Is it normal to contact my boyfriend only once in a few days?

Normal boyfriends and girlfriends should be like glue, inseparable from each other, they will miss after leaving for a while, they want to meet after being separated for a long time, they will use WeChat to contact when they don't meet, and they ask you every day if you have eaten? What to eat? Remember to add clothes when it's cold, listen to your throat is uncomfortable or not, take care of your body, I cooked for you today, and send it to the unit, okay?

That's normal, right? If you want to say that you contact once every few days, it's not a person, it's a friendship.

In my opinion, when I am in love, it is beautiful, I look forward to meeting every day, my husband was in the army at that time, and it was very difficult to see each other once, so I saw it once a week! Sometimes it takes half a month! That kind of feeling is really uncomfortable, that's really missing him, it was just the two of us in this city, and I was still quite lonely when I was the only one.

Every day, in order to alleviate this kind of missing, I will pass **, and I have to do that kind of couple number to apply for a card, and there was no WeChat at that time, and there was a QQ that could only be typed, too slow, too troublesome, so I did the kind of card that two people played ** without spending money, chatting every day, sleeping He would sing to me, tell stories, and I would also tell him to pay more attention to the body, which is love.

It's impossible to say that you don't contact for a day, this day I always think, what is he doing, what is he doing, what's wrong, why don't you fight **, this is love! Two people like glue.

So if your boyfriend doesn't contact you for a day and occasionally calls, then there must be a problem here, and you try to think about it as much as possible.

In my opinion, you should contact every day, because this is love, even if you get married, you have to make a ** every day! When to go home, what to eat today, the two of them always have something to say, something to deal with!

What do you say? I think let's get in touch every day! You look at what you think in your own mind, do you think it's normal to contact for a few days?

So I would venture to ask, do you think the relationship between you is normal now? Boyfriend? Of course, I contacted it every day!

Since you ask like this, it must be a long-distance relationship, indeed in the current society, there are really a lot of long-distance relationships, take our roommates as an example, there are two people in our dormitory who are in a long-distance relationship, but of course, there are also some long-distance couples who are distressed because they don't know how to maintain their long-distance relationship. Next, based on my interview with my roommate, I will talk to you about how often it is better to talk to my boyfriend in a long-distance relationship. <>

First of all, let me give my own personal opinion! I'm the kind of person who is more dedicated, if you fall in love with me, if we are in a long-distance relationship, then I ask you to contact me every day, in order to keep the freshness of love, you must call me a ** every day if you have something to do, chat with me, to prove that you think of me when you are fine, since you can't meet every day, then you can chat every day, share your life with each other, happy, exciting things, you can also let him share with you, so that chatting with each other will not be embarrassing, It will double the joy.

At the same time, it will also give the other person a better understanding of what you are thinking and doing. That's just my personal opinion.

But I'm sure most people think the same way I do.

However, some people will feel that it is too troublesome to chat every day, sometimes there will be chatting and chatting and suddenly there is no topic, I don't know what to say, I don't know what topic to find, so that the emotional concentration of the two people will become weaker, and the slow communication will become less and less, which is actually very common.

Actually, I think"Let the other person know how good he is in your heart"How nice it is to share your happiness every day with the people you love!

Although the most lacking thing in a long-distance relationship is a sense of security, and what time will erode the trust between the two people, in fact, I don't think distance is a problem, the key is to see if you can endure that loneliness.

It depends, if it's a long-distance relationship and both myself and the other party are busy, I think it's quite normal. But if it's in the same city, and it's not so busy, I think it's still not normal, after all, there is time and there is no distance!

When you fall in love, you should be concerned about each other, no matter how busy you are, you shouldn't send a message to each other, and the other party is still the person you love. Last time my boyfriend didn't contact me for a day, and I didn't want to reach out to him. Later, I made up all kinds of brains about what he was doing, and even thought about whether to break up.

Actually, I've been very busy, but I'm free for him, doesn't he even have time to send me a message when he moves? I don't believe it. I really can't accept this, but at least it should reassure me.

So I don't think it's normal to not be in touch for 24 hours under normal circumstances. Falling in love is about feelings, so you can't use quantitative indicators to keep the frequency of contact. If two people are only in contact to complete the agreed contact task, such communication will not enhance the relationship.

Even if you get through the other party's **, you will feel that there is nothing to say, which will seem embarrassing. More important than the frequency of contact is the content and outcome of the contact. For example, whether there is a better understanding of the other person twice at a time, or whether there is a result, such as agreeing on when two people will go to the movies, etc.

To get in touch, if you can ease, then you can continue, you can't ease, you have hit a wall, it's time to turn back, no one can't live without whom, I was also uncomfortable to death when I fell out of love, I feel that I can never find such a thing in my life, today I also saw his car parked downstairs in the hotel, and I felt very uncomfortable, I suddenly figured it out, why am I so uncomfortable, you still go out for a drinking party, I am not worth it for you like this, I have to love myself well, make myself better, in order to find better people.

If you don't chat and don't contact for too long, the subject will feel that you are not interested in him, and it is likely that you just want to have fun with him, and there is not much sincerity, if you let him have this idea, congratulations, it is very difficult to chase back in the future, or how to restore contact. When two people are dating, you should pay attention to keeping your distance and keep it fresh, but it should be noted that this does not mean that you should not contact for a day. You need to know that the people who really want to be with you, the people who care about you, even if they are busy, only for a minute, will send a message to care.

It's not normal to not be in touch with your boyfriend every day. Men and women who are in love and in love think about it every day when they don't see it, and they even stick together every day, and no one can do without each other, which is normal.