My brother is 37 and what kind of mentality is 20

Because he was hurt too much by money, and it was too great. The girl didn't want to be with him because he didn't have any money, and the girl's family didn't allow the girl to be with him because he didn't have money. Therefore, he will think that the so-called love is a derivative of money.

This is already a kind of revenge psychology, and if your words are true, then your brother is terminally ill.

It can only be said that he did not grow up in a good environment, and nothing else can be explained. Now he already thinks that everything in this world except money is a derivative of money, and he is now very pitiful and lonely. To put it mildly, in my eyes he is not only a fool, but an out-and-out big fool.

Correct him and bring him to his senses, if you are his sister, you should know how to do it. In fairy tales, the way to make an unconscious princess open her eyes, you know.

I used to be looked down upon, and when I made a fortune, I looked down on others and wanted to take revenge on others, which is quite normal, because many people will have it.

But this mentality has become a habit, and it won't work, and he won't feel sorry for anyone now, because others have treated him like this before, and he must think that he is right.

Do your best to persuade him, and the man will become stable when he gets married.

A kind of revenge mentality

Revenge can make people crazy.

Taken seriously before、

But there are so many setbacks

Little by little, the heart cooled down.

This kind of thing can't come reluctantly.

It's up to him completely

Only wait for him, wait for him to meet the right person, the person who can change him.

Nouveau riche only, nothing else. There is retribution in this world, if you play someone else today, it will be someone else's time to play him tomorrow. Hehe!

Who told him to talk about friends before and was dumped many times because of money.

I guess I'm too scared to do those things.

I express speechless, sick society.

It's better to have a comprehensive description of your brother, it's just a description of one thing, and there is too little content.

From this incident, it can be seen that your brother may be ten people with a strong desire to control, or he may be biased against what you have learned, thinking that it is useless, maybe he is very pragmatic! Always thinking about how to make money or something.

Not an expert.

But I think it's your brother who wants to be with you.

So stop you.

Maybe it's very emotional after staying for a long time and doesn't want to be separated.

It's really hard to make a more apt description of your brother based on your little description. The situation you mentioned shows that your brother may be a very self-centered person, he can't distinguish the boundary between himself and others, and thinks that others think the same as himself, that is, he transfers his own wrong judgment of things to others, and thinks that others think the same as himself. This is just a little judgment based on your description, and you should be cautious about defining your brother.

I'm also an older brother, and everyone who is an elder brother should want my sister to be happy in the future! This shows that your brother cares about you very much and loves you! Don't overthink it!

Communicate with your brother well! It's going to be better!

Let your brother listen to Jay Chou's"Grandma"

Ken can have any reason, try to communicate, I wish you a happy time!

Maybe it's jealousy, don't you think? But it's also possible that I don't want to be separated from you.

From the perspective of a bystander, she likes you, but she may like some challenges, or she doesn't want to make the relationship too smooth, it is best to have ups and downs and finally have a reunion, as the saying goes, men are not bad, women are not loved. You retreat and she advances, you retreat, she enters again, it is not easy to grasp the balance between hot and cold. In short, communicate with a sincere heart, and don't regret it even if you fail.

Maybe it's because of some knots, for example, like you said yourself, she is not tall or beautiful.

If you like her, care for her with your heart, love her, and one day she will understand your intentions.

Her refusal to meet in reality may be to strengthen your friendship and sublimate it. Think about it in a different position, because of some factors, but the other party in reality is worth entrusting yourself, will you meet when the relationship is not very strong?

Personally, I think that the reason why we don't see each other is because we cherish !! too much

What you're talking about isn't specific enough, can you tell us more?

Personally, I think that if you insist on meeting or something, it may destroy what she thinks is the kind of beauty between you, which is ambiguous.

If you really want to grow, you can continue chatting. Don't be in a hurry, she'll come to you when the time comes...

Sometimes it's just a test of your patience. So hold on

I don't think she likes you anymore If there are a lot of people chasing her Especially a beautiful woman It doesn't mean anything to talk to you Or you don't even see each other To put it bluntly, she must have a boyfriend And you're just his alternate Friends she can talk about when she's bored You can see that you like her But I advise you to give up on her.

I don't think it's any tricks you need, it's sincerity. You must believe that you truly love her now, but will time agree? Let's be cold for a while, wait until everything is calm and then ask yourself if you love her, if you are still so sure at that time, then be brave and pursue it, for the happiness of both of you!

She likes spiritual love, but this kind of love is very likely to turn into a real relationship, because she has met you, and if you like her, don't hurry up. Of course, you can counter the plan, let him go on a date, and slowly you say that you like a girl, ask him what methods he has, and so on.

It should like you.

However, it's probably because there are more people chasing her, and girls enjoy that feeling very much. Maybe she thinks that if she is with you, there will be fewer people chasing her. So I like you and want others to continue to pursue her.

I want to be in love with you spiritually.

He's testing you, you have to work hard, ask what she likes, sell some small gifts, if you have the opportunity to surprise her, send a message every day to remind you of the weather changes, no problem, you will definitely be able to win.

Say she likes you, but she doesn't want to meet you in the real world.

Say she doesn't like you, and she's willing to accept your weaknesses (sorry for using the word weakness).

It is possible, as you say, to be mentally dependent on you.

I want to fall in love with you in an imaginary world.

It seems that you are meeting a girl who is relatively insecure, you should have faith in yourself, put your efforts into practical actions, or make up a white lie to tease her, maybe she will be yours in the near future.

Maybe she thinks that she doesn't have to know you well enough when she meets you, so you can show her all about yourself, and some people act slowly, don't rush.

If you can't say it in reality, you can do anything on the Internet, it's more convenient to lie, no one is looking for trouble, it's best to ask her out to meet, have a good chat in person, and see if the situation is decided.

Is this one? It's hard for a girl to understand! Just believe in yourself! I don't like why you text every day, it's a lot of money! If you think about it, you know that you should like it! Then you have to confess quickly! You also said that there are a lot of people who like her!

If you like chatting, keep chatting, and if you're not satisfied with chatting and she doesn't have the other ideas for you, you just do it.

It should like you. Take the initiative!

But sometimes you have to snub her a little and see how she reacts!

Closeness, friendship, love.

Take a step, look at a step, love cannot be selfish, don't rush it, you can't reach it or make mistakes if you want to hurry.

outlook on life, values, outlook on marriage and love, ......

Love Baiwei, each person experience;

First love is single, don't fall into the mystery;

Hazy love, unpredictable results;

Life is mature, and flowers bloom naturally.

I reckon she's seen you a long time ago, or knows you at all, and probably likes you. I'm just afraid that meeting will break the relationship that I already have. Don't dare to gamble.

Try her and you'll know: just say that another girl is chasing you, and then ask her what her opinion is, won't you be sure!?

..I want to say that ...

A large part of girls like to be ambiguous...

You can't take it completely seriously...

It's not enough to just send a message and chat...

Isn't this nonsense, hurry up and start chasing, you will regret it when you miss the opportunity.

She loves you immensely.

She likes the feeling of being loved.

Including you. You're just a human being.

Don't forget. And not a lot of people.

If you're sure, go after it with a passionate red rose!

A characteristic of the boy's personality rebellion.

After all, you and your brother have grown up, and some men and women should avoid it, and one day, he will get better again.

You good sister, brother.

It's nothing, relatives are always relatives, and it will be fine after a while, maybe he is just not very happy for a while, forgive him.

The relationship between the elder brother and the younger brother is very delicate, and it is generally the elder brother who feels that he has given too much affection than the younger brother, and if you can give affection to the elder brother everywhere, I think there will be changes.

I think he likes you, and there may be some reason why he doesn't dare to show his true feelings!Let's take a good time to ask him, it's going to hurt you in the end if you're ambiguous!

He's hesitating. It's a headache in this state. I think you can accept others too. After all, there are no constraints between you, and it's okay to reach out to other people. The more nervous you are, the more you get the opposite result. Hehe!

Go with the flow and focus more on other places, you won't have time to think about him, and if he really likes you, he will try to chase you.

I feel like you've always treated him like a big brother you can rely on, not a couple.

It may be that your brother has just retired from illness, and it is understandable that my sister-in-law still can't adapt to it. After all, if a family's income is reduced by a part every month, everyone will be anxious, which also directly affects the quality of life of the family. If your brother's health is okay, then let him find a job, ask relatives and friends to help, and hope that their relationship will get better soon!

The expectations for marriage are relatively high, but he is not capable enough to meet his subconscious requirements, so he transferred his consciousness to his mother. Try to get him to open up and tell him why, and maybe it can be solved through communication.

Have a good chat with him, talk to him, tell him how much his mother loves him, how happy his family is for him, and let him live a good life after he gets married.

Please communicate with your girlfriend well, understand what your mother is not doing well enough, and need to improve, and then open up to your mother to talk to solve the problem, and the family should love each other, everyone must have a heart, and life will be happy and harmonious.

If you consult, the red ten-character Boai Hospital can also ask your brother to ask!

Premarital depression, after getting married, it will be fine.

I'm a counselor, and I feel like your son has to go for counseling regardless of whether he has any real problems or not.

Psychological counseling is divided into two categories, one is for people with psychological problems**, which is called mental health counseling.

There's also developmental counseling for people who are mentally healthy. They will also encounter problems in life, such as marriage and family problems, career choice problems, career adaptation and development problems, etc., they need to make ideal and correct choices in the face of the above problems, and psychological counseling can help them find the most suitable path for themselves.

So your son can come as much as possible if possible, and both of the above classifications can be suitable for him. Isn't it?

I won't say more, because the problem you said is not very clear, and I can't diagnose it. Go to a counselor. I won't say more.

You should ask your son if he really wants to give up studying or if he has something else going on in his heart? If he really has no interest in learning, it will be useless for others to force him, and the road of life will have to be walked by himself

It feels like he's running away from life, when he was in high school, he saw learning as very important, and when he went to college, he found that cultural knowledge was not as important as he imagined, and at the same time he suddenly lost his goal in learning and life, lost the courage to live, and felt that time and everything didn't matter. But only three days of heat he will continue to be confused, and slowly he will face the reality, what he needs to do now is to communicate with him more, let him do more outdoor sports, find a job that is more suitable for him, try to make his life less free, give him a feeling of busyness, and slowly he will get better,

Tomorrow after tomorrow, tomorrow is so much. I'm going to live tomorrow, and everything will come to pass. Tomorrow's bitterness will be tired tomorrow, and the spring will come to the east to the veteran!

It's just a pathology of all after going to college. The material life and spiritual life are satisfied, he has no pressure, and he doesn't know how to go in the future. I can't finish talking for a while.,If you have the conditions, you still take him to see a doctor.,But it's so big.,The character is formed.,It's hard for someone to control him.,You can also calm down.。。

Find out the root cause ... Or his girlfriend, let others talk about him.