Can I go to the grave of the recently deceased? How long after death can a person go to the grave?

Absolutely. Although the person has just passed away and the grave is new, there should be no problem in visiting the deceased and placing love on death. When a person dies like a lamp goes out, it has no effect on other people.

So there is nothing wrong with going to the new grave where you have just died, looking at the dead, and giving rest to those who are the greatest.

*Yes**, you can go to the grave of the just deceased. Some people may visit the deceased in a new grave to place their love and rest in peace. In addition, it is normal to go to the grave as a child to worship the father. However, you should act in accordance with local customs.

Can't you go to see the new grave often?

The ancients said that death is great, and death is like life. After the death of a person, the recent dates of the relatives include inverted head paper, family laying paper, resignation paper, road sacrifice, tomb sacrifice, three-day round grave sacrifice, first seven paper, two seven paper, three seven paper, four seven paper, five seven paper, 100 days paper, anniversary paper, three years of filial piety paper (from death to filial piety for three years, into a period of mourning); Three years later, every birthday, death, Qingming, the first day of the tenth lunar month (send winter clothes), and July.

Ten. 5. The winter solstice, spring, and descendants who are newly married, promoted to higher education, and promoted to official positions must go to the grave to pay respects.

The new tomb should be cultivated within three years after the grave: the descendants need to drink and eat, three animals and five fruits to worship, the first year to open the tomb to choose a day before the Qingming Festival, the second day on the day of the Qingming Festival, and the third year after the Qingming Festival. Since then, every time before and after the Qingming Festival, he will lead his descendants to bring fruit tomb paper to sweep the tomb.

Pei tomb is also known as the tomb, wall tomb, tomb filling, etc.

The new grave is the cemetery within three years, and there is still a certain amount of evil in the three years, so it is best not to go to the new grave often to avoid bad influences.

This question should be said to be different due to regional differences, China's land is vast, 9.6 million square kilometers of land, 1.4 billion people, there are 56 ethnic groups and reforms, each region due to different historical development backgrounds, different economic and social conditions, different geographical environments and other differences, so the formation of different exquisite, but the customs are also similar, all in order to express the sorrow for relatives.

We belong to the Jiaodong Peninsula area, and our custom here is: the old man dies with this seventh day, called "Guo Zhou", that is, the "first seven" of the story, to go to the grave, to the old man to put on the plate, incense, burn paper, kowtow to ......

Then after three weeks, the "three sevens" are passed, and the content of the program is the same as the "first seven"; In the fifth week, after "five seven", the procedure is the same as above; Then you don't need it, wait until the old man dies for a year, and give the old man a "anniversary", and the etiquette is the same; When the "third anniversary" is celebrated after three years, a monument should be erected for the elderly.

Of course, this is a special etiquette, in case of Qingming and the birthday of the elderly, you have to go to the simple debate shed to incense, burn paper, and put some tributes that the old man loved to eat during his lifetime.

Generally, after the death of the old man is every year to pick up the old man to go to the grave, the first seven, three, seven and five, and then on the anniversary of the grave, there are a few children who do not burn.

"One seven" is generally called "the first seven" or the first seven, usually on the sixth day to start, according to the "Hangzhou Customs Heritage" said: do seven must be on the sixth day, so the name is called "knock six heads", to use the monks of the land temple to do, the first seven to beat. The content is to worship the fifteenth confession, hang merit paintings, and hang the list text, but do not let off the flames, just watch the lamp and it will end.

On the fourteenth day after the death of Erqi, the widow of Hangzhou believed that Erqi was not far from the evil period, so the malpractice should be used as the altar of the evil seven or the wheel to send seven, relatively speaking, the practice of Erqi was relatively simple.

Sanqi by the monk to read the birth of the scriptures, at night to set off the flame mouth, the flame mouth is the transliteration of Sanskrit, is the name of the hungry ghost king in hell in Buddhism, it is said that its belly is as big as a mountain, the throat is as thin as a needle, all the food and drink to rent this auspicious its mouth, are turned into ashes. It is also said that the flame mouth craves food and drink, so it spits flames in the mouth, so it is called "flame mouth". The local custom of the flame vent is understood and enforced in a practical sense, and the relatives of the deceased eat and drink on the ghosts and spirits in order to prevent the deceased from being reborn as hungry ghosts.

Morning. It is best to choose when the yang energy is relatively strong, generally speaking, the best time to worship the mountain is in the middle of the day, that is, 5 7 o'clock. However, since most cemeteries are far away from the place of residence, and even in cities where they work in daily life, it is usually not so early, but it is best to complete the tomb sweeping and worship before 3 p.m.

So it's good to finish the grave before 3 p.m. In ancient China.

It's better to go after 9 o'clock, it's close to noon after going to the grave, and if there are many people, everyone will find a place to have a light meal and then go their separate ways.

You can go to the grave for as long as a loved one dies;

At dawn on the seventh day after death, the family members went to the grave to pay their respects, called "Lei Qi". After that, once every 7 days, generally "five seven" and finish, there are also "seven seven". On the 100th day of death, relatives and children prepare offerings for memorial, called baijiu, and in the old days, some of them tied up cash cows, cardboard boxes, and cardboard cabinets to burn the grave, just burning some paper money.

The customs of the three-day round grave are different from place to place, and the round grave on our side is that the relatives of the old man are present, and there is no taboo.

Northerners generally go to the grave to burn some paper in the first seven, and don't use it in the second phase, there is a saying called "burn the first seven, empty the second phase, burn the third seven, empty four seven." "By May or Seven, it's time to burn the "umbrella".

The morning of the next day is the day of the round grave. The deceased's relatives, friends, distant relatives and close neighbors all came to the grave.

The grave on this day is different from the grave at any time, first by the strong men who came to the grave, driving tractors, carrying a dozen shovels, first from home to the grave.

First of all, dig up the soil from the ground near the cemetery where there are no crops, pull the soil to the cemetery, and increase the grave of the deceased who was buried yesterday from small to large.

With the increase of the soil on the grave, some people will continue to fill the grave with the wreath on the grave, until the grave can be seen from a long distance, at least the size of the new grave is much higher than that of other old graves.

After adding trousers to the grave to talk about pure hail, a small square pit was dug on the south side of the tomb next to it, and a dozen bricks were built with the car to burn paper money for the deceased, and at the same time, a platform was set up in the lower corner of the tomb above this small pit to place tributes for the deceased.

Offerings are indispensable when the tomb is rounded, a bottle of liquor, and some snacks that the deceased usually likes to eat. Feel free to bring some, if you bring snacks and fruits, 5 of each. Try to bring a round snack fruit as well. Dark coins, gold and silver ingots, indispensable, feel free to bring.