise me, dislike me, and deceive me for no reason, what should I do?" ”

He said, "You might as well endure him, humble him, let him, avoid him, be patient with him, respect him, ignore him, and in a few years, you will see him." ”

3.If he still doesn't change. So he directly ridiculed each other and beat him to death with a stick, leaving him speechless. (But also have a degree, don't hurt his feelings too much, hurt his self-esteem).

For example, Andersen was frugal and often walked the streets wearing a shabby hat.

What's that thing on your head? Can it be considered a hat? One of the guys laughed at him.

What's that thing under your hat? Can it be counted as a head? Andersen replied.

A good friend is tolerant and considerate, and even tolerates some shortcomings. Be harmonious.

If he is born with such a character, it is related to the living environment, and if he develops bad habits, you can't help him much, unless he is willing to correct it.

To see if he has a lot of troubles, or if his parents are always fighting, then you try to tell him how you feel, and if he is angry, then you can give him an example, in short, be direct or tactful, and let him know that he is disrespectful by doing this.

If you know that it is this character, and you know that its exit hurting people is only unintentional, it is just a habit, so why do you care too much?

The more a person cares about something, the more inferior his heart is to it. The more anxious a person is to show off something, just because it lacks it...

Discover his merits first. Look at him with appreciation, and you'll get something different.

No one will be changed by anyone

It's the same with life

Be yourself, stick to yourself, and grasp the principles

In order to have courage

If you don't have courage or character, you won't impress others.

Maybe that's the way he spoke.

You can first adapt to the personality of a person like him.

After getting along for a long time, I am hinting to him, a kind reminder.

Multiple friends, multiple paths.

This guy should be a little shy.

Since you don't like it, you have to make it clear from the beginning.

But don't shy away from it.

That's not good.

Love over time. How can there be so much love at first sight.

Make it clear to others as soon as possible, if you really don't want to have a relationship, you should have a showdown early, and it will hurt him if you don't say it!

You're a good guy and I'm sure you'll meet the right person.

There are some things, you give him hope, but do not accept him, it is the biggest harm, although we all like others to be good to us, but in order for him not to continue to hurt, just tell him.

Always hurt, don't like to make it clear, don't make excuses for fear of hurt, that's the biggest harm.

Say no at once, don't give any chance, if you can't afford to hurt, just hide, in fact, you can also find out, or he is really worthy of your love.

You are very good and have a good friendship and put it on your lips, let him know that in your heart your relationship is only friendship.

There is no way to force the feelings, they can only be reduced to the minimum.

Let yourself behave badly, let him think that it is good to be friends, but it is not suitable for ...... relationship

If you don't hurt him, he will understand that it is impossible.

You just have to be nice to him and don't think about anything. Confess to you and politely refuse, continue to be friends, and don't take the initiative anyway.

Directly rejecting what is good for you will hurt more after a long time.

Euphemistically refuses, you must refuse, you can't be unclear and let him misunderstand will hurt him even more.

Sing Zhang Shaohan to him, my dear, that's not love, you can understand it, and it doesn't hurt anyone.

Subtly hinting that he's not his favorite type.。。 He himself will sit down and retreat in the face of difficulties.

Quickly refuse and continue to be friends.

Be brave and say to him directly, let's be friends.

Quietly leave his (her) world and never see him (her) again! Understand???

Tell him the truth or tell him that he likes someone else.

Tactfully refuse: Hopefully, we've always been good friends.

Sleep with him and say 88

Then don't contact such a relationship after it may be unstable.

This is not too much, you are looking for security, you feel insecure around you, and this is the behavior that a man should be.

If you don't want to pay attention, don't say it, automatically stay away, and he will understand.

I'll tell him I'm sorry, I still have something. Something like that.

If we want to solve this fundamental problem, we should still know the basic common sense of impermanence and discriminating mind.

Ignore it, keep silent, ignore it.

Don't be too lazy to bird him, don't spoil my mood.

First of all, calm down, go with the flow, be calm, don't need to hate him much, be yourself, say when you should say, don't say it, if you show this kind of hate very white, others think you are too petty.

I hate it, so why do I want to get along day and night?? If you know that you are helpless, why bother? Bodhi has no tree, the mirror is not a platform, there is nothing originally, where to stir up dust.

You have to be calm, you can think about your shortcomings and the strengths of that person, life is not going as expected, face it calmly and wish you good luck.

You definitely have your reasons for hating him, but he may also have his reasons. If it's just hate, it's not good to change, and it's okay not to have deep friendships. It's okay to say hello in person.

If you have to get along, then you can only try to think about his good and think about his good points.

It's friends leaving, it's couples divorcing.

Just as if there is no such person, live your own life.

You're trying to ease the relationship! Or what?

He is strong by him, and the breeze blows the hills; He is crossed by him, and the bright moon shines on the river.

You should learn more from the city, and don't show your dissatisfaction on your face. You can understand that you are now enduring humiliation! The heavens will descend on you, and now you are suffering your mind! If you wait for the opportunity, get rid of him right away, or simply be more ruthless, you know ......

But I think the best thing to do is to try to accept it, to understand him, to understand him. After all, you have to partner (I guess). Suspicion leads to internal instability and is not conducive to work. If it can't be resolved, it can only eliminate this unstable factor ......

This is a hardware problem, no matter how good your software is, it is useless, it is better to change places, otherwise it will be in vain.

Look at the gentleman from afar, and respect the villain. Respect each other and keep a certain working distance.

There is no need to avoid it. The relationship between people is not that complicated. Everyone has strengths, you can think about his strengths and benefits, and gradually, you will feel that he is not what you thought he was. You're going to get along just fine.

Just kill it. Go to the vegetable market or supermarket and buy a kitchen knife and kill it at night". Just let the "" disappear. "Refers to one's own dissatisfaction and cowardice.

Try to understand his behavior, just get by on the face and don't care too much.

Discover the strengths of the other person. Get along with her or his strengths rather than his weaknesses. It shouldn't be that difficult to get along that way.

So does the person you hate hates you?

Just kill it, just kill it.

I don't know how to say it, I'm afraid of hurting him, but with people I don't like, I have to pretend to like it very much, and I really feel like I'm hypocritical.

If you don't like it, just make it clear to him, let him die to you early, and let him always have hope for you without saying anything.

This kind of thing, his injury is inevitable. Make it clear to him as soon as possible, the more he delays, the more it will hurt him. In fact, you can also consider choosing him, it is not easy to find someone in this world who is sincere to you. It's true.

Then make it clear to him in your own way, let him not have illusions and hopes, otherwise the more he pays, the more damage he will do, I deeply understand.

First of all, do not accept any invitation from him, do not accept anything from him, do not ask for any help from him. Just don't give him any hope and opportunity, after a long time he will naturally know that there is no hope.

Make it clear to him, and then bring him to your circle of friends so that he can meet your friends, so that he can have contact with other people of the opposite sex, and at the same time you are protected.

Without hurting the other person, show the relationship.

You can try to accept him, or just make it clear that it is also a responsible performance for him.

If you don't like it, tell him early, don't let him feel anything, lose him away.

You explain the situation to him, let him die early, and be good to you and him.

Be the first to make it clear to him! Be at a distance! Explain your relationship! Or accept him.

Keep your distance, or don't get in touch.

Tell him this sooner. Don't give him hope.

It seems to be similar to my type, so I can only call him out and talk to him, and make it clear.

The longer the time drags on, the deeper the other party will hurt.

Slowly distance, not too obvious.

Give him back the kindness he has done to you, and he will quit himself!

What does it mean not to want to break his heart?

There must be a reason why I hate a copy.,I'm also a person who hates it but can't ignore it.,In fact, you can behave like to ignore when the other party is looking for you.,So he slowly understands.,I won't look for you anymore.,The process should be gradual.,Don't worry.,I hope my answer can help you.。

If you dislike a person, that person will definitely be able to detect it, and then the two people will be estranged from each other.

Every time I saw him, I ignored him, didn't talk to him, and didn't even look at him with my eyes.

Gradually indifferent to him, after a long time, he will feel your thoughts, time is the best way.

Actually, time is a good method.

Then stay away.

Don't see her. It'll be fine after a while.

There is a choice to live in a different place.

What should I do if I hate someone? You don't have to turn your face with him, teach you two tricks, and the road can get wider and wider.

Do you mean that you want him to ignore you?

Let's go away and end the bondage in your heart.