What are the reasons for the failure of love?

There are several main reasons for the failure of love.

1. Meet at the wrong time

1. College romance

Many relationships in college will fail, because the mind is immature in college and there is no preparation for marriage; In addition, after graduation, you have to separate the two places, and you can't stand the test of distance.

2. There are more important things than love

For example, you meet each other, and you like each other more, but at this time the other person has important things to do, such as going abroad, going to graduate school, important job opportunities, etc. At this time, people will be more sensible, spend time on important things, and in the event of conflict, they will sacrifice love.

2. The parties are not suitable

1. The difference between the three views

When the two parties' outlook on life, values, money, and ways of dealing with people and things are inconsistent, there will be many conflicts between the two parties, which will affect the development of the relationship.

2. Differences in background

The educational background, family background, and growth background of both parties are different, so that the pursuits and topics of both parties are not on the same channel, which will lead to the failure of the relationship.

3. Contradictions in personality

There are differences in hobbies and living habits between the two parties, but both parties do not know how to back down, which will exacerbate the generation gap and misunderstanding between the two parties, and finally end in a breakup.

4. Immature thinking

Immature thinking, no concept of the future and marriage, no understanding of your real needs, vague pursuit of money, handsomeness, etc., will lead to the failure of love.

3. External resistance

1. Parents' attitude.

The dissatisfaction of the parents will affect the choice of the other party, and even choose to break up because of the hard attitude of the parents.

2. The attitude of friends.

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In fact, it depends on fate with love. Not everyone can succeed in love every time, but if you fail every time, I think most of them are due to these reasons.

First, the two people were together in a hurry without knowing each other. Such two people do not have a clear understanding, and after being together for a long time, they will find that they are inappropriate in all aspects, have different values, different ways of speaking, and some living habits, etc. You can't accept that he finds a group of fox friends to play cards at home every day, and plays all night long.

He can't accept that you drink nothing every day. Therefore, many things must have a comprehensive understanding, and we cannot do it recklessly on impulse, especially in love. What should be understood or what should be understood, and what should be accepted must also be accepted.

Second, the economic foundation is weak. In layman's terms, it means that you earn less. You are not a rich second generation, you are still idle and unmotivated all day long, and most of such men will be broken up.

After all, the current love is either for beauty or for money. There is no money and falling in love, not to mention that the result of love is a family! Do you have the money to feed this family of people waiting to eat?

Third, the EQ IQ is too low. In other words, boys don't know how to coax girls, and girls don't know how to take care of people. I suddenly thought of a friend of mine, boys will always only ask girls to drink more hot water, and girls will only say to play less games, can this relationship last?

Fourth, don't have any bad habits. For example, gambling addiction, idleness, and even black and white reversal. No one can stand you like this all the time. Not to mention cheating, emotional things are not easy to get, some are just a payout and a gain.

It boils down to one reason: it's not attractive enough!

1.The novelty of feelings disappears.

In the early days of their relationship, the relationship between the two is fresh, full of excitement and sweetness. Over time, this feeling will gradually disappear, while on the other hand, contradictions and dissatisfaction will gradually appear. When the novelty of the relationship is no longer there, many people will lose interest in each other or feel bored, which is one of the reasons why long-term relationships are easy to break up.

2.Idealized ideas disintegrate.

In the beginning, people tend to have idealized expectations of their partner that he or she is the perfect person. But as time goes on and the relationship deepens, people will gradually discover some of each other's shortcomings and shortcomings, and the disintegration of this perception may cause people to become vulnerable and gradually lose trust and respect for each other.

3.Accumulation of stress and negative emotions.

Long-term relationships may accumulate a lot of stress and negative emotions, such as work, life and other problems, the accumulation of which can have a negative impact on the relationship. If two people are unable to solve these dilemmas together, or cannot find a balance, it is easy to have conflicts and disagreements.

4.Each other needs a change in the reputation of the group.

As people change and grow in their lives, it is easy for them to have different emotional needs, and life goals and expectations may also change. When this happens, it can make the pace of the emotion problematic and therefore not suitable to continue together.

5.Outside interference.

In addition to the above points, external interference is also one of the other reasons that lead to long-term relationship breakups. Disruptions may come from family and social life, or from other people, and these different factors may interfere with the relationship between the two parties, leading to disagreements and even breakups.

In short, a long-term relationship will inevitably face various problems and challenges. It is necessary to maintain mutual understanding and support, constantly communicate and listen to each other's thoughts and feelings, plus maintain a good quality of life, and maintain the joy and freshness of life, so that you can maintain a beautiful relationship on the way to love, until you are white.