Why did Xu Zhimo s son resolutely refuse to be buried together with Lu Xiaoman and Xu Zhimo?

Gently I go, as softly I came; I beckoned softly, and made a cloud of the western sky. The golden willow on the bank of the river is the bride in the sunset; The beautiful shadow in the waves ripples in my heart. Xu Zhimo's "Farewell to Kangqiao" depicts Kangqiao in his mind in a romantic tone.

When it comes to Xu Zhimo, he will always mention his love story with Lu Xiaoman, Xu Zhimo thinks that he has met love, but Lu Xiaoman will not stay for him forever. When Lu Xiaoman was in his later years, he wanted to be buried with Xu Zhimo, why did Xu Zhimo's son resolutely refuse? There are several main reasons for this.

First, Xu Zhimo's son has no emotional foundation with Lu Xiaoman, and Lu Xiaoman never thought of trying to win over Xu Zhimo's son and have a good relationship with him. In the eyes of Xu Zhimo's son, Lu Xiaoman is an outsider. So, why did he agree to an outsider's request to be buried with his father?

Of course, Xu Ji's approach is also understandable. <>

Second, Xu Zhimo and Lu Xiaoman are together, which is not a glorious thing。And after marriage, Xu Zhimo needed to take many jobs in order to provide for Lu Xiaoman's high expenses, and he was poor. As the saying goes, "A friend's wife can't be bullied", but Xu Zhimo did such a criticizing thing.

Lu Xiaoman was originally the wife of Xu Zhimo's friend Wang Geng, because of the nature of Wang Geng's work, he often needed to go far away, so he asked his friend Xu Zhimo to take care of his wife. But the two took advantage of Wang Geng's absence, and they got together, which was really surprising. Ignoring the eyes of the world, they made their love public.

Third, Lu Xiaoman is a courtesan and does not know how to check in life. When Xu Zhimo was alive, he found a massage doctor for her who conditioned her body - Weng Ruiwu. The doctor often gave Lu Xiaoman massage, and the two gradually became acquainted.

Xu Zhimo passed away, and Weng Duanwu often came to accompany Lu Xiaoman, and often stayed overnight. Outside, the scandal between the two of them was raging. Xu Ji would never let such an ignorant woman be buried with her father.

Because he felt that Xu Zhimo was unfaithful to his feelings and was sorry for his mother, he didn't want the two of them to be buried together.

Because Xu Zhimo's two children were born to the original partner Zhang Youyi, but Xu Zhimo failed her, his son naturally complained about Xu Zhimo and Lu Xiaoman because of his mother's experience, and naturally would not agree to their joint burial.

Because he thought that the two were not the original match, he did not recognize Lu Xiaoman's identity, so he resolutely refused.

Because Lu Xiaoman hooked up with others after Xu Zhimo's death, and caused a lot of trouble in the city, Xu Zhimo's son resolutely refused to bury Lu Xiaoman and Xu Zhimo together.

They met at a ball, Lu Xiaoman was originally a courtesan, they met at this ball, and then they knew each other and fell in love.

The two of them met at a ball, and the two could be said to have fallen in love at first sight, and at that time, both of them liked each other very much, so they chose to get married.

Xu Zhimo is a good friend of Lu Xiaoman's ex-husband, because the relationship between Lu Xiaoman and her husband is not particularly good, and Lu Xiaoman's husband asked Xu Zhimo to accompany Lu Xiaoman to play, so the relationship between the two is getting closer and closer.

Xu Zhimo and Wang Geng were good friends at that time, Wang Geng and Lu Xiaoman got married through the order of their parents, but the two were not happy, and Lu Xiaoman also felt that there was no common topic between the two. Half a year after getting married, people have rarely communicated. But Lu Xiaoman often hides his emotions, and his usual life is very unhappy.

Xu Zhimo came to Wang Geng every time to travel together, but Wang Geng asked Xu Zhimo to find Lu Xiaoman to go out with him every time, and then the two met more and more, so they developed a relationship.

Xu Zhimo's son's mother is Zhang Youyi, of course he will not agree to let Lu Xiaoman be buried with Xu Zhimo, and Lu Xiaoman himself has always been controversial, Xu Zhimo's son naturally doesn't like her, and is even more opposed to her being buried with his father.

Because Xu Zhimo's son's mother is Zhang Youyi, Lu Xiaoman is not loyal, and he has no nurturing grace or blood relationship with him, so he resolutely opposes the joint burial of Lu Xiaoman and his father.

Because Xu Zhimo's son was born to Xu Zhimo and his original partner, it was impossible for him to let other women be buried with his father, and Xu Zhimo's death Lu Xiaoman was also inseparable, which made Xu Zhimo's son and his family very repulsive to her.

Because Lu Xiaoman and Xu Zhimo did not have the identity of husband and wife at that time, his son felt that it was impossible, so he resolutely opposed the two of them being buried together.

If she hadn't lived with Weng, she could have been buried together.