Learn to drill the horns of the bull, I need to be rescued urgently, help me with psychological know

no。。。It's a small problem ... You're just habitually thinking about how this came to be ...

What we are learning now is the result of many experiments and calculations by our predecessors... To put it bluntly, someone else planted a tree. And what we learn is how to go up to the tree and pick the fruit and eat it ...

You say something like that. It belongs to the process of learning from others to plant trees... Although the intentions are good ...

But you have to know... Life is only a few decades... Not enough for you to repeat the path of your predecessors ...

Drill once in a while... But don't keep working on that ... Do you understand...

I really think too much I basically do questions in the third year of junior high school, and the state of the extracurricular class is not much different from the first and second years of junior high school, and the function is a bottomless pit if you think deeply, teenager When you get to the second year of high school, you will know what it means to think about it too much, and you can't think of it Now that I think about it, some mathematics and physics in the third year of junior high school are really beautiful, spend time doing, doing here is the opposite, a series of verb forms, you just use it, it's not meaningful, it's complicated, in fact, the high school entrance examination can't rely on a few phrases, and it's basically a basic inner species that is not difficult If you have time, you can memorize some words or something, in fact, it's not a bad thing to think more about it, the key is what the problem is.

I don't think so much about getting tired.

Your penchant for digging into the horns just means that when you look at any problem, you always like to analyze it from the same angle, and it is not a big problem at all. To put it simply, it's just a matter of angle. I can tell you that a lot of people are like this, don't worry.

If you want to solve this problem, you have to tell yourself that from now on, when you see anything or a problem, you have to analyze it comprehensively, don't always look at the same angle, look at other angles.

For example, if you see someone you know walking down a hill from afar, and you immediately wave to him, but he doesn't respond to you, he doesn't wave to you, and he walks away transparently in front of you, and you feel in your heart that this person looks down on you, this person is proud, this person is rude, and so on. Then, you will get into the horns, you will think that many people hate you, many people look down on you, many people don't like to be friends with you, and so on, it's normal for you to think like this, and many people will think like this when they encounter this situation, and they will look at the problem from their own perspective and analyze the situation.

Try to think about this problem from another angle, think from your friend's point of view, you will not drill the tip of the horns, you may find that when your friend walks down the hill, the sun is shining on his face, he feels very dazzling, he doesn't see you at all, you have your back to the sun, he only sees your shadow, you are like a black shadow standing in front of him, so he walks away in front of you transparently, the other may be that he is very annoyed, very distressed, there are some problems that he can't solve, His mind is full of problems, thinking about his troubles, as if he can't see anything, and he loses his soul. Another possibility is that the place where you are standing is full of people, so it's not surprising that he can't see you.

If you can analyze a problem or something from many different angles, you won't be able to get into the nitty-gritty.

You took a knife and just kicked him off.

First, don't look at the problem from one angle, you can look at the problem from another angle, so that you don't get into the corner. Second, you can observe other people's actions, and you can find a good role model, so that you will slowly change this personality. Third, you can also find a psychologist and consult with him so that they can enlighten you.

Fourth, read more books so that you can broaden your mind. Expand your horizons and think broadly, and you can slowly change your stubborn personality.

Dear, hello, people who want to overcome the horns of the bull want to overcome the way: develop the habit of reading books, correctly understand yourself, develop the habit of being good at accepting new things, do not be arbitrary about some things, do not generalize, etc. Develop the habit of reading books, read more good books, rich knowledge can open people's wisdom, make people open-minded, so that people are not confined to dogmatic stereotypes, and at the same time, they can also get spiritual comfort from the mental journey of great people, and get encouragement from books; Correctly understand oneself, be down-to-earth, overcome vanity, cultivate noble tastes, who can be without faults if people are not sages?

Since everyone will inevitably make all kinds of mistakes of one kind or another, there is no need to hide their mistakes, we must treat our mistakes in study, life and work with a sincere attitude, set lofty goals, pursue beautiful and noble things, do not exaggerate, do not know how to pretend to understand; Develop the habit of being good at accepting new things, paranoid people are often short-sighted, narrow-minded, do not like to accept new things, and feel worried and afraid of things they have not experienced, so they should develop the habit of thirsting for new knowledge, being willing to contact new people and new things, and learning their novelty and essence; Don't be arbitrary about some things, don't be absolute, don't go to extremes, think about it from the other party's position when you encounter problems, you are not a unique monarch, and you should be forgiven for the occasional disloyalty or mistakes of others; Don't generalize, there are good people and bad people in the world, don't believe in anyone because there are bad people in the world, have no sense of security, but believe in those good people and all the good things in the world; When attacking others, don't think of counterattacking immediately, but first judge calmly, understand others, find out what others mean, and discern whether they are really attacked; Be bold about your true feelings and emotions, overcome signs of weakness, communicate with others, and don't let yourself fall into the whirlpool of hostility.