Why are couples becoming more and more speechless?

I think it's because there is no common hobby or one party doesn't look for a topic, sometimes I feel that I am not a person all the way with him, he doesn't like what I like, I don't like what he likes, because I don't see each other much, so most of the time it's very harmonious. I'm a very quiet person, he's also an introvert, I'm always looking for topics to talk about when I'm with him, and he sometimes jokes with me. If you look closely at those conversations, there is no smoke and no connotation, and at most you share your daily life, what you eat, what you do, what you watch, and think about life like this.

It may be because they are too familiar with each other and know everything, so there will be relatively few topics; It may also be because we have been together for a long time, and we have basically talked about everything, and at this time, we need to learn new things to make each other's lives a little more new, and there will naturally be topics to talk about.

I have been in love with my wife for seven years, married for two years, from high school to now, the two of them want to be tired of being together every day, one of the two people feels that the other person looks unpleasant, feel annoying, go through ups and downs, bumps and bumps after the two people are not much tossed, feelings tend to be flat, but this bland does not mean that there is no emotion, but that kind of mutual care for each other, cherish each other, but neither of them is doing it, if we say what we say now if it is compared with the first stage, it will definitely not be comparable, But we are at the end, sometimes we don't need to speak, a look, a teasing, or even a tone word, we all know what the other person means, just give each other a time, but don't give up on each other.

No more affectionate confessions, no more soft words, no more care. Because of marriage, I no longer worry about losing, and I no longer have the effort to court, but after a long time, I begin to get tired of it, and it is easy to stay with each other until I am old, and it is difficult to maintain a heart that always loves.

After a long time, there is not much to say about being together, because they have quarreled with each other, made trouble, and everything has been experienced and everything has returned to a dull place, which is not necessarily a bad thing! But after a long time, it will feel boring! Confused!

Because of the long-term relationship, the past and daily life of the other party will no longer feel new, so that they can't get any "interesting" content from the other party.

As the saying goes, "men come from Mars and women come from Venus", we have not studied "Mars" and "Venus", and we have not carefully understood the important people who are different from ourselves, and we don't know how to do what they like

Maybe the topics you talked about at first were deliberately found. Between lovers, you can talk about everything, but there are some topics that you don't need to deliberately find. For example, when you get off work, you can talk about people or things you encounter at work, and share happy things together.

Then the atmosphere between you will be relaxed. If you can go to a certain topic, it will cause you to be in the same state for a long time, and you will not be able to relax. A truly intimate relationship is to know what the other person wants to say with a single look, which is the so-called heart and soul.

It is a problem for most people to have nothing to say after a long time between couples, but this is normal, because the two have been together for a long time, they know each other well, and they are no longer like when they first met, they still have a great sense of freshness and curiosity about each other, and they want to know what each other is doing and thinking at all times. After a long time, I am familiar with it, and these feelings are less, which is normal. You can often go out for a walk and share your opinions, or occasionally separate, after all, Xiao Bie is better than newlyweds.

When a couple has been in love for a longer time, the less topics they talk about, and there will be a strong contrast with the early stage of the relationship, so many people will feel that the relationship between two people has changed. They start to find the right topic to communicate, whether it's a man or a woman, they start to do their own thing, enjoy the space and time that belongs to them. The days when there is nothing to say will make many couples quarrel and easy to be anxious, and some couples will think that there is a contradiction and crisis in the relationship between two people.

Lovers are showing their best side to each other at the beginning, and they just have endless topics to talk about together, no matter what they do, as long as they are very happy together, but after a long time, each other's shortcomings are slowly exposed, and they are not as patient as before, and they will even start to quarrel. As the saying goes, feelings need to accumulate slowly, not in a hurry, the more enthusiastic it comes, the faster it cools. So be sure not to focus all your attention on the other person, but to retain your own personality and let your strengths slowly show each other.

Because couples have been together for a long time, they will be very familiar with each other, and there will be no topics to talk about, so they will become more and more speechless.

I think it's because over time, couples have slowly become family, maybe the other party understands each other, there is no common topic, and at the same time it loses its freshness.

Because we have been together for too long, we have probably finished saying what we should have said, so after being together for a long time, we will talk less and less.

First, it may be that two people have different jobs and do not have a common language with each other.

The environment a person is in will have a great impact on the person, such as affecting the person's style of doing things, the topics they are interested in, and so on. Therefore, when the working environment between couples is relatively different, and two people have a better understanding of each other, lose their freshness, and are no longer interested in each other's affairs, after a long time, they may lack a common language, so they will feel that the longer they are together, the more they feel that there is nothing to say. Such a relationship may not last long.

Second, some people are busy with work and don't have much time to communicate, so they will become speechless.

Today's young people work under great pressure, often working overtime and staying up late, so the time spent together by two people will become less and less due to the impact of work, busy all day during the day, and will feel more tired at night, unwilling to chat with each other, if two people do not communicate for a long time, it will also make the topic between two people less and less, and even do not know what to say. So, this is also one of the reasons why there are fewer topics of conversation between couples. Therefore, if two people are still in love, this love should be managed, and this also requires both parties to work together to take care of each other, care about each other, and take more time to chat and talk.

Only in this way can two people have more and more common topics.

3. The love between two people is becoming weaker and weaker.

When two people fall in love, it does not mean that they will be able to be together in the future, nor does it mean that two people must love each other. As some people get to know each other better, they will feel that the other party is not suitable to be with them, so that the love between each other will become weaker, and they will not love each other at all, and such a couple will slowly break up.

Because it's too familiar. Many couples know each other well and know what each other is thinking with a single look, so they don't have anything to say.

I think it's normal. Because the two have been together for a long time, they are too familiar with each other and have nothing new to share.

Because the interest in chatting with the other party at 1 point is gone, after all, it has been so long, and everything that should be known has been thoroughly understood.

From nothing to nothing to nothing to say, this is the status quo of most couples, and the reasons for this are as follows:

I've known each other for too long, and the two of them have said almost everything they can say, and there is no novelty anymore. Because I know it very well, sometimes I don't say anything, and the other party knows what it means, so there is no need to speak. A long-term lack of communication will lead to two parties not having a common topic and not understanding what the other person is up to?

I don't know what the other party thinks, so I don't know what to say.

Living together for a long time makes two people stumble together in time, struggle in trivial matters, quarrels, cold wars, ignore people, and the relationship between the two people fades, and they are not interested in talking to each other. What's more serious is that there is no love between two people, they are just about to fall in love, and couples who live together are too lazy to talk to each other. It's a sad thing for two couples to never talk about nothing.

Love is a technical job, and if couples want to have something to say often, they must learn to keep love fresh in business. Here are a few suggestions for reference:

Couples who have nothing to say for a long time can see chat as an important means of communication, making it ritualistic.

For example, two people put down their mobile phones before going to bed every day and "chat for 5 yuan". Two people do something together, travel, fitness, spending time with the kids, doing housework, ......If you can do it for two people, don't do it alone, so that two people can have some common topics.

Both of them must continue to learn and improve, often learn new knowledge and accept new ideas. Only when your knowledge and thinking horizons are constantly updated will you become attractive to your partner.

Love needs to be managed, and feelings can be kept fresh, and only by working together can two people go from having nothing to say to nothing to saying again. Don't encounter too many examples like this in life, communicate more, understand each other's difficulties, tolerate each other's shortcomings, often empathize, and be good at discovering each other's shining points. Don't let trivial things affect your happiness, just go in the right direction.

Perhaps this will greatly improve the ...... of the status quo where there is nothing to say

The feelings are gone, and the freshness is gone. may be because their feelings are weak, so they have nothing to say; It may also be that they know each other too well and feel that there is no freshness.

Couples never have nothing to say about nothing, which is caused by many reasons, maybe when two people didn't know each other before, they have a lot of topics to talk about, and after gradually becoming very familiar, they don't have anything to say, but just see each other's shortcomings and shortcomings, and pick on each other.

I think it's because they are not suitable for each other and their views don't agree, so they have nothing to say when they are together, and such two people are fruitless, and they should end as soon as possible.

Because the relationship between two people is gone, the two people have changed from intimate people to people who have nothing to talk about, and the feelings of two people have changed.

The main thing is that there is no freshness between two people, so something should be done to make the freshness between two people regain the freshness, so that the relationship can become sweet.

The main reason is that the relationship between the two has passed, so they have reached a dull area, and the content of the speech is relatively small.

Two people have been together for a long time, and it is inevitable that there will be no freshness, which is a normal performance, because it is impossible for two people to have endless topics to talk about, because the process of normal couples falling in love is to talk a lot at the beginning, but then they talk more about some things in life.

The process of normal couples falling in love, at the beginning, two people saw some shining points in each other, and then attracted one party to launch an active chase, and the other party felt that this person was not bad, and then chatted with each other, chatted and found that the two people were very suitable, talk about it, and then after falling in love together, it will involve more of each other's past, each other's lives, some habitual things, these will have a hot love period, and after these things are understood, There is a situation where the two of them have nothing to talk about, because the things that the other party can understand are almost understood, and everything that the other party has done since childhood is clear.

Two people from the love period gradually to, the dull change is all couples will go through, a time to learn to find some topics in life, two people can keep talking about things, or two people to experience more things, there are more things to talk about, but also to expand their knowledge, the other party likes to understand something, so that your chat can be more pleasant, there is nothing to talk about, The first reason is that you have been together for a long time and have talked about the past, and the second reason is that you have not mastered enough chat skills, and you have not talked more about future problems, because there are infinite possibilities in the future.

Many people can't survive the dull period of love, and feel that they have entered a love mode with nothing to talk about, that is, the emotions of two people have disappeared, not love, in fact, it is not like this, because any couple has to go through such a process, to learn to find a topic, learn to transition from romantic love to real life, and spend it, and the emotions will really stabilize during this period.

Hello dear, is it normal for couples to have nothing to say to each other, in fact, this question that everyone asks must be divided into circumstances, to see how long the two have known each other and how long they have been in love, if the love time is not very long, then there is nothing to say now, there is no common topic is very abnormal, after being combined, you will feel that life is very boring, and you feel that the other party does not understand yourself, like this situation will generally choose to break up. Although the two people have already determined their relationship, because the two people have just confirmed their relationship, there will be a certain gap in getting along. It's really normal for two people to just get along with each other and have nothing to say, because they don't know each other's temperament very well, but if two people get along for a long time and integrate into each other's lives, they will naturally have something to say.

If you encounter a vague problem, you should ask in time, get a lot of effective information, I hope it can help you!