Why do the current rural banquets not like neighbors to help for free, and prefer to spend money to

Why do the current rural banquets not like neighbors to help for free, and prefer to spend money to hire people?

First: In the past, farmers were mainly engaged in agriculture. After winter, there is no farm work in the fields and the farmers have nothing to do, so no matter who has a wedding, people will help them.

But now farmers are no longer as focused on agriculture as they used to be, and more farmers are choosing to go out to work or work in local factories. The peasants' time became less plentiful. If they go and help the restaurant industry, the farmers will have no income, but it's not fun not to help.

In order not to leave the villagers in a difficult situation, the family holding the wedding will pay to invite professionals to organize the wedding instead of waiting for the villagers to help as before.

Second: In recent years, not only have more and more farmers gone out to work, but many farmers will choose to stay in the cities and never return to the countryside. Except for the bustle during the Spring Festival, most of the people who stay in the village at other times are the elderly and children.

Because everyone is busy making money on weekdays, and the relationship between the villagers has become less and less enthusiastic from before, when there is a happy event in the village, many people will excuse themselves by not going to work to help. As time went on, fewer and fewer people went to help out at village weddings, and people had to pay for a team of professionals.

Third: There are good and bad people who come to help. Some of them came to help sincerely.

They are very industrious, take their master's business as their own, and work hard when they see things. Some say they're here to help. In fact, they cheat, play tricks, don't work hard, and eat and drink, which also affects other people who help.

If the owner is not kind, he will slander others behind his back afterwards.

Fourth: Rural areas are no longer the self-sufficient economic model of the past. Money has become a very important part of rural life.

People no longer think it is shameful to "sell out their labor". Instead of being ashamed, they see labor as an important commodity. If you can earn money through your labor, you will be respected by everyone.

Because of asking neighbors to help for free, more and more people are in trouble, and more and more people are sophisticated in it, and in the end, they are very tired. It is much easier to spend money to hire someone, and the quality is more guaranteed, which has become the choice of most people.

Because it is easy to generate favors between neighbors when they help, it is better to spend money to hire people, pay directly, and do not owe favors.

Because asking neighbors to help owe favors, people are less willing to owe favors, and are more willing to spend money to hire people.

Asking neighbors to help will owe a debt of favors, so it will be more difficult to repay, it is better to spend money to invite others, so it will be more neat and will not be involved in a lot of trouble. And the banquet in the countryside is more tiring, if you ask the neighbors to help, it will make the neighbors more annoyed, but embarrassed to refuse. In this way, the relationship between the two parties may be more awkward, and the neighbor who gives the money may not ask for it.

And the helper is also more difficult to do, you must give the chef a good start, so as to make the meal more delicious. Professional things should be handed over to professional people to do, so that the results can be more perfect.

I believe many people know that personal debts are very difficult to repay, and things that can be done well with money are relatively simple. Give less, and your neighbors may feel that you look down on each other. If you give too much, you will feel more distressed, so it is better to go directly to the market to ask for helpers, so that you can pay for it with one hand and deliver it with one hand.

So it may be really convenient for you to help, but it will also make you worry about comparing it afterwards. Generally speaking, the rural banquet will be made by a professional chef, and the chef is also familiar with many offices, so he will invite you to help with good quality and low price, and the work is also very neat. You don't have to worry about it at all, the chef will take care of it for you.

Neighbors may also have their own things to do, such as pulling weeds out of the field today. But since it is the neighbor who opens your mouth, the other party will also agree, and it will delay the neighbor's affairs and make the neighbor unable to speak. Once or twice is fine, but many times will make the neighborhood more discordant, and it will also make the other party angry with you.

In addition, there are not many people living in the countryside now, and the number of people who come to help is relatively small, and a little bit of people is simply not enough to support a large seat.

The dishes on the big banquet in the countryside are very delicious, because they are all big pot dishes, the seasonings and ingredients are relatively good, especially flavorful, and they are also delicious to eat. The helpers can pack some food to take home to eat, so there are still many people who are willing to do help.

Because you owe popularity to the help of your neighbors, and you have to repay the favor in the future, and you don't know how to pay it back, it may be because you have invited someone to help you, and in the end you have to pay more, it is better to spend money to hire someone, so it is more neat.

In fact, rural people are very fond of face, and the big banquet is to see the pomp, if you help for free, it will seem that you are too stumbling.

Because neighbors usually procrastinate on work. Just to play. It doesn't actually help much. It will not help.

Nowadays, the rural banquets do not like to receive etiquette and free help, but they have to consider spending money to ask someone to help. This is mainly because there are fewer and fewer people living in rural areas, and most of them are now living in the cities, and when faced with holding big banquets in rural areas, they can only think about spending money to ask others to help. The reason why many people consider holding banquets in rural areas is mainly because they think that people in rural areas are more lively.

In today's life, many people generally consider going to the countryside when they go to hold a large banquet. However, there are also some people who consider that holding a banquet in the countryside requires cleaning and will easily stain their homes, so in order to reduce some cleaning time, they will consider holding it directly in the restaurant. If you hold it in a hotel, you will feel more time-saving and hassle-free by leaving everything to some people in the hotel.

For the big banquet in the countryside, it is the people who need to ask for help alone, to help wash the vegetables, set the plates and set the table, and so on. <>

Most people in life can feel it, and now there are fewer and fewer people living in rural areas, especially most of the people living in rural areas are mainly elderly. Most young people live in the city, and for some people, when they are considering setting up a banquet, they ask the elderly to help, and they feel that the labor force of the elderly is very lacking. I didn't dare to consider letting the elderly do some manual work of moving tables and chairs, so I could only ask the elderly to help do some things like picking and washing vegetables.

It is also because considering that there are many elderly people in life who are not particularly good in health, if the elderly have some accidents in the process of helping, it will be worth the loss. So I'd rather pay someone to help than let a neighbor help for free. Even asking neighbors to help for free may be easy to talk about in the future, because rural people will always have a lot of remarks because of such things.

This is because asking someone to help can be more conscientious and responsible, and letting your relatives help, but also taking care of the other party's face, but also to give the other party some benefits, it is better to directly spend money to invite someone to come.

Because neighbor help is favor, after the neighbor helps himself, he also needs to help when the neighbor encounters something, and it is more convenient to spend money to hire someone.

Everyone is afraid of owing others favors, and they are also afraid that something bad will happen to their own family, and they will be spread outside, affecting their image in the village.

Nowadays, the big seats in the countryside don't like neighbors to help each other for free, mainly because they are afraid of owing a lover. Because not everyone will live in the countryside and consider holding a big banquet, now people's living conditions are getting better and better, and when they are facing their children considering marriage, they will generally choose to hold a wedding for their children directly in the city. If you consider holding a wedding in a rural area, you will generally directly ask some cooks to help, or people who wash and pick vegetables, rather than allowing neighbors to help for free.

In fact, people living in the countryside in the past can feel the enthusiasm of rural people, but in the face of the current relationship between people, they will also feel that there is a big gap. Nowadays, when a big banquet is held in rural areas, it is not necessary for neighbors to provide free help, but needs neighbors to give gifts. As long as the gift is given, the neighbors can stay at each other's home to have a meal, and after the meal, it is equivalent to giving gifts to each other, but the money for gifts between neighbors is often relatively small.

Neighbors are also more concerned about how much money the other party gives, and when it comes to other days, other people's children also need to give the same gift money when they get married. These are some of the customs of rural people, because rural people will regard gift money as more important than anything, and if the money given is less than others, it will definitely cause trouble. But if you give more, it will make the other party feel a little unsure, because the local gifts in the countryside should be the same, and if you receive 300, you should return 300 to others.

Nowadays, when many rural people consider holding a banquet, they are generally reluctant to let their neighbors help each other, also because they are afraid that the things discussed by the neighbors will become more and more. And now that many rural people are already living in the cities, they generally don't have time to think about helping their neighbors for free. The neighbors also think that everyone has everyone's affairs, and only when there is something on the day, they can just call the neighbors back for a meal.

Most people would rather spend their own money to hire someone than let their neighbors help, so as not to get into more trouble for themselves in the future.

Yes, after the other party helps, if there are some special circumstances, you also need to help, it is more troublesome, and the help is definitely not for nothing.

I am really afraid of owing favors, and I am also afraid of losing the handle and letting others spread it, which will make me lose face in the whole village, so I am willing to ask people outside to help.