What to do when love has a cold peak

First, calm down and think seriously about the following questions: 1What is the severity of the current situation, if it is already very serious and irretrievable according to scientific estimates, or in fact, subconsciously you no longer love him (her) very much, or objectively and rationally think that her (his) love is no longer sincere, then stop making senseless struggles, and be strong and happy to welcome a new life!

If, after thinking very rationally, you decide to try to make amends, then look at the next one. 2.Why is the above situation happening, and is it objective or subjective?

That is, is it a human reason or a life reason, simply or mainly because of the time spent together, or is it determined by personality? Is it tired of each other or is one party tired of the other? Is it because there has been a huge change in the life or mental outlook of one party, or is the emotional foundation of the two people not stable?

In short, be sure to think about all the possibilities, of course, the answer can not be unique, find a piece of paper to write down all the reasons, and mark the reasons that you think are the most important. 3.Think about whether there is a possibility of solving the problem and a suitable solution based on the reasons for thinking about it, and the first way I recommend is sincere communication.

If it's your fault, let's say you're about to run out of water, and you feel that the other person is about to break up, if you don't want to choose to communicate (it's better not to), then at least you have to tell him (her) please give each other some more time, so that you can make an effort, otherwise it may be too late. If the fault is that the other party does not know it, then communication is the only recommended way, if the other party always knowingly committed, then what are you trying to, hurry up and kick it! Second, we must conscientiously implement measures to make recovery.

At most, communication can only label the death penalty you love with a "suspended execution", and if you don't take practical action to persevere to the end, you are likely to die even worse. The magic weapon of persistence is your determination to redeem in the final analysis is your love for each other, and the guide to action is: heart (hollowing out the mind and hollowing out new ideas), careful (starting from the details and small things), determination (patience!)

Refuse! Get out of the way, let go of all your worries, including that damn face!

In fact, love is very simple and simple! Love doesn't need to be out of the blue, it's true! For love, we don't expect its fulfillment, but we can make it true...

Today's society is a society where feelings are overflowing, and love has long become fast food. What will happen in the future, who thinks so far? So love becomes a pillow when you are lonely, a traveling companion when you are lonely; It becomes an excuse for some people to achieve their goals, and even becomes a slave to money ...

At this time, love has lost its beautiful aura and has become realistic and worldly... Is there still true love in this society? Yes, but very little, modern people do not know how to cherish love, when they have it, they will suck the essence of love recklessly, do not water, do not fertilize, so the flower of love will not be long before it withers...

When love went away, I found that the beautiful love I was striving for was once so close to me, but unfortunately there is no regret medicine in this world... So when you have a good love, cherish it ...

Love is a feeling of loving and being loved, a tacit understanding of the heart, an unforgettable longing, a kind of willing to give without reciprocation, a kind of striving to create a sky for the happiness of the lover, a desire to be cared for, respected, understood and tolerated, a process of dependence and kindness to each other, a feeling of heartbeat (when missing), heartbeat (when we meet), heartache (when parting and hurting) Love someone, understand and explain, apologize and thank, admit mistakes and correct mistakes, Be considerate and considerate, accept rather than endure, be tolerant!!Happiness will not wait for you all the time, the people who love you and the people you love are not ready to appear, please learn to cherish them. When a person who loves you deeply changes for you, it is because he loves you, and when you meet someone, he puts away his stubborn temper for you; And because he loves you, he turns your interest into his interest when ,...Or because he loves you.

There is no reason to like someone, and it is worth paying without regrets, as long as you can be with the person you love. In fact, we all have some such people around us, but (you.

I. He hasn't discovered that the person who knows you best will always be by your side to protect you and not let you have a trace of grievances; People who truly love you may not say many things that love you, but they will do many things that love you. If you find someone like this around you, please cherish .......

Please remember! The stars that can't be picked are always the brightest, and the small fish that slip away are always the most beautiful. The missed movie is always the best, and the lost lover always understands you best.

In this world, everyone has someone they want to seek, and if they miss it, they won't come back. If you fall in love, don't give up easily. It's awkward, maybe you regret it for a while; But you give up, and it may make you regret it for the rest of your life.

A life that has experienced love is beautiful, and love that cannot stand the test is not profound. Beautiful love enriches life, and love that has passed the test is perfect.

Please keep your eyes open when love comes; Please don't be sad when love is gone, think about it from another angle, it is the loss of the other party, because he has lost someone who loves him.

Love is coming, you should cherish it If love is gone, don't sink and fall for the loss of love, love has no results, let alone lose the revenge of reason, because, in all this process, the pain has been continuing, besides, sinking, falling, revenge, whatever, everything can't go back. I can't deny the existence of true love from now on.

Grasp love and create tomorrow.

Right! Find true love and be happy for a lifetime.

When love encounters difficulties, we should find the root cause of the problem and come up with a big way to solve the difficulty, so that love will be sweeter after experiencing the test of difficulties.

When you encounter difficulties in love, you should know whether the two of you are compatible with each other, whether they are suitable for each other and whether they are suitable for falling in love together, and the opinions and opinions of your parents and your relatives should be studied.

Be brave to face it and work hard to solve it together, the relationship will go to the next level after the difficulties have passed, and the love that has not experienced the wind and rain will not last long.

Deal with it calmly, analyze your own mistakes, and then find a way to solve it, arguing can't solve the problem, you can only push him out.

Let go! It's better to stick to one person's love than to find another love!!

It depends on how your couple feels, and I think if she has an interest in a third person, you should release your love for her and love him even more, to the extent that it is enough to defeat the third person, and if it doesn't matter, it's better to be generous and ignore him.

- -If there is a third party, review yourself first. Generally speaking, there is a third party whose own problem, either the charm is limited, or the conflict with the boyfriend Why would the boyfriend find another one? It was because he felt that the current one had deviated from the image of his girlfriend in his mind, so he went to find another one to fill the gap in his heart.

If he only has you in his heart, how can he allow the existence of a third party? It's really not good, play ruthlessly with that third party. The man came out and asked him which one he wanted. -

If this person is still worthy of your love, I think you should calmly think about your own mistakes and review yourself. See if there's room for redemption. If it's purely a matter of three or four, you won't necessarily have a good result even if you keep it.

At this point, you have to be careful. If you make a mistake, your previous efforts are in vain, you have to seize opportunities everywhere, don't underestimate the enemy, you know? But one question, that's the third book, please be clear, it's her or herself.

Just say one word, and if you say too much, it's a waste of words! If it was me who took the initiative to find other people in her, I would review myself, and if it was other people who took the initiative to find me, I would never let go of that person or her!

If your object loves you, you will defeat the "third party", if your object does not love you, then you are not a "third party", be conscious, flash!!

If your he (she) really loves that third party, then I think that since you love someone to make that person happy, giving up is also a kind of love, no matter who is the third party but it is also good to fulfill a pair of people who love each other, so that you will not make your him (her) embarrassed, even if you defeat the third party, if your he (she) does not love you, then you have no way, although love is fought for by yourself, but giving up does not mean that you are defeated by a third party, you should have a good talk with your him (her) to figure things out, Who is he (she) in the end, if he loves you, then use you and your love to prove it, if he (she) is a third party, then you will automatically quit, and it is not a good thing to fulfill others!

Better for him than usual.

Originally, it was his fault that he had a third person.

He will be ashamed of you.

You are more kind to him.

He will be more uncomfortable.

Sooner or later, it will come back to you again.

So you just have to treat him better than usual.

Scold. My boyfriend used to talk to me about something else.

I quit. Because he said he would never choose, and he hurt me. Fooled me. I've had enough. Now I am an enemy of him. Hate him.

To fight with him (her) fairly, see if she (he) likes Ni or the third party, hehe.

Are you a third party, or is he or she?

Life is full of competition, and feelings are no exception, since there is a third party to join, you have to improve yourself"Comprehensive competitiveness", analyze yourself, the other party, the strengths and weaknesses of others, and put yourself in the position you want to stand in!

If it's just that person is just unrequited love, then let him do it, if not, then maybe there is something wrong with the relationship between the two of us

Don't retreat, carefully study the third person who is better than you, who is worse than you, attack his weaknesses with your strengths, and defeat him.

The love field is like a confrontation, the strong wins, and the weak loses

If you really love each other! If he (she) is stronger than you in all aspects, then see if his (her) can be much happier than you if he (she) follows the third person than you follows you. If that's the case, I'd rather give up hehe!

Keep that one for now, and if it's okay, keep going, and let that one wait.

If you can't pinch it, just change it to the one waiting for you, how good is it, and it's not party affairs.

Simple: kill him if it's a gentleman.

Damn, such a despicable thing can be done

The true meaning of affection lies in not seeking. Loving someone is not about getting any benefit from them, you love someone, you want to be nice to them, because you feel happy. That's why we criticize this as a ruthless time, because everybody is giving their emotions as if they were doing business.

When we love someone, we like to make sure that they love me first, and if they don't love me, I don't want to love them. But the other party will also think like this, so the two have to wait for the good days to slip by. Affection is a kind of giving, not a kind of getting, and you should not care about how much the other person can give you, because you have nothing in the first place. You can also sacrifice for love, but this sacrifice must be willing, not aggrieved, reluctant, and then ask the other party to repay you.

Some people say: Great love should stand the test, but since the relationship is so precious, it should be carefully cared for, rather than being tested if there is nothing to do. It's like an egg in your hand, you should take care of it, not throw it on the ground and wonder how it can break!

Don't test love, but don't be afraid of the test, and don't be afraid that the test will fail. Of course, we all hope that love can be talked about ordinarily and smoothly, and there will be no problems in a lifetime. But if love has to suffer some twists and turns, some blows, some hurts, we can also stand up and accept it.

If we do lose it, it is only superficial or formal, but we can have it forever in life. In this day and age, on the one hand, we should not overestimate love, because love does not allow us to overcome everything, to obtain everything, and not to be entirely beautiful; On the other hand, don't underestimate love, because love is a talent that everyone has, and don't be reluctant to give. When you meet someone who suits you and loves you, choose what you love and love what you choose!

Try to maintain your feelings well. But how do you measure whether love can last? Maybe there's a standard:

You are more happy than bitter in love, and it makes you more motivated than you fall. It makes you more satisfied than you want. If there is no fame, wealth, and power in life, it is still possible to be happy.

If there is no love in life, the chances of happiness are slim. Be brave enough to embrace the love you have received, and try your best to enjoy the beauty of love, and avoid the pain and hurt it will bring us.

Trouble, thanks!