What is the reason why eating cold seats has become the norm in rural areas?

This is called"Eat a cold mat"This phenomenon has long been a common occurrence in rural areas. Every rural person has this situation when he or she has a wedding at home, when he joins the army, takes the exam, builds a house, and waits for a banquet, but this phenomenon also appears in the town, so it is no longer a strange thing.

And the person who caused this situation, that is to say, after they wrote the ceremonial account here, said hello to the owner of the banquet and left, no matter how the owner family sincerely retained, he had some excuses to explain that he had to go, from the situation I have experienced, these people who are going to leave have the following identity characteristics:

One is that most of them are from other villages.

Second, their specific identities and positions are not rural people, such as township and town public officials, businessmen and business owners who do business in society, and so on.

The third is that the current traffic conditions are too convenient, and there are many vehicles of all kinds, especially the most private ones, and these people are not restricted at all when they say they can go.

Fourth, some people are not suitable for this kind of noisy eating environment, and most of the eight to ten people at a table are not familiar with it, and they feel very bored emotionally, so it is better to leave.

Fifth, some people did have very important things to do at that time, so it was impossible for him not to leave.

Sixth, there are too many things in the countryside where banquets are held under various names and everyone is invited to drink, which is nothing more than asking people to give him a gift of 200 yuan.

In addition to the above six situations, there are two other kinds of food, that is, the taste of cooking in the countryside is not good, and everyone is also very particular about the freshness of this dish?

After knowing that this person's cooking level is not good, people naturally feel that they have no appetite, so it is better to eat at their own home, and another reason is that he has a person in other places to go with the etiquette, and he has to go to the next one, so he can only not eat and drink here. This has also become an economic pressure and a waste of material! In order to get back the gifts, many people have to find something to do and collect the money from the gifts, so that a kind of folk customs and vices will be formed in the countryside and society, which is very bad!

Because in the countryside, all the dishes are freshly made, and many people do not have time to eat, they are busy, and now there are fewer young people in the countryside, most of them are elderly, and they can't eat much.

The rural conditions are too poor, the equipment is not perfect, there is no formal venue, the time management is not done well, and the weather is too cold.

The main reason is that people are busy with work now, so they generally don't go to the table when they are participating.

Things are busy, only etiquette. Writer Yang Daxia Yang Ke explained.

Because the food eaten at the banquet is not as delicious as cooking at home.

Because with the development of time, people are becoming more and more picky about what they eat. So this phenomenon is also becoming more and more common.

Because now for ordinary people, chicken, duck and fish are not rare, and they usually eat them at home, so they don't like to join in the fun.

Followers are kidnapped by stereotypes and morals, and whoever you think wants to eat may have to lose time, energy and hygiene, not to mention cost-effective.

Because nowadays, everyone rarely goes to the banquet, and most of them are very busy and do not have time to eat.

Because I don't have time. I work in Beijing, and my hometown is in a small city in the 18th tier of Northeast China, and the cost of a round trip is too high, so it is better to send a red envelope.

Because now that life and diet are better, the tastes have begun to pick, and I feel that there is nothing to eat.

In order to be cheap, the restaurant uses zombie meat, and the oil is also the cheapest gutter oil, which can't make the taste of the past, so I miss the taste of making a table when I was a child

That's because these rural flowing water mats are not very clean, and now people's living standards are improving, which is not uncommon.

This is probably because there is no time, after all, people are very busy nowadays.

Maybe it's due to personal reasons, or maybe I just don't want to go.

Because there is nothing to eat and hurt the body.

It means to tell you that you have no interest in the entourage, and you have no feelings for the master.

It's deteriorated, I used to talk about feelings, but now it's money.

Respond to Zhongnanshan's good Shao, and don't add chaos to the society.

Busy, far from home, don't like rural seats.

Because I don't really want to go, and I have my own things, maybe I don't have time because I'm busy.

The relationship is average, there is no interest in eating, and the favorites are indispensable.

Isn't it nice to sleep at home during the holidays?

Because many people choose to work outside the home, they are not in their hometowns, so there is no way to participate in the banquet in the countryside. On the other hand, they feel that as long as the courtesy arrives, it means that the affection has arrived, and there is no need for someone to arrive.

In fact, many people do not live in their hometowns now, so they will not go to banquets in rural areas. Because if it's not during the holidays, it's too much time and energy to come and go,Therefore, they are not willing to go back to the countryside to have a banquet.

Of course, part of the reason is that they feel that when the courtesy arrives, it means that the affection has arrived, and they don't necessarily ask for someone to come. It's the same in our family, or when the whole family doesn't have time, we just ask our grandparents in our hometown to give a gift. In this way, the friendship has arrived, and the relationship between everyone is also maintained.

Therefore, the phenomenon of cold seats in rural areas is still relatively common, and most of the young people have not developed in rural areas, so in this case, if it is not for the phenomenon of cold seats in rural areas during the Chinese New Year, it is very easy to cause. Most people will not take a leave of absence to come back just for a wedding drink, and the cost of travel may be more valuable than the banquet itself, so most people will not force themselves to participate unless it is necessary.

And it is true that the friendship between relatives is fading now, especially among the younger generationI usually don't like to chat with relatives, and I don't like to go to relatives' homes during the New Year's holidays. At this time, when they become adults and need to deal with these scenes, their hearts are more perfunctory. So being able to bring the gift to them is already the limit of what they can do.

So in general, now that everyone is running from all over the world, it is more difficult to get together, so many people feel that it is enough to send friendship to courtesy, and there is no need to make a special trip. With this in mind, cold mats in rural areas have become the norm.

Because many banquets in rural areas are now looking for excuses to make money, and if you don't pay money for a long time, you will lose money seriously.

Because now the conditions of each family are better, and they usually eat, and the banquet is crowded, and sometimes they have to eat with people they don't know, and the last ceremony is just fine.

The first reason is that the current situation is not suitable for people to get together, and the second situation is that most people now advocate a healthy diet and are reluctant to eat those greasy dishes, and the dishes on the banquet can be more or less greasy, and they are meat dishes.