If a child steals something once in a while, should parents criticize him harshly?

Stealing is a bad act and should be severely stopped.

But on the other hand, it is necessary to analyze the reasons for the child's behavior.

Children need the love and attention of adults to varying degrees.

I often do something blockbuster to get everyone's attention.

And there is no ability to judge the good or bad of various behaviors.

As a result, some bad habits will be formed.

I think that the treatment of bad habits should be done step by step.

First, stop the continuation of bad behavior. It is forbidden to preach.

Then, gain your child's trust. Accompaniment, appeasement.

Then, use open-ended questioning and empathy.

Let the child understand the truth and not feel coerced.

Finally, give appropriate encouragement when your child is making progress.

Hopefully you can get the results you want.

I had to criticize and even spank hard, I had no intention of putting my brother's pencil sharpener knife in my pocket when I was a child, and I forgot how I carried it, and when I came home, my mother found out, and beat me up, and asked me to return it to him in front of my brother, and since then I have never touched other people's things.

Yes. Otherwise, he wouldn't care, and he wouldn't have done anything if he did. After all, it's a child, and I can't tell right from wrong. Let him remember the lesson of this time, which will be good for the future.

I am a kindergarten teacher, and recently there is a child in my class who has disappeared, it is a small toy car, and he went to the interest class teacher to reward it. Because our kindergarten children are not allowed to bring toys and snacks to the kindergarten.

We searched through the children's school bags and couldn't find them, because some of the children had already come home from school. So, the next morning, we told the story in front of the children's cotton and threatened to lure Gali. But in the end, I still didn't find it, because the place where I put the schoolbag was a blind spot for monitoring, so the matter was over.

But we all have a "suspect" in our hearts, because she stole the teacher's things two days ago and was caught by us in front of us to sell Wang Peng. But this time I was not sure, so I didn't know it.

I took this opportunity to educate them that if someone in our class was allowed to steal something, I would criticize him in public, and then call the police uncle and arrest him in prison.

So, two days later, the child in our class stole the other children's things, so I criticized her, not in public, and told her parents about it.

However, after two days, another child's beautiful hair rope in the class was missing, so I asked her if she had taken it, and she said no, I said I want to see if you have your schoolbag, and she said okay. So I found it from her school bag. But she didn't admit it, saying that it was hers, and I said that I would call ** to ask your mother now, so I asked the truth.

So, in front of all the children, I criticized her for doing something wrong.

However, afterwards, her mother came to me and said that the child is curious, and it is normal to take other people's things, and I should not criticize her in public, which will hurt her self-esteem and make other children label her, which will affect her for the rest of her life.

May I ask the almighty netizens, am I wrong to do this?

Introduction: When parents see their children stealing, they need to understand why their children do what they do. If a child always steals things in the sail, it may form a bad phenomenon for the child, parents should educate the child in time, do not let the child have this phenomenon.

Today, I would like to tell you how parents should educate their children if they steal something.

If you see your child stealing, you should tell your child that you can't do it, because if your child keeps doing it, it may have a bad effect on your child. Parents should ask their children if they have any kind of hardships, and there is no way to let themselves know, and they must learn to understand their children, so that they can understand what kind of person their parents want them to become. If the parents always use language to sarcastically mock the child when the child is young, the child will also feel very painful, feel that he is not respected by his parents at all, do not describe this kind of thinking to the child, if the child has bad behavior, the parents can stop it, but do not stop the child, do what the child wants to do, it will make the child feel very uncomfortable.

If the child steals when he is young, the parents have no way to educate the child, the child will keep making mistakes, and the parents should tell the child how to do it in time.

If parents find that their children are always stealing, Xiangzhi should guide their children correctly, tell them how to do it, let them do some right things, and let the children get a certain amount of satisfaction. When children are young, they prefer to use something that has not been used, and parents should educate their children in a timely manner, tell them how to do it, and do not let children behave wrongly. If the child has the wrong behavior, the parents should stop the child in time, and do not let the child develop bad habits when he is young, which will have a great impact on the child, and the parents do not want to see the child have such behavior.

When I get home, I will definitely scold the child, because the child stealing things is not correct, and the child stealing is very excessive, so I will scold the child after I go home.

I don't, it might make my child scared of me, and I will patiently educate my child and let him know that stealing is wrong.

I don't scold, I ask my child why he stole something, and tell him that it's wrong to do so and that he has to return it with him.

The first thing to distinguish is how old the child is. Children under the age of three have no concept that other people's things cannot be taken at all, and you need to teach him slowly.

For sensible children, this behavior is recommended to be handled as follows:

First of all, criticize the child harshly, tell him that it is illegal to take other people's things without permission, and popularize legal knowledge to him.

Take the child with you to return it and ask the child to apologize. This step is very important, and the child must experience it once in person to be impressed. Some parents do not return it for the sake of face, so they actually tell their children that they can take what they bring for themselves.

Communicate with your child at a deep level, and tell him that he must tell his parents if he needs it, and he can't take it privately. Ask him to promise not to do this kind of thing next time, and say for himself what to do if he does it again. If you commit it again in the future, it will be strictly enforced.

Parents should think about whether they often refuse their children's requests, and if they often refuse their children, their children's requirements will not be reasonably satisfied, and they will also have the idea of taking them privately.

In any case, don't charge your child with stealing, as this will make him give up on himself.

Generally speaking, when a child is found to be "stealing", parents will be very angry, and those who are serious will directly beat and scold the child. As everyone knows, this practice will not only not let the child get rid of bad habits, but also may further intensify the bad habit of "stealing" the child.

Isn't it the right thing to do when a child is caught stealing? Of course not, not scolding children does not mean that they are left alone, but trying to use more scientific methods to let them get rid of this bad problem. First of all, why do children "steal" things?

Why do children have the bad habit of "stealing"?

According to parenting experts, children before the age of 4 do not have a strong sense of belonging to things, that is, the "concept of property rights" in the hearts of adults, which is not formed in the hearts of children, which also causes them to like a certain item and take it home without permission.

There are several reasons why children take things that don't belong to them:

1. Children are too egoistic.

Some children are too self-centered, believing that everyone revolves around them and that they are the focus. After this kind of mentality, it is likely to become selfish or even conceited. In this way, when they see something that others do not have themselves, it is easy to develop a feeling of jealousy, which leads to the act of "stealing".

2. The demand is not met.

Some parents will limit their child's requirements too much. If parents limit their children too much and their children's demands are not met, they are likely to satisfy themselves with "stealing".

Or parents spoil their children, so that their children develop the bad habit of "getting something for nothing". Since childhood, he has been pampered by the whole family, and he gives what he wants. If a child's demands are not met, it is easy for them to "steal".

3. To attract the attention of others.

Children lack care and comfort, and in order to attract the attention of others, they will take the initiative to take things that do not belong to them. At present, in many families, parents are too little invested in their children due to their busy work, which prompts children to "steal" things to attract the attention of their parents and meet their own emotional needs.

4. Catharsis of dissatisfaction.

The child "steals" something from Paiqi, and may also be venting his inner dissatisfaction. For example, in a kindergarten, when several children have an argument over a toy, and in the end, the child who did not get the toy or is criticized will feel unfair, and he may vent his frustration by taking the toy as his own.

I think parents can only make their children realize their mistakes through language education at this time. And give children a certain amount of psychological counseling, so that they will change.

When a child steals, parents should teach their children some lessons, let them know that stealing is wrong, and can also intimidate children to tell them that if they steal next time, they will call the police, so that children will not dare to steal. Parents should also meet their children's needs appropriately so that they do not steal.

I think parents should punish this child so that he can really realize his mistakes.