How do college students from rural areas choose their marriage?

All men are equal in marriage. Regardless of your birth, you have the right to choose your own marriage.

However, many rural college students will have some concerns, consider their family background, and dare not pursue a better partner than their own conditions. It may be related to the teaching of parents since childhood, they always say that they can't find a very good condition, but find a simple one that suits them, and they want to be closer to home. In short, there are a lot of constraints.

Therefore, college students who come from rural areas do not think about objects far away.

In fact, I personally feel that if you meet the right person, regardless of his birth, don't let your life experience bind your hands and feet, and boldly pursue your own happiness. If you keep thinking that you are, rural, and you don't deserve it, and you don't deserve that person, it's actually a very stupid idea, why do you have this idea? Fate is predestined.

There may be people in real life, and in some hearsay, there may be. They don't have the right door, they won't be happy or disliked. But if the two of you love each other genuinely.

Although it is a little different from each other's family, as long as you are sincere to others and understand their thoughts, they may not be able to accept you at first, but slowly they will feel your goodness and may accept you.

Nothing is impossible in this world, as long as you dare not do it. There are many people who say that if you don't have the same level of finance, don't go to a very rich person, which will make others look down on you. If people look down on you, will she or him be with you?

What does he covet for you? But if you're rich and the other party has a crush on you, it's the same thing! We all have to keep our eyes open and see each other clearly.

This is a crucial step towards a happy marriage.

I think that if people work hard, there will always be a reward, although from the village, it does not mean everything, it is indeed worse than those children of rich families, but it is not necessarily inferior to others in all aspects. People from rural areas have the qualities of rural origin, which others do not have, so there is no need to feel inferior.

We can try to make up for the congenital deficiencies through acquired efforts, the key is that you have to work hard, if you work hard, you don't have to care too much about how to choose the object of marriage, no matter what your background, there will be a person you love, the person who loves you appears, maybe she is from a rural background, maybe she is a scholarly family, maybe she is a rich second generation, no matter what, you can live together, so don't feel unworthy of a marriage because of your origin, you must know that the most important thing in marriage is love, It is self-denial, not birth.

You can stay in the big city, or you can go back to your hometown, but no matter where you are, you don't want your other half to be wronged, you have to consider his feelings, I don't recommend that you live with your parents, it will make your other half uncomfortable, she will be uncomfortable, and there will be pressure on her in the relationship between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law, if you go home, it is also recommended that you live separately from your parents, the Chinese tradition is not good in this regard, it will be good abroad, they are not living with their parents, because people eventually have to leave their parents and unite with each other, Two people accompany each other to the end.

If you are far away from your parents, it is recommended that you go back to see your parents several times a year, and also deal with the relationship between your parents. If you are planning to get married, you must be mentally prepared not to find your parents for everything, you are a bridge between your parents, and you must take care of them both financially and spiritually.

College students born in rural areas should choose their own marriage, and it is better to choose female college students who have left the countryside. Living habits are the same, easy to get along with.

There are still options for this thing.,Whoever you like, chase it.。 Don't care where you come from, as long as you have the ability who will care if you are from the countryside or not. Heroes don't ask where to go.

It is definitely necessary to choose three views to be more positive, and the two of them are compatible, and they really like to live a life. In fact, whether it is a college student in the city or a college student in the countryside, everyone relies on reading to change their fate, so if you want to live a better life, you must let yourself develop better and better, so that you can find someone who matches you.

At this time, it depends on whether you want to go back to your hometown to develop, or to go to the outside world to explore, you will always meet a person who is particularly suitable for you, not that you can only go to the countryside to find a girl after graduating from rural college, nor do you have to find a girl in the city, but you need to find a girl who is consistent with your three views and can live with you for a lifetime.

After graduating from rural university, you should choose the partner you like, whether you live in the city or go home to start a business, you must choose the object that suits you, so that you will be happier in your future marriage.

Marriage really pays attention to the right family, it does not mean that the rich find the rich, the poor can only find the poor. It means that the three views must be consistent, and the families and parents of both sides must have the same three views.

After graduation, rural college students should choose their own marriage, and it is best to choose the right one, and there will be fewer contradictions in their future life, or the other half who has the same three views.

First of all, you should make your continuous efforts to become very good, and you have a very good grasp of your temperament, so that you can freely choose your own marriage, and you must choose a person who is on the same level as yourself.

After graduating from a rural college student, if you are very good and have the ability to establish a foothold in the city. You can choose a girlfriend in the city, and if you don't have the ability to gain a foothold in the city, you must come home early to choose a blind date.

In such a situation, I think you should respect your life and heart, and you should also go with the flow, meet the right marriage, and don't settle if you don't meet the right one.

After graduating, rural college students should choose a person who is very topical with them and is very suitable in all aspects, and try to fall in love before getting married.

If you are in a big city and you are going to continue working, you can stay in the big city and look for it, and if you plan to go back to your hometown, you can find it among your former classmates.

The best way is to find a job first, and if you have a stable income, you will have a certain economic foundation in the future, and you will get married much more smoothly in the future.

Choose a right person, choose one who loves you very much, so that two people can be very happy for the rest of their lives.

We should not be afraid to pursue happiness because we were born, we should strive to improve ourselves so that we can attract others.

Follow your heart, if you like it, try your best to chase it, leave no regrets, and live your own life.

You should choose the right person with your own door, you must have the right three views, the right interests, and you must not give in.

At this time, you should choose someone you like, and you should improve your energy and try to meet the requirements of the other person.

I think it's better to look at it rationally, don't be tied up by your family, and marry the right person.

Have you watched the TV series Mendi? If you haven't seen it, I recommend you check it out. In China, marriage is the right one, and now it is no exception, don't listen to nonsense such as "find a good partner, work hard for 20 years" and so on, that is not a post and unrealistic ideas, otherwise, you can only knock out your teeth and swallow it in your stomach, and accept your own suffering.

The country children found a wife in the city, and more people thought it was very beautiful and talented. However, the wife has never been to his country home in her life, and this scene is not an ordinary sight; The wife has never let the grandparents of the children go to see the children, and there are many such scenes. As far as I know, in more cases, these people have become negative teaching materials for rural education.

Differences in economy and concept constitute an "asymmetrical marriage", you not only face an object that makes you climb high, but also face a mother-in-law or mother-in-law or sister-in-law who does not look down on you, and people want dignity, especially men, will stop struggling and confrontation for their own dignity, which makes the marriage enter a temporary period of resistance and confrontation after a long honeymoon period, and the consequences are difficult to consummate.

Therefore, if you are a college student from the countryside, you had better find a college student of the opposite sex from the countryside, and the two of you will work together, and the process of hard work can be difficult, but the consequences of your efforts will be more and more cherished.

College students from rural areas often place their hopes on their families and even more. Therefore, they will work harder to gain a foothold in the city and no longer live a life with their backs to the loess like their parents. However, for the marriage and love problems of rural college students after graduation, many people will take it out for comparison and "research", and maximize the impact of "rural origin".

But not all rural college students will be at a disadvantage in the cities.

The relatively difficult environment since childhood has created a strong character. They know how to cherish opportunities and seize opportunities, and it is easier for them to seize the tail of competition and catch the train of struggle. Therefore, many rural college students have made certain achievements through their own efforts after graduation.

Their own conditions are no worse than those of urban college students, so they do not have to deliberately emphasize their "rural characteristics" when choosing marriage.

However, some college students from rural areas, like some urban people, have been affected by the bad social atmosphere and have taken material things too seriously, and have learned to use "extraordinary" means to obtain some additional benefits, including exchanging marriage for material things. When they face marriage, they often take the other party's economic foundation as the most important consideration, and strive to "marry well" so as not to suffer from their own struggles. But this choice carries them a great risk of falling into a family or financial crisis if they are not careful.

Therefore, college students from the countryside should still rely on their own efforts, earn capital to live in the city in a down-to-earth manner, prove themselves by their own strength, and let the other party in the marriage respect you. Those rural college students who choose to marry into a wealthy family or become a phoenix man because of their poor family conditions will be in a very passive state in marriage, and they will not get the respect that the other party and family members deserve.

Marriage is an emotionally based union, and it should not be used as a tool of exchange for material things because of the "rural" factor.

Personally, I think this kind of thing still needs to rely on feelings!

College students from rural areas are generally more struggling because they know that they need to work hard to get all kinds of things they want. Because from the countryside to the university, the vision is no longer the limited vision of the frog in the well, and few people are willing to return to the countryside.

And for marriage, there are the following views:

1. Life is not easy, if you don't choose a marriage that relies on love, how can you be worthy of your own hardship?

2. The marriage partner must be tolerant, able to understand himself, and able to accept his family sincerely. After all, it was only by taking over his own family that he proved his wholehearted understanding of himself.

3. Find an interesting person to marry. The kind where two people are together, and they don't get bored even if they don't talk.

4. Find a positive and sunny person to marry. Positive and sunny people are together, and no matter how many tribulations in life they have, they can get through it safely.

5. Finally, the important premise mentioned above is that you must first strive to be financially independent and be able to not rely on others, so that you can have your own confidence whether you are in love or in marriage.

I think it's worth discussing this issue, because I'm also from the countryside, and I'm the first person in my village to be admitted to university, so I'm the hope of my village and my parents, so I have to study hard to make the people in my village proud of me, and at the same time, let my parents be happy with me in the future. So, after I graduated, some of the marital questions about me came!

Of course, there are some college students from rural areas who will find a girlfriend in college, and they may want to enter the marriage hall after graduating from college, but they have suffered obstacles due to family reasons, for this part of the people, I think you should try to change yourself, put marriage behind and make yourself stronger, so that you feel that you are capable enough to build a perfect family.

There are also some people who feel that they are from the countryside, so they will feel inferiority complex, they feel that they will look rustic in the big city, so they have never been in love during college, and they have just graduated from college and listened to their parents and found a girl in the village to be with her for the rest of their lives.

Because you don't live in the countryside like children in the city, your parents are not so rich, if he takes you out of college, it will also cost a lot of money, so they will not have extra money to buy you a house, and now marriage, whether it is rural or urban, marriage must have a house, which should be the minimum requirement for women, so your current situation is very embarrassing, after you go to college, you spend all the money in the family, then you have no money to buy a house, You may still be a person with dreams and pursuits, and if you don't go to college, your dreams will be shattered, and you don't know how to go about the rest of the day.

So with your current status, it is actually very difficult for you to choose a partner, and the best way is actually to find one in school and keep going, otherwise it will be difficult for someone to find you in the society! In fact, I think the best way is to go with the flow, and you don't have to be too picky, because your own conditions are not particularly good, so you have to find someone who is as compatible with you, and has a common topic with you, and there are really few people who don't dislike you, so it's better to go with the flow.