How to improve life cultivation?

People's self-cultivation is acquired, and the ruthlessness of the people around you may affect your future What kind of people are you with, aren't you?How big the heart is, the stage is yours, believe in yourself.

In order to improve one's self-cultivation, one should do the following six things: The first is stillness. Talk less, listen more.

Because people who love to talk have lost a bit of quiet beauty. Moreover, if you say too much, you will lose. There is a saying that thinks before you act, and what I want to say here is that think before you speak.

Even on the Internet, a platform that relies on language to communicate, too much speech can be annoying. When you want to speak, say to yourself, don't say it to anyone else, because almost no one wants to listen now, except for her. The second is slow.

There is a admonition that is quick to do what you say, and I think that in a certain situation and a certain environment, it should be slow to do what you say. I've already tasted the sweetness of "slowing down". You do things too fast, and sometimes, you just do a good job, and the leader thinks you don't need to do it.

Moreover, if you are too enthusiastic, a subtle psychology, he will not be so comfortable, thinking that there is something special in it. There is also an advantage that you can take a shortcut to success on the basis of the failures of others. But this often leads to a lot of missed opportunities.

Anyway, it's not about doing business, and there's no need to grab the market. The point is that people who are too capable will become the object of envy and defensiveness. The third is forbearance.

In the face of injustice, don't be angry, don't vent. First, anger hurts the body, and second, anger does not solve the problem. "There is the stomach to tolerate those things that cannot be changed, the courage to change those things that can be changed, and the wise man to distinguish between the two kinds of things.

These are the three qualities that a successful person should have. Since there are some things that cannot be done by one person, why not sit on the sidelines? venting dissatisfaction will only let others watch the show.

The fourth is let. Major issues of right and wrong involve issues of principle, which cannot be backed down, and decisions must be made by individuals; But for the little things, try to listen to other people's opinions. If you can do what others think, you don't stick to your own opinions.

Take a step back and open the sky. And if it is done according to the opinions of others, the mistakes are also shared. Fifth, light.

Everything is a little more downplayed. To fame and fortune, to money, to feelings. There is nothing that cannot be lived without it.

Gain and loss are also dialectical, and if you lose in this area, your mind will be freed and you will have the opportunity to try other options. The opportunity cost in economics is more suitable here, the more you look at it, the more calm your mind is, and the more you can experience ordinary happiness. Sixth, flat.

It's ordinary, it's bland, it's balance. The disadvantage of having edges and corners is that it is easy for others to bite you. Thoughts exist outside of work.

If a person can unify his thoughts and actions in his work, he is a leader with decisive power. There's a popular saying on the Internet: "As far as your thoughts go, you roll out."

In a public institution, your thoughts can only exist within the scope of your right to make decisions. Although ordinary people have no color, they tend to survive the longest. People want to live a wonderful life, but first of all, they must be able to survive and not be kicked out.

A student who has a job said, "For work, you must believe in materialism; For life, we must believe in idealism. "Therefore, we need to have close friends and a safe space for ourselves to express our thoughts. There, we can show our extraordinary.