Three days after the burial is still seven days

Buried in three days.

It will be very reluctant for a loved one to pass away, so there has been a habit since ancient times that the deceased should be buried for seven days until the founding of New China.

It was later changed to three days for the deceased.

During the Warring States Period, there was a miracle doctor named Bian Que.

One day, when the divine doctor heard that the prince had died suddenly, the divine doctor asked several questions in a row and said that he could save the prince, but many people did not believe it, because people were already dead, how could even a divine doctor save people? At first, everyone just asked the divine doctor to try it, and after a divine doctor's examination, it was found that the prince was just chaotic qi and blood and yin and yang imbalance.

That's why I lost consciousness. This kind of fake death is a fake death, and then the divine doctor administers needles and prescribes medicine, and the prince wakes up not long after. These deceased were resurrected by divine doctors, but in fact, they were not really dead, but only temporarily showed signs of death, such as temporary lack of heartbeat and breathing.

After being treated by the divine doctor, he slowly woke up, so everyone thought that the divine doctor had a way to bring the dead back to life, which is why everyone put the body for a few days.

Burial customs: After the burial, people must wash their hands, and some of them must wash with wine. This means that no one will die in the future, and it is used to dispel bad luck.

Then the bereaved family thanked the drummers and guests. After that, a funeral ceremony is held to worship the spirit of the deceased.

In some places, after the resignation, as long as the relatives have to eat together, this is called grabbing the last meal.

in Jiangsu and Zhejiang. Drink with it"Longevity soup", eat"Longevity beans"customs. That is to say, after the death of an elderly person over the age of 70, the mourner should prepare a large vat of meat and bone broth on the day of the funeral"Longevity soup", a large pot of boiled yellow cancan.

of soybeans, that is"Longevity beans"。When the mourners come back, they have to drink a small bowl of longevity soup and eat some longevity beans at will, which means"Blessing and longevity"。

In some places, fragrant and glutinous longevity beans are distributed to children in the neighborhood to eat, saying that if you eat longevity beans, you will live longer in the future.

Depending on your local customs, we generally say 3 days, 5 days, and 7 days! However, generally after a person dies, he will invite a Yin and Yang Mr. who can read feng shui to come over, and then they will calculate the most suitable time for him to be buried according to the time of death. Usually there are only three options, which we call platoon 3, platoon 5, and platoon 7 locally.

The three days after the burial are as follows:

1.Funeral taboos: In terms of taboos, there are many precautions related to the deceased. For example, the deceased cannot be buried before dawn, cannot see the sun, cannot hand over the burned paper money empty-handed, and cannot touch the clothes of the deceased by pregnant women, pregnant women, and those who wear filial piety.

2.Time of burial: In terms of time, different regions have different burial customs. For example, in some places, the deceased is buried on the second or third day after his death, in some places, he is buried on a day three days after the funeral, and in some places, Mr. Yin and Yang is invited to choose an auspicious day for burial.

3.Warm Tomb: Before the burial, there is a step to warm the tomb. The meaning of the warm tomb is that the deceased can feel the warmth of home and rest in the ground with peace of mind.

4.Paper burning: After the burial, there is a step to burn paper for the funeral. It is a traditional way of commemorating the deceased so that the deceased can receive paper money incinerated by their families.

In addition, three days after the funeral, the earth round grave should be added again, which is the experience of the older generation summed up from the actual life experience, and there is a certain truth.

The customs of the three-day round tomb are different in various places, and after the burial, there are seven days to burn the head, three seven, five seven and 100 days and anniversaries.

After the completion of the new soil filling of the round grave ceremony, the descendants of the grandchildren and granddaughters in the family need to hold hands and circle the front and back directions of the cemetery, turning 3 times each, which means that the deceased will step on the new courtyard and open the gate. According to the folk funeral exquisiteness, only the descendants of the deceased's loved descendants can step on the new courtyard of the deceased's yin house and open the door to communicate with the yang world, so as to receive the sacrifices of the descendants.

The final step of the round grave ceremony is to place offerings to the deceased. Most of the offerings are fruits, steamed buns, wine, etc., and some families will also put some foods that the deceased liked during their lifetime. In the old round tomb ceremony, while placing sacrifices, incense candles and paper foil are usually burned, and now the country advocates the protection of the environment, civilized sacrifices, in addition to the normal display of fruits, cakes and other sacrifices, incense candle paper foil is mostly replaced by flowers.

With the progress of the times, due to factors such as the shortage of land resources, the form of burial in modern cities has gradually replaced the old cemetery mound by the cemetery, but the round tomb ceremony three days after the burial still continues to this day.

At present, when the round grave is filled with new soil, most of the family members will bring a small bag of soil from their hometown or the soil near the imperial tomb with a red blessing bag, and sprinkle it around the cemetery when filling the grave, and at the same time complete the round grave ceremony, it means to fill in the blessings. With the development of the times, what has changed is the form, and what has not changed is the mourning.

It is counted from the day of his death.

Qiqi, that is, after the death of a person, set up a spiritual seat from the "first seven" to offer the wood master, cry and worship every day, offer sacrifices in the morning and evening, do a Buddha service every seven days, set up fasting and sacrifice, and then remove the spirit on the 49th day of "77".

There is no record of this custom in the Han Dynasty, which is about to be related to the introduction of Buddhism into China, and it has been practiced more in the Northern and Southern Dynasties, and it has not changed in later generations. Buddhism's "Yoga Treatise" says that after a person dies, in order to seek a fate, he takes seven days as a period, and if he ends seven days, he does not have a fate, then he continues for seven days, and at the end of the seventh seven days, he will give birth to a place, so there is a period of "seven seven" and the custom of being recommended every seven.

A person dies for 7749 days, and the number of days is counted from the day of death, and of course the day of burial is also a more important day.

Is it okay to be buried for three days without regretting the tomb of Naranyuan?

According to folk law, the closest people should go to the cemetery. You can sacrifice it, or you can turn it back. What do you mean?

The purpose of going around is to see if there are other things happening, whether there are any unsatisfactory things missing from the burial, rainy days, and checking whether the cemetery has collapsed, the need to cultivate soil, repair drainage channels, and so on. This is also to make a sacrificial site for Yiqi to see how many people can come, how to place it, how to place the sacrifices and so on. The main expression is the reluctance to let relatives leave.

Willing to do this funeral smoothly means.

Some of the sayings in folklore can be followed or ignored.

If the person in charge of the family has already filtered these things on the day of the funeral, he can not go to the three-day grave.

But usually, if you don't go to the round grave for three days, you should have as many people as possible and make all the sacrifices when you handle the "17" (this sacrifice is usually purchased by the person closest to the deceased. The deceased's favorite food, wine, and tea should be embellished). To show the importance of the family and the people in the family to the deceased.