In today s life, how can we change the consumption concept of mothers?

You can't change your mother's concept of consumption in order to change your own.

This is the conclusion I have come to through practice, and it is not just a casual statement. I think that two or three years after I graduated, I found a relatively stable job, and at that time, I felt that my parents were really living a very simple life.

They lived in a large house valued at 5 million at that time, and what they ate every day, even if it was just a piece of meat or a leaf or two, had to be left for the second meal to eat. If you do a little more in the evening, you must eat the leftovers of the whole day the next day.

Every time I tried to reason with them or try to persuade them not to be so economical, or simply throw out their leftovers, they always responded to me in a very disgusting way.

At that time, although the house we lived in was very large with three bedrooms and two living rooms, and there were two bathrooms to use, but the house was full of things that my mother was reluctant to lose. Once, at home, I felt that there were too many things piled up in the house, so I started cleaning.

What expired black tea I found from the sideboard at home, Ejiao that had been stored for nearly 15 years, and some small candies that others had unintentionally or intentionally sent back to them in the early years, were all very cheap gadgets that they bought or bought themselves but were reluctant to eat.

You said that I just threw all these things away, but I didn't expect that the clean sideboard that I cleaned up was used as a kind of incriminating evidence by my mother, because I disposed of all her things without her consent.

So my approach is to move out of the house and live my own life, no one should interfere with anyone, every time I see that the windows of my own small home are bright and clean, and they are full of dust at home, I can only feel that the life of the elders can only affect our living conditions, but they cannot affect each other.

I went back to my parents' house this summer and bought a new mobile phone for my father, which is the picture below:

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Very cheap and cost 1800 bucks.

But my dad kept refusing to use it, saying that his old phone still works.

His old phone is the Apple 6,16G version that I gave him a few years ago,The battery has decayed,There is only one day on standby on the base envy empty book,Look** or something,Charge twice a day。 And because he won't upgrade the version of the operating system, many apps can't be used normally.

At first, I didn't understand why my dad would refuse to give him a new phone.

After asking my mother, I found out that my dad was used to using the old mobile phone, and he was afraid that the new phone would not be used. The most important thing is that every time I change my mobile phone, I have to re-app, rewrite the address book, and re-sync WeChat chat history, and my dad won't do these at all, and he is embarrassed to trouble the children, so he just keeps making do with the old mobile phone.

It was at that moment that I realized that it was very easy for young people to their mobile phones, but it was very difficult for the elderly.

So I installed the app of the new mobile phone,**、Contacts、Chat history is also synchronized from the cloud,Set up an automatic connection to the broadband at home,I also logged in to my**member、**member,Let my dad listen to whatever song he wants,Watch whatever movie he wants。

When I handed my dad the phone and he refused again, I told him that everything was already installed, and my dad silently took the phone.

After dinner in the evening, I went out for a walk, and in a blink of an eye I saw my father showing off my new mobile phone to several of his old colleagues under the street lamp, and I overheard what he said: "I said I wouldn't let me buy it, and my daughter had to buy it for me, but she wouldn't listen." He also gave me all the things, which is really a ...... of Beitong”

At that moment, I suddenly felt that all the hard work I had been worthwhile.

I suddenly remembered one summer in my junior year of high school, I was riding my bicycle to school in the morning. As soon as I got out of the gate of the community, I saw my father across the road, carrying the breakfast he had just bought for me and hurriedly bowing his head and hurrying away.

I almost burst into tears at that moment - I grew up, but my dad was old.

From that moment on, I secretly vowed that I must study hard and let my parents live a prosperous life.

Now that I have a daughter of my own, every time I go back to my parents' house, my favorite thing to do is to give them money, and I feel very relieved to see my parents happy......

Yes, parents' lack of awareness of consumption can influence the consumption perception of children and adolescents. Parents are an important source of influence in their succession, and their consumption behaviors, values, and beliefs can have a profound impact on the consumption perceptions of children and adolescents.

Of course, there may be several ways in which parents' consumption perceptions affect children's consumption perceptions:

Imitative behavior: Children and adolescents often learn and form their own consumption ideas by imitating the behavior of their parents.

Transmission of values: The values of parents have an impact on the values of their children, especially in their perceptions of material comforts and frugality.

Parenting style: How parents educate their children about money and spending can also affect their perception of consumption.

Social environment: The social environment in which parents live can also affect their consumption perceptions, which in turn will affect their children.

Therefore, parents' consumption perceptions can indeed have an impact on children's consumption perceptions. However, factors such as children's personal experiences, social environment, education, etc., can also affect their consumption perceptions, so all the effects cannot simply be attributed to their parents' consumption perceptions.

Parents must be the master of frugality, so it is very difficult to change them by the side, unless you buy it home and don't tell them to talk about it, they don't feel distressed, otherwise they will feel distressed.