What are the things you can t forgive your partner the most?

Updated on psychology 2024-06-03
12 answers
  1. Anonymous users2024-02-11

    Of course, it's a betrayal, I think this is the most unacceptable thing for everyone, he can achieve nothing, he can look ordinary and live an ordinary life, but he can't be loyal.

  2. Anonymous users2024-02-10

    Deceit. The most important thing for two couples is trust, if one party fails to live up to the trust of the other party, then it also means that the marriage has come to an end, there is no need to talk about it, and it will never be seen again.

  3. Anonymous users2024-02-09

    The last thing I can forgive my partner for being too intimate with the opposite sex. I wish he could block out all the distractions from the outside world and be nice to me alone, but in fact, he seems to be nice to everyone.

  4. Anonymous users2024-02-08

    I can't forgive my partner for hiding from me to play with friends of the opposite sex, if you take me with you, I won't mind, if I hide it I think there must be something wrong with them.

  5. Anonymous users2024-02-07

    As long as it doesn't touch the bottom line, I will choose to forgive. Because there is no perfect man, as long as it is not a matter of principle, there is no sign of forgiveness.

  6. Anonymous users2024-02-06

    I would forgive someone who betrayed me, but it won't be easy.

    First, I had to figure out the details of the betrayal. This is necessary so that I can determine if his dissenting behavior has really hurt me. If his actions did hurt me, I would consider his motives and whether he realized what he was doing would hurt me.

    Eggplant digging dough. If I find out that his motives are well-intentioned and that he wants to help me, I may forgive him.

    After all, he did so with good intentions, not out of malice.

    But if it is found that his motive is malicious, that he is doing something that is unfair, then I am unlikely to forgive him. Because this behavior is not only unfair to me, but also irresponsible.

    In addition, I have to consider his subsequent actions and whether he is really responsible for his actions. If he has a sense of responsibility and really recognizes that his actions are wrong, it may be easier to forgive him.

    In addition, I will consider what kind of consequences I will have if I forgive him. Sometimes, forgiveness makes me healthier for myself, allows me to release more enthusiasm and energy, and I find myself happier, more empowered, and more vibrant.

    However, sometimes forgiveness brings more harm, and he may abuse my forbearance and continue to do something improper. I wouldn't forgive him if I found out that his actions were potentially dangerous.

    In conclusion, it is not easy to forgive a person who has betrayed me, and I will consider his motives, his subsequent actions, and what the consequences of forgiveness will bring to me before deciding whether to forgive him or not.

  7. Anonymous users2024-02-05

    Because it is not easy to be vague when you like love celery to get quiet, two people love and cherish each other, as long as the other party is not a principled mistake, basically you can forgive each other.

  8. Anonymous users2024-02-04

    In a relationship, I have the last way to endure the other person's deception. Because I think the most important thing in a couple is to be honest, I think if the other person cheats on me and finds out, I think it's something I can't stand anymore. I hope that if there is anything, the two of us can discuss it, and he doesn't tell me, even to keep me from worrying, I don't think it's good.

    This shows that they regard me as his other half of security, and he feels that I can't face it with him when he encounters problems. It might make me think that I'm not his person yet, and I'm not going to solve his problems yet. So I want my significant other to tell me whatever happens, even if it's difficult, and to let me know that I can't stand my partner's deception and hide it from me before doing anything.

    Because I think this kind of deception also includes emotional deception, for example, he doesn't like me anymore, and he still wants to be with me. Because the love I hope I get is the kind of firm choice that no matter what happens, the other party will not hesitate to make a firm choice and this feeling of me. What I want is never the kind of relationship that I will be with you after careful consideration, I just want the other person to be with me completely because of love, not because of any other external conditions.

    So if the other party doesn't love me anymore, I also hope that he can tell me honestly, instead of reluctantly living with me because of some memories of our previous relationship, and not because he covets something in me that is beneficial to him.

    If he wants to achieve something, he tells me directly, and he can't tell me through some indirect means at all, and I think this is also deception. For example, if he wants to break up with me, he can say that he doesn't love me anymore and wants to break up with me, and I don't want him to make me understand through his daily actions that he has no feelings for me. I think this kind of easy cold and violent way to break up is the most scummy way to break up, which is also a kind of deception, and it is also the most unacceptable to the god of numbers.

  9. Anonymous users2024-02-03

    Exploit your tease with dignity without limits.

    Don't leave you any smile in front of people.

    Always think about yourself when you encounter something, and Yamasheng Sakura will never think of you.

  10. Anonymous users2024-02-02

    I found out that my ex was having an affair with other girls, I asked him but he got angry and ignored me, and the next day I went downstairs to his house and waited for him to say in person, and he replied to me and said, I don't want to see you. It's unforgivable. Being deceived by a subject is also unforgivable.

  11. Anonymous users2024-02-01

    Talking about going out to a reunion with classmates, it's actually two men and two women, now they eat together, then they go to sing, they play until one or two o'clock in the middle of the night, and finally they open the room, and they don't know after a long time, and then he says he didn't do anything, but I will never forgive him.

  12. Anonymous users2024-01-31

    My significant other once broke my lipstick, and that was what I spent a lot of money on, a salary, and how much sweat I had in the factory to get that money.

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