I feel ashamed, I m scared, what should I do?

Updated on society 2024-06-30
31 answers
  1. Anonymous users2024-02-12

    If he likes to joke, let him joke, it's just his character, his way, or it may be to amuse you.

    If you don't know what to do, you tell him not to joke like that, and it's better to cry and ask him if he is making fun of you.

    Anyway, find a day to ask him if he is sincere, and if he doesn't find out, you don't waste time.

    If it's sincere, it's fine, if it's not sincere, you waste time, and find another handsome guy.

  2. Anonymous users2024-02-11

    There's nothing to be afraid of, and it's not a shame, if he's fake, it's too lacking in morality.

    It is recommended not to contact him for a period of time, (QQ incognito, text messages not to reply or other methods.)

    See how he reacts, if it's broken, forget it, see if you haven't really fallen into it.

    If he doesn't just ask him to find you, nothing else will be discarded, and if he wants to chase you, he will have to be in a bit of a position.

    Now this looks like something.

  3. Anonymous users2024-02-10

    Hello, you are actually still speculating whether he is fake, you can ignore him and test whether he is real, if he is in a hurry to find you everywhere and take a meeting date with you, maybe that relationship is worth considering, if you are indifferent, it may be a joke. You said?

  4. Anonymous users2024-02-09

    I can't put it into words.

    I can't tell if it's true or not.

    You're kidding him, too.

    See who makes it to the end.

    But I don't like that.

    If you want to chase after the right thing.

    Isn't it tiring to think about it like this?

    It's hard and time-consuming

  5. Anonymous users2024-02-08

    Play with him upside down, be smarter.

  6. Anonymous users2024-02-07

    You don't have to have such thoughts, you must know that people are gradually maturing, and it takes a process in between, and you may care about what you have said before, but others may not take it seriously at all, and may have forgotten it long ago.

    No, who will laugh at you, at most, I just feel sympathy for each other (after all, who hasn't been disciplined by the teacher) As for you crying, well, I don't think anyone is so blind, and deliberately uses this to anger you, if there is, then his popularity is definitely not good, just ignore him. I'm sure your friends will give you the greatest comfort! Come on.

    There's no shame in that, because if you put it this way, it's a lot more shameful.

    That's because your husband has no ability, do you still need you to go to work if you have the ability, it should be because you think your husband has lost your face.

    It's good to make money. It is recommended not to do it in your hometown, so as to save relatives and friends from coming over, you are afraid of embarrassment.

    Study hard, now there is no shame, only after coming out to work, how to mix is not ashamed, even if it is a graduate of Guoxiang Youben, it is a shame to not find a job, even if it is a vocational high school, as long as you find a good job in the future, it is also very good.

    People are different, maybe you have a gap with him in terms of learning, but you also have your own advantages, there is no need to feel inferior because of this.

    As a student, of course, learning is the first priority, although there is a gap with the top students, but as long as you do your best, there is no shame, after all, the top students are still a minority.

    You still have to face it, but you still have to apologize.

    Then just be a good person.

    If it's super annoying, I'll talk to my friends. Even add a stranger on QQ to tell your suffering. You can also listen to it**.

    What is there to feel ashamed of in front of your own woman.

    If she gives you everything, it shouldn't be a shame.

    Think about it.

  7. Anonymous users2024-02-06

    I don't think what you care about is what others think of you, it's how you see yourself. You must think that it is difficult to accept that you don't go to work with your children, so you will project your thoughts onto others, so that you feel that others look down on you. Therefore, what you need to solve should be how you think about having a child, not whether you are afraid to go out.

    I think the most important thing is that you should be aware of the value and significance of what you are doing. Being a mother and being able to guide your child to grow up healthy and happy is a great and productive thing. Although there may be no short-term economic benefits (and it will cost a lot of money), the growth and development of children is a great reward in itself, and it is not less humble than going out to work.

    Of course, you may be a person who values work and career very much, and even if you know that raising children is important, you may be tempted to go back to work. In this regard, you may want to discuss with your husband's family to see if there are any ways you can get to work sooner. It's okay to ask a parent or babysitter to take care of the children, but you still have to think carefully.

    If your child did not receive enough care and love in infancy, you may be more heartbroken after 10 or 20 years, because you did not spend time with your child before.

  8. Anonymous users2024-02-05

    Seems like a shame to you not working? Having a baby and not working is natural for many people, but it can make you feel ashamed. Maybe you can ask yourself, why is it so shameful not to work?

  9. Anonymous users2024-02-04

    Everyone is, but why do you care about other people's questions, and you don't live for others. You just say that the child is too small to be separated, and he is not worried about the baby. The child goes to work when he is older. Anyone can understand it.

    Hmph, when I'm on vacation, someone asks, I just say I can't rest when I am a money-making machine, and I usually ask what kind of work you are doing, and most people are idle and love gossip if they don't take care of it.

  10. Anonymous users2024-02-03

    What's there?

    Everyone has their own life, as long as they live happily, how can they be ashamed?

  11. Anonymous users2024-02-02

    It shows that you know that you have done something that violates the rules of ordinary people, or said something wrong, and you feel that you have lost face for a while.

    People live in the world, there are no saints who do not make mistakes, even immortals will make mistakes.

    It is normal for people to make mistakes, and it is even more precious to be able to recognize the mistakes by themselves.

    As the saying goes: failure is the mother of success, and human mistakes are lessons learned.

    Don't live for face, that's hypocrisy, it's worthless.

    Face is the scourge of torturing oneself and losing face.

    As long as you don't like to save face, people can't help you.

    If you want to suffer for the sake of face, this happens to be a villain stealing pleasure on the side, and by the way, you can appreciate your discomfort.

    You should keep your head up, keep your chest straight, and correct your mistakes, because money is hard to buy.

    The experience is your own, and the lessons are to be learned.

    As long as you don't feel ashamed yourself, there is nothing others can do to make you feel ashamed.

    When you fall, you get up, this is the real warrior and the strong.

  12. Anonymous users2024-02-01

    Why do you feel ashamed? What was done?

    You feel ashamed yourself, maybe others don't pay attention or care about what you're doing? Feeling ashamed of yourself only shows that you are not confident enough and care too much about other people's eyes or words. In fact, you don't have to care, others don't pay much attention to you when some things don't involve their own interests.

  13. Anonymous users2024-01-31

    Be confident, there's nothing to be ashamed of, why do you feel ashamed, we are all citizens, no one has the right to do anything to you, no one has made you owe him anything, upright, you just need to know, I'm a person, thank you.

  14. Anonymous users2024-01-30

    Not confident, and then caring about what the outside world thinks of you. It makes you feel ashamed in the eyes of others.

    I don't think you need to care about what kind of vision you have, just let him go, adjust your own mentality and re-understand yourself! Someday you'll feel like no one is laughing at you at all.

  15. Anonymous users2024-01-29

    It is difficult to define whether to be ashamed or not, how to call it a shame, and how to call it not a shame. Do you feel ashamed of yourself and sad for a long time, maybe others don't think so and don't care at all? Isn't that a sad scene in vain!

    You have a lot of things to do, and if you feel embarrassed, you can change it later, and if you feel embarrassed, can you change it? Don't do unnecessary things, focus on doing what you have to do.

  16. Anonymous users2024-01-28

    It's okay, life is just laughing at others and being laughed at again, and time will erase everything.

  17. Anonymous users2024-01-27

    Do you feel ashamed of what you do? Think about the so-called humiliating events repeatedly. Are there any fears and anxieties or physical reactions that don't match the actual scenario?

    If so, see a psychologist. Don't forget to bring extra money, at least a thousand at a time.

  18. Anonymous users2024-01-26

    It's okay, it's not embarrassing, and I don't want your money, and it won't hurt you, it's okay, it's okay to go over.

  19. Anonymous users2024-01-25

    The body is not afraid of shadows, and find ways to enhance their self-confidence. Do what you're good at!

  20. Anonymous users2024-01-24

    Don't care, the world is so big, who will always remember you.

  21. Anonymous users2024-01-23

    Shameful things have been done by everyone! Don't mind so much! Time**Everything!

  22. Anonymous users2024-01-22

    There are times when we all feel ashamed ...

  23. Anonymous users2024-01-21

    Dear, I know this will lower my rate.

    But I also want to say one more thing.

    Character (RP) problems, just get used to it. It's normal for Du Niang to have convulsions from time to time, don't worry about it.

  24. Anonymous users2024-01-20

    It's good to be confident, it's not terrible to be embarrassed, but don't lose yourself...

  25. Anonymous users2024-01-19

    People live for themselves, so they care about the eyes of others, and it is themselves who are tired.

  26. Anonymous users2024-01-18

    You just have to feel that others are more ashamed than you.

  27. Anonymous users2024-01-17

    I'm often embarrassed,,, hehe, but happiness is not heavier.

  28. Anonymous users2024-01-16

    No, don't care about others.

  29. Anonymous users2024-01-15

    Everyone is unique to themselves.

  30. Anonymous users2024-01-14

    Why does it feel this way?

  31. Anonymous users2024-01-13

    Eight or nine times out of ten, we should learn to forget when life is not going well.

    Affordable. Put it down, think about more happy things, put.

    The unpleasant things aside, do something you like.

    Make yourself a little happier every day.

    When we are in a bad mood, we can try to regulate our emotions in the following three ways.

    Method 1; When you're in a bad mood, use your consciousness to change the subject, or do something else.

    As you listen**. Watch TV. Play. Play chess, go for a walk, etc., to distract yourself.

    This can lead to emotional relief.

    Method 2; Tell your relatives or close friends about your troubles and even cry.

    Or with a drop pillow.

    large sandbags, etc.

    Venting the worries that have accumulated in your heart will also be beneficial to your physical and mental health.

    However, it is necessary to pay attention to the catharsis of noisy friends, and the location and method of the banquet collision and destruction of the occasion should also be appropriate, so as to avoid hurting others.

    Method 3; When you want to get something, or you want to do something and you don't succeed.

    In order to reduce the disappointment in the heart.

    Hope it helps. At the same time, I wish you a good mood every day. ~

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