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Think carefully about the objective conditions between you and her, and if you have the possibility of being together, then don't give up just because of your parents' opposition. If you do have something to do, you can't do it. For example, if you don't have a stable job, don't have the financial ability to take on a new family, your studies haven't ended, your future direction is still unclear, or you don't have a good space for development, then you should give up and try to enrich yourself first, whether it is in terms of ability or financial resources.
I think the reason why her mother disagrees is here, and I feel that you can't afford to shoulder the responsibility of a family.
Happiness needs to be pursued, but everything is two-sided, and while you want to be happy, you also need to have the ability to bear the responsibility that happiness brings.
It's not just that you think you can give her happiness that you will be able to do this. Think about your own conditions and make a rational choice.
Courage to pursue happiness is commendable, but rational consideration and decisive decision to give up can better reflect a man's endurance.
Love is a luxury, and only when material conditions allow it, can you be qualified to taste its sweetness. Otherwise, love will give you nothing but pain.
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Go on
With such a little difficulty, I flinched.
What will I do in the future?
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If you think it's worth pursuing, then you should, and if you feel that your relationship will evolve into other forms in the future, you should let go of the relationship and find what you think is real.
It's painful for her parents to disagree, so if you think it's worth it, go and try to get her parents to the point. Good luck.
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Trust your feelings
You must grasp your own happiness
Don't let yourself be left with regrets
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Do you like her, if you like it, go for it.
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If you have real feelings, online dating is separated by a network cable, and two people in front of two screens get along on the Internet. After all, it's not completely living together in reality, so if it's not the pursuit of platonic love, online dating will eventually be rushing. And the ending of Ben Xian also determines whether the relationship is real or not, not your own fantasy on the Internet.
There is an example around me, I have a little aunt and uncle who met online and got married. The dowry or everything is saved, and the aunt's house is far away. This is the envy of our relatives for a while.
Of course, after all, online dating doesn't know what the real situation of the other party is, and what the purpose is, there will be scumbags, **, all kinds of situations of cheating money and sex under the pretense of online dating. This situation cannot be avoided in real life, so it is still necessary to be cautious.
Online dating may be successful or it may be a light death, keep your eyes open and be cautious.
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It depends on your luck, everything is not absolute, so online dating naturally has true feelings, but you need to pay more attention, and it always doesn't hurt to be cautious.
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The so-called online dating is nothing special, it is just that they meet online, which is no different from offline. There are good online objects, and there are good offline objects; Online objects can be disguised, and offline objects can also be disguised; True feelings** are true feelings both online and offline, and false feelings are false feelings both online and offline.
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There is no certain standard for feelings, it is based on personal feelings.
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I think you should let it go.
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