Do you have to buy something every time you go on a date with your girlfriend? 20

Updated on society 2024-06-08
28 answers
  1. Anonymous users2024-02-11

    To bring, try not to be the same every time, not to bring food, bring some jewelry she likes, every time she sees the jewelry you send, she will think of you, isn't it more fragrant.

  2. Anonymous users2024-02-10

    You can go to the supermarket to shop, buy what she wants to eat, go to the movies, go to eat a delicious food, it doesn't have to be a very high-end place, the stall snacks are also delicious, you can go to the nearby scenic spots to play, you can go to the surrounding cities to play, you can go to pretend to be a petty bourgeoisie and drink a cup of coffee, rub wifi If you like it, it is a place to date anytime and anywhere, and you don't need to deliberately find a place or place for a date. You ask her what she wants to do, she says what she wants to eat when she is hungry, you ask her to eat what she wants, she says she is bored, you can take her to a movie It's best to be casual, otherwise she will think that you don't know her well enough and alienate you

  3. Anonymous users2024-02-09

    Yes, men should be magnificent, they will never be empty-handed, this is not very embarrassing, what you buy is not necessarily an item, it can be a delicacy, and you must be decisive when you pay the bill, buy and buy.

  4. Anonymous users2024-02-08

    It's not necessary to go on a date with your girlfriend every time, buy something on every date, because he likes you, you like him, and everything you buy comes naturally.

  5. Anonymous users2024-02-07

    Of course, check the date in advance, take her to eat the local food, and trust me, your girlfriend will love you more.

  6. Anonymous users2024-02-06

    On a date, you must eat. Just go buy a Xiaoice cream and find a place to eat.

  7. Anonymous users2024-02-05

    Boys and girls must be a little more atmospheric on a date, take the girl to eat and watch movies, buy small snacks she likes to eat, buy clothes, cosmetics and bags she likes, if you are gentle and considerate and understanding, the girl will stick to you and will not leave.

  8. Anonymous users2024-02-04

    Bring a little bit, it's not strange to have many people, the point is to get closer to each other's care, and subconsciously you are very attentive to her.

  9. Anonymous users2024-02-03

    I think you can have a little surprise from time to time, such as checking the day before a date, doing a good job, and taking her to eat that she hasn't eaten. You don't have to bring a gift every time you meet, but that's just a personal opinion, the rest is up to you.

  10. Anonymous users2024-02-02

    I think you can bring a little cake and give it to him when we meet, which is a little surprise.

  11. Anonymous users2024-02-01

    After all, you are still in a relationship, and you must try your best to please him at this time, so you must first understand what kind of snacks he likes to eat, and then bring him a little, so that he can feel that there are surprises every time you meet, and his heart will have a deeper impression.

    When his desires are satisfied, your desires can be satisfied, which is the thoughts in the hearts of every woman.

  12. Anonymous users2024-01-31

    Since you don't make appointments often, you have to give each other a small surprise when you are dating.

  13. Anonymous users2024-01-30

    If she always wants a large amount, then I suggest you think about it yourself!

  14. Anonymous users2024-01-29

    For this situation, I guess both of you are not very old, right? I don't know that she is the kind of values that she formed from **, if there must be a result, the best thing is that you should take a good look at the feelings. The relationship is mutual, and the pay is also relative, if there is only one-sided unconditional giving, and the other party accepts unconditionally, this kind of marriage and love is destined to not go too far.

    This girl lacks the spirit of independenceAnd she is particularly susceptible to the influence of others, in which case if you don't do it well, the consequence is her endless noise. (This is a summary of your future married and romantic life).

    Male giving is a manifestation of a patriarchal society, through which they express how much they like each other. But in today's egalitarian society, this situation is somewhat abnormal.

    If you really want to change that, the best way to do that is to communicate and communicate. Knowing what marriage is and what feelings are, no one will always be unconditionally good to a person. I believe you are more mindful, and even thought about breaking up, this is normal, if you can find a problem, you should find a solution.

    You can try saying that you like something very much, that it's thirsty or something, and see how she behaves. But try it or not, the result is not what you want, and the ideology is inherent in a person and difficult to change.

    Finally: personal advice: this is still the case for the next month, and breaking up is a good option. If you go in the wrong direction, stop and move forward.

    I don't accept anything about the fact that men deserve to pay and women enjoy it is reasonable!! No matter who it is!!

  15. Anonymous users2024-01-28

    I think the man should give the money for the date, and I won't agree to the woman taking the initiative to give the money. Do you really plan to let the woman pay, then don't you think it's like eating soft rice, people see that you are not as good as the woman, do you think there are still people who dare to be your girlfriend?

    You can continue to spend money on your girlfriend, or you can find a girl to spend money for you.

  16. Anonymous users2024-01-27

    This is the way of society in China now, where young men and women fall in love and go out to spend money, usually men spend money. If the man is reluctant to spend money, the woman may feel that the man is stingy and may even break up. If the landlord identifies his girlfriend and is rushing to get married, he can only bleed.

  17. Anonymous users2024-01-26

    I think my girlfriend is doing the right thing, you Bi Jing is a man, standing up to the sky, since ancient times, talking about women spending men's money, but in recent years, they have spent money on each other, you once and I twice, men don't buckle the door too much, be generous, it means that you like women.

  18. Anonymous users2024-01-25

    The values are definitely wrong, the two are just boyfriend and girlfriend, and spending money for each other is also a manifestation of pampering, just because it doesn't mean that it is natural for boys to spend money.

  19. Anonymous users2024-01-24

    I agree with this, since it's you dating someone, then you have to spend money? How can there be a reason that a boy doesn't spend money on a date! Besides, if you think this girl doesn't even want to pay for popcorn for you, you can also ask her out next time!

    For your girlfriend, you think it's worth spending money for her, and you don't think it's worth spending money on her is not enough love!

  20. Anonymous users2024-01-23

    In fact, this kind of thing is best to make it clear to your girlfriend, sometimes you should spend the money you should spend, if you feel that you shouldn't spend money, then you should learn to reject her, the general relationship between men and women will spend money on each other, sometimes don't be too picky, if you think the girl is too picky, then you can choose not to continue dating her, choose to break up with her.

  21. Anonymous users2024-01-22

    It's normal for a man to spend money when dating a girlfriend, and it's basically a man who spends money.

  22. Anonymous users2024-01-21

    I think it's natural for a woman to spend her boyfriend's money, and if you can't stand it, she can't accept you, so end it early, otherwise you'll have to quarrel after you get married.

  23. Anonymous users2024-01-20

    As a normal man, asking his girlfriend to go out should cover all the expenses, according to the money spent on the purchase, you may judge what kind of person your girlfriend is, whether she is a family type or spending money lavishly, you can judge whether your girlfriend meets your requirements, if you care too much about money, is an iron rooster, or only wants to spend your girlfriend's money, then you are basically single, so you try to meet your girlfriend's requirements if your financial ability allows, The girlfriend who will live in the process will remind you what not to buy, and the girlfriend who is used to spending money will blame you for buying something bad or something, you just make the right choice, in a word, you should pay for your girlfriend to play money, and you must be out to be correct.

  24. Anonymous users2024-01-19

    ...Well. Such a girl has a tight grip on the economy.

    Of course, that doesn't mean she doesn't heck you!!Huh!But she's definitely going to be in charge of the economy..

    Be prepared.

  25. Anonymous users2024-01-18

    She's just using you as a payer.

  26. Anonymous users2024-01-17

    Because you love her, she only has herself.

  27. Anonymous users2024-01-16

    Let's change people, obviously use you as a meal ticket.

  28. Anonymous users2024-01-15

    Whether boyfriends and girlfriends should AA or not is a bit controversial. My opinion is:

    1.In the early stages of a relationship, a gentleman's boyfriend should take the initiative to give more. This can show your sincerity and generosity and make your girlfriend feel invested in you. Being too concerned about money is not conducive to creating a romantic atmosphere.

    2.When the relationship is stable, the AA system can show your girlfriend that you value an equal and reciprocal relationship in some daily consumption situations. But on special occasions, such as dates, birthdays, etc., it will seem romantic for the boyfriend to pay more, which is an expression of a sense of ritual.

    3.If the disparity between the economic conditions of the two sides is too great, it is not realistic to fully AA. In this case, a reasonable proportion should be divided according to the specific situation of both parties. Don't put pressure on each other's financial situation, which will affect the harmonious development of the relationship.

    4.Whether it is a brother or a AA, boyfriends and girlfriends should understand each other and be considerate of each other's situation when consuming. Don't be too calculating, and don't force the other party to pay completely or pay for it yourself, it will make people think that you have a calculating mentality.

    5.The correct attitude is that regardless of AA or not, you should pay with a heart of "I want the best for you" when you consume. Instead of blindly overemphasizing "should or should AA" be overemphasized. It's important to express your heart, not just the amount of money.

    Therefore, in general, the ideal state is that the boyfriend pays slightly more in the early stage of the relationship, and the relationship is stable and appropriately AA, but the boyfriend still takes the initiative to celebrate on special days. No matter what the situation, both parties should be considerate and not cause emotional distress for a little consumption. Hopefully, these tips will give you some help in your love life!

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