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Kid, you're only 12 years old this year, you're too young, I don't mind if you confess to the guy you like. <>
In fact, at your age, you don't know what love is or what love is, but you think that the other party is handsome, or relatively clean, and more manly, so we like to play with him, study together, and so on.
Actually, this is not love.
If you have a good impression of him, don't say it, keep it in your heart, it is very pure for you.
You can be good friends, talk about everything, help each other in life and study, communicate with each other, and make your learning better.
Don't compare in other aspects, in learning, do better than learning to catch up and help out, so that you can make progress together, learn together, and do not delay learning.
Although it is said that early love is very common now, I advise you, it is best not to, too fast, I stepped into the circle of feelings too early, from a person who has come before, every relationship may be hurt.
So, don't step into the thunder pool too early, if it's really like this, you have received a lot of damage, at this time, you have to remember that your family is your strong backing.
Don't hold anything to yourself, be sure to tell them and let them give you ideas. If you are sad or sad, tell them that they will definitely help you get through the difficulties, after all, your parents are people who have come over and have experienced more, so they know more, and we should listen to their words more and keep them in mind. Every parent, no matter what he does, is for the good of his children, only the love of parents for their children is selfless, unreciprocated, and selfless.
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This child, liking someone is a very happy thing, before the confession, liking a person is just your own business, if you confess, this matter will involve two people, or even more people. Therefore, you must first think clearly about the level of affection you have for this guy and whether the surrounding conditions and circumstances are suitable for you to confess to him.
If you just have a crush on this guy and just an appreciative attitude, then it is not recommended that you confess. Because we will have a good impression of many people in our lives, and a good impression may not necessarily develop into love, and only love is worthy of our confession.
If you are sure that you really like this guy, then you have to analyze his situation rationally. If he has a girlfriend and is not interested in other girls, then it is not advisable for you to confess, because if he is a single-minded boy, your confession will not succeed, and if he is not single-minded, it is not worth risking you to be with him.
If he doesn't have a girlfriend now, you can look at his character to see if he is a little more mature and stable. If he is someone who doesn't like to learn and causes trouble everywhere, then what you get from this relationship may not be growing together, but probably falling together. So, we may fall in love with a lot of people, but be sure to choose someone who can grow with us.
If he meets all of the above conditions, then you can test whether he rejects you. You can chat with him by asking questions, attending events with him, etc., to see if he is willing to talk to you. If he doesn't reject you, you can take some cue ways to confess to him, such as giving him some books, birthday gifts, etc.
I'm sure he'll understand your mind.
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What do you mean by liking? I want to be at the same table with him, I want to give him my snacks, I want to meet him on the way to school, I want to go home with him after school, I will be shy or shout uncle and aunt when I see his parents, and you will applaud him vigorously when the teacher praises him. That's right, it's like.
However, do you want to study hard with him, because he wants to get a little higher in math scores, a little better in essays, and a little better in spoken English?
I think the best way is to try to reach the same level, and being on the same page is the best way to get the other person's attention. His academic performance is the first place, and you will strive to be the first place; If he runs the fastest, you will also strive for the first place; If he is the squad leader, you will be the deputy squad leader; If his grades are not good, you will explain the topic to him; If he can't run fast in physical education class, you will run slowly with him; If he can't finish his homework, you will do the class, and the representative will accept his homework. Slowly he will pay attention to you, and he may think, why do you have it?
It's like buying a toy, you will always look at it if you like it, and wherever you go to the supermarket, you will see if there is the one you want, and keep asking your mother to buy you that toy. The details can give people a deep effect, tactful and shallow, and it is good to take it slowly.
But to put it simply, you can pass notes, chat, buy snacks, and greet you seriously. Of course, the most important thing is not to delay studying, and it is best to learn together and get better together. After all, thousands of small notes and snacks are not as good as two people being admitted to the same junior high school at the same time, and then studying, playing, eating, and going home together, right?
Maybe you tell him, "You are the joy of youth," and read it backwards.
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12 years old should still be in elementary school, I don't think you really need to confess a boy, because the current post-00s are simply beyond the imagination of our old people, if you are all so unrestrained, why not be a good brother and buddy with him, there is no need to be together.
I especially want to tell a story to children, that is, now statistics, the proportion of homosexuals in China is getting higher and higher, I think it may be because the little girls like to learn from the role of Andy played by Liu Tao since they were young, always flirting with little boys, and taking the initiative to confess to little boys, causing these boys to become more and more feminine and turn these boys into girls.
Who is a little girl's family still has to be reserved, don't pay attention to the boy you like, if he likes you, he will naturally come to confess to you, you have a personality does not mean that he has no personality, you can show that you like him, but there is no need to take the initiative to chase him, in case you chase him and find that he doesn't like you, or he likes someone else, for you, it's not a good news, and it will hurt your young heart.
In fact, 12 years old is not suitable for falling in love, because you don't know what it means to fall in love, the meaning of these three words is too great, these three words you can learn to write is already very good, why do you have to turn this into a fact?
When I was 12 years old, I also liked a little girl in my class, but I never confessed to her, and I never told him, because I felt embarrassed, embarrassed to speak, and when I grew up, I thought it was good, because this girl changed a lot, and it became something that I didn't like at all, and I became a little bit despised by me.
So the variables you have now are still very big, even if you are in your 20s and fall in love, you can't guarantee that your boyfriend or girlfriend can be the same as before, and when he changes, you can't guarantee whether you can still accept him after the change!
And when you recall, you will know why you were blind and chased such a person, and you will definitely regret it, because when children grow up, the change in appearance is also very terrifying.
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It's best not to confess, because you are now in the learning stage and younger, what you have to do is to study hard, work hard to improve yourself in all aspects, and when you are really good, he will naturally be attracted to you without you confessing, so work hard.
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Alas....How can children be like this all these days...I don't know true love, just 5 points in you, you're in the sixth grade, and you're not too young....
It's better to write a letter, but if the girl is a loudspeaker, don't write a letter, the whole school will know about it, and if it reaches the teacher's ears, it's not good. The teacher is very strict, and the QQ is better. Do something unique to get him hooked up, get her attention on you, and don't do things that disrupt classroom discipline and demean herself.