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Causes of suspicion and how to overcome it:
1. Improve psychological quality and pay attention to the cultivation of personal ideological quality. The main causes of suspicion are narrow-mindedness, short-sightedness, and lack of energy. We should strengthen the cultivation of ideology and morality, strive to be broad-minded, and learn the method of "being strict with ourselves and being lenient with others."
Don't worry too much about some small negligence and small grievances of others about yourself, linger on them, and maintain grace and generosity.
2. Trust others. Suspicious people have incorrect value psychology about interpersonal relationships, always look at people with a suspicious eye, are wary of others, refuse to tell the truth, or wear a mask to interact with people, which makes people feel annoyed. Trust is a two-way process, only sincere to others, others can treat you sincerely, trust others will inevitably win the trust of others.
Trust is an important magic weapon for handling interpersonal relationships well, and it is also an important way to overcome suspicion.
3. We must learn to look at people and deal with things comprehensively and dialectically. Skeptics often think too badly of others, see things too badly, analyze problems too complicated, and rely on subjective imagination to make conclusions, which often do not match the facts. Then, when encountering signs of suspicion, we must keep a cool head, have a comprehensive understanding, analyze objectively, and treat people and things in line with the principle of seeking truth from facts.
Do not believe rumors about what has happened or is about to happen, do not be subjectively tired, think more about the advantages of others, look at the strengths of others, and carry out positive self-suggestion. This nips suspicion in the bud.
4. Solve doubts and doubts in a timely manner. In the process of interpersonal communication, misunderstandings with each other will inevitably happen. Once a misunderstanding occurs, first of all, we must calm down and adjust our mentality; secondly, be calm, open and honest, and put the problem on the table; Then use a kind attitude, a sincere attitude, a way of discussion, and trust the explanations of others to restore the truth and reach a consensus.
Timely explanation of doubts and doubts not only corrects the distorted facts, but also turns incomprehension into understanding, distrust into trust, disharmony into harmony, and improves and promotes the healthy development of interpersonal relations.
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Suspicion is the heart of suspicion, which refers to unfounded speculation and suspicion, and is often derogatory.
Suspicion is common to all, and it can make people more vigilant, which is a kind of self-defense mechanism.
If suspicion does not cause distress to the lives of individuals and others, it is not a psychological problem. If this hyper-alert state makes oneself tired and makes others stay away, then it is necessary to try to make changes whether it is a psychological problem or not.
People who are overly suspicious are too distrustful of the people and things around them, suspect that everyone is scheming on them, and think that others often have other intentions when they say and do things, and they need to be highly vigilant to ensure safety.
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From a psychological point of view, suspicion is one of the common psychology. Suspicion is one of the weaknesses of human nature. People who are suspicious think too much, think about the bad in everything, the speaker has no intention, the listener has intention, chasing after the wind and shadows, and creating something out of nothing.
As Bacon said, "The heart of suspicion is like a bat, it always takes off in the twilight." This mood is confusing, confusing and confusing, and it can lead you to confusion, confuse friend and foe, and thus destroy people's careers.
Suspicion is manifested in the process of communication, self-implication tendency is too heavy, what is self-implication too heavy, that is, always feel that everything else will be related to oneself, and be overly sensitive and suspicious of others' words and deeds. <>
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The criminal police are not seriously suspicious, and the murderer will get away with it.
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Suspicious means that a person is more suspicious. Likes to be suspicious of things or people around them, which is usually caused by a lack of security. The overall manifestation is a distrust of everything around us.
The more famous figure is Cao Cao.
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