The strange phenomenon of cold seats in the countryside has emerged, and you don t go to the banqu

Nowadays, there are more and more restaurants in the market, and young people can basically eat delicious food at any time when they go shopping, but sometimes they still miss the big banquets in the countryside. When people in rural areas are holding some happy events or funerals, they will invite relatives and friends to come over for dinner, and everyone is very lively when they get together. However, in today's rural areas, there is a phenomenon of cold seats, and many people should follow the members, but basically do not go to the banquet after the members.

In the old days, people went to the banquet after the ceremony, on the one hand, they felt that everyone lived relatively close to each other, and they were not busy, so there was nothing to eat. And in the past, people didn't live well, and after giving gifts, they definitely had to think about eating the cost back, so they would go to participate. But nowadays people just follow the gift, but do not go to the internship because the usual work is too busy, even if it is some holidays, some people may have to work overtime, people's life pressure is also very great, with a gift of hundreds of dollars to waste a whole day, it is better to go to work to earn back the money with the gift.

On the other hand, there is the reason for the distance, because many people have moved to live in the county, on the one hand, they have houses in the city. The distance has scared some people off, because it will be very troublesome to drive from other places, and if you drink alcohol, you will not be able to go back for a while, which is a waste of time. Therefore, for such a feast, many people should follow the group, but they don't have time, so they can't go in the past, unless they are very close relatives who have to help.

Nowadays, there are more and more interpersonal relationships, in addition to relatives, there are some friends, and the way of inviting others over for dinner is also very strange, some parents have passed away, and some have colleagues come over to attend the wedding. Some people's relationships are actually not so iron, and they actually run their own banquets just to make money, so those people are just just casual gifts, and they don't want to get too close to each other at all, otherwise it will be very embarrassing to go.

I think it's good. It's okay to have your mind come to mind, and now everyone should try to minimize gatherings in this situation.

I think this phenomenon is very normal because people nowadays are getting busier and busier, they don't have enough time to eat, and they don't want to participate in social activities

The main reason is that many people are busy with work now, and some people feel more disgusted by this phenomenon, so they will only go to the banquet with the courtesy.

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One of the reasons is that under the influence of the general environment, the population is not allowed to gather now, and many people are also responding to the call of my family and not causing trouble for themselves. In addition, everyone is busy with work now, although it is said that they live here in the countryside, and many people work in the city. Of course, money has to be given, but it is true that there is no time to eat.

Some time ago, I saw the news that many people were quarantined because they participated in gathering activities. Under the influence of the general environment, everyone is more concerned about their health, so everyone who can gather tries not to refuse, not that they don't want to go to internships, but the current environment does not allow everyone to have too much contact and create unnecessary trouble. <>

In our village, the most common situation is that all the connections are in the village, but people are already working outside, maybe not too far from their own village, but I am still a big worker and ask for leave or something, it is really not as convenient as I want. In order to eat a meal, in the eyes of most migrant workers, this is not cost-effective. <>

Nowadays, many young people are really reluctant to participate in any gathering activities. Especially for the banquet, the material conditions are actually very good for everyone now, and it is not too rare to eat a feast, and it is quite embarrassing to eat at a table with a group of people I don't know, so it is better not to participate.

If you look at it this way, this habit of eating "cold seats" will continue to be delayed in the future, or it will become more serious. Whether it's the general environment or everyone's different ideas, people nowadays are more obedient to their hearts, and they will no longer do things they don't like to do for the sake of face.

That's because the current epidemic is relatively serious, so everyone's life is relatively busy, so I don't go to eat with the courtesy.

Maybe it's because it's a shame to eat at the table, after all, it's all some old men and grandmothers, and some of them don't pay attention to hygiene.

Because everyone is busy, they work outside and have to pay a lot of money to go out to eat.

In the past, when there was a red and white affair, relatives, friends, and neighboring people came to help, which was a mutual help strategy, and the banquet was also delicious. And now that everyone's life is better, more people are paying for a one-stop to make a private table. One-stop is a business, and food can also be contracted.

In order to make more money, some of the foods you choose are leftovers, frozen meat, poor quality oil, or manufactured products (such as roasted white). The cooking food tends to be the actual operation of the production line, and the emotions are not exhausted, and there are a lot of spices and chicken essence, and the dishes taste unnatural and cannot be swallowed.

The love money of the banquet has a market like a product, and now it is rising higher and higher, and some people set up categories to hold banquets in order to make money, but the quality is getting more and more fart. The farmer made very little money, and it was very likely that the income he earned in a year would not be enough to eat the banquet, and even to the extent that he was afraid when he heard about the banquet, so he simply did not go. Some far-away banquets have to pay for the car and most of the day, which is like spending 200 yuan to have a meal and have to pay the fare out of pocket.

There are many people who farm in the countryside, and their lives are not good, and they can only open meat once in a long time.

Nowadays, in the countryside, many people have gone out to work. On weekdays, when I go home, there are not many young people at home in the big empty core part of the village. Generally, when the farming season is busy, or the Spring Festival is over, the village is still prosperous.

At this time, the most people who work in other places go home. Therefore, many people choose to hold banquets before the Spring Festival for weddings in rural areas, and the atmosphere is much more prosperous. However, ordinary banquets may not be held in time for the Spring Festival, such as the full moon banquet for giving birth.

The standard of living is getting better and better, and now the living standard of every household in the countryside has become much better than before, there are countless cars and small houses in the village, and the living standard of everyone is better, and the food is much better than before. When I was a child, I could only eat meat during the New Year or festivals, but now I can eat it whenever I wantIt's not uncommon to have a meal as well. Not only did I eat well, but I also ate a variety of dishes.

Therefore, these meals at the banquet are no longer so interested, and they can eat or not.

This is because people's lives are relatively busy, and at the same time, due to the impact of the epidemic, people have no way to participate.

This phenomenon occurs because: There are many times because there is no time to eat, you must know that most of the people in the countryside are bitten up when they are working in other places, and it is very possible that Liang Xin may just say congratulations and give a gift money. Moreover, the holding of a banquet has now become a kind of accumulation of wealth, and no matter what happens, the banquet must be held.

It's because everyone is working in the city now and doesn't have time to go, so they give their share money and don't go to eat.

The main reason for this situation may be because of the impact of the epidemic, or it may be because the weather is too hot to cause this situation to happen, and the reason for this may be that Zheng Splitian is more sleepy and diverse. Yuan Tsai.

This is due to the fact that many people are busy with their work, and in order to go to the countryside to have a meal, it is very uncost-effective to waste their work and waste their holidays, so they will not go to eat.

It is very common to hold a banquet in rural areas, and it is also a favorite thing for everyone to see, no matter what red and white ceremonies there are in every household, they must invite relatives and friends to get together, which has long formed a custom, if there are red and white things in the family and do not inform relatives and friends, it is considered to be unsophisticated or out of place.

"Eating a meal" is a cultural tradition.

Each place has a different name for the "eating table" culture, "eating table", "sitting seat", "with the ceremony" and other names, but the expression is the same meaning, that is, at the wedding and funeral, when invited to eat a large table of dishes, the host will make a full table of hot dishes, cold dishes, drinks, melon seeds, sugar and other kinds of food. In previous years, it was difficult to eat a meal in areas where living conditions were poor, and it was difficult to eat a meal of meat, but you can eat a lot of meat by eating a meal.

For example, in Henan, melon seeds, drinks and sugar are often put on the table first, so that the guests can eat in the interval between waiting for the dishes, and then the egg soup is often the last dish on each table, and the guests will naturally know that the dishes of the feast have ended. In the Northeast, there must be elbows at every table, which is enough to reflect the enthusiasm and boldness of the locals. In conclusion, the variety and order of cuisine vary greatly from region to region.

The phenomenon of eating cold mats is serious.

As we have said earlier, there is a certain reason why the banquet culture can be passed down to this day, and it is a channel for emotional transmission between people. But what does it mean that the phenomenon of eating cold mats is very serious nowadays? In fact, eating a cold table is not its literal meaning, to give the guests to eat a meal that has been cold, but to say that there are few guests who stay to eat the table, and the table is cold, in fact, to put it bluntly, it means that the guests no longer stay to eat and then leave, but leave directly with the money.

Many people don't think it's a big deal, and it doesn't matter if they want to leave or don't want to stay for dinner. But in fact, in the old banquet culture, there was never a guest who left directly after paying the portion.

Guests are invited to a banquet during weddings, funerals, weddings, and other ceremonial events, and guests will give gifts to the host in order to express their blessings or comfort, which is what we call share money. It can be seen that in such a situation, the relationship between the two is reciprocal, and there is no situation where the guest only pays for the meal.

Epilogue. Nowadays, the phenomenon of eating cold food is becoming more and more common in rural areas, and we should reflect on the reasons for this, and we should also understand that there is no one reason for this phenomenon.

It is the result of a combination of factors, and it is difficult to change this phenomenon, and from a certain point of view, the emergence of this phenomenon also reflects the change in today's society.

Because everyone is busy, they don't have time to eat, otherwise they will lose some opportunity cost.

There are not many guests who stay down to eat the banquet, and the table is deserted, in fact, to put it bluntly, it means that no one is sleepy and no one stays to finish the meal before leaving, but leaves directly with the money.

It's just that due to the outbreak of the epidemic in recent years, everyone's awareness of environmental protection and safety have increased.

This phenomenon occurs because most of the young people have gone out to work, and only the elderly and children stay in the countryside.

Because the rural conditions are relatively poor, the environment is not good, the weather is not good, the quality of some rural people is not very good, and the taste of the food is not very good, so everyone is not polite.

I think it's because people are so busy with work every day that they don't take time off to eat.

This is called"Eat a cold mat"This phenomenon has long been a common occurrence in rural areas. Every rural person has this situation when he or she has a wedding at home, when he joins the army, takes the exam, builds a house, and waits for a banquet, but this phenomenon also appears in the town, so it is no longer a strange thing.

And the person who caused this situation, that is to say, after they wrote the ceremonial account here, said hello to the owner of the banquet and left, no matter how the owner family sincerely retained, he had some excuses to explain that he had to go, from the situation I have experienced, these people who are going to leave have the following identity characteristics:

One is that most of them are from other villages.

Second, their specific identities and positions are not rural people, such as township and town public officials, businessmen and business owners who do business in society, and so on.

The third is that the current traffic conditions are too convenient, and there are many vehicles of all kinds, especially the most private ones, and these people are not restricted at all when they say they can go.

Fourth, some people are not suitable for this kind of noisy eating environment, and most of the eight to ten people at a table are not familiar with it, and they feel very bored emotionally, so it is better to leave.

Fifth, some people did have very important things to do at that time, so it was impossible for him not to leave.

Sixth, there are too many things in the countryside where banquets are held under various names and everyone is invited to drink, which is nothing more than asking people to give him a gift of 200 yuan.

In addition to the above six situations, there are two other kinds of food, that is, the taste of cooking in the countryside is not good, and everyone is also very particular about the freshness of this dish?

After knowing that this person's cooking level is not good, people naturally feel that they have no appetite, so it is better to eat at their own home, and another reason is that he has a person in other places to go with the etiquette, and he has to go to the next one, so he can only not eat and drink here. This has also become an economic pressure and a waste of material! In order to get back the gifts, many people have to find something to do and collect the money from the gifts, so that a kind of folk customs and vices will be formed in the countryside and society, which is very bad!