Why do some people keep exposing other people s scars?

Long-lasting love is in your heart, just as many people often ask if there is true love in this world, in fact, true love is in your heart, as long as you sincerely pay, persistent pursuit, brave sacrifice, true love will happen in you, and eternal love is your love.

We know that love is a kind of selfless giving and sacrifice, and the reward of love is the eternal happiness of the other person.

And happiness, if you love each other, then you will be happy because the other person is happy, and you will be happy because the other person is happy. Whether it is in love before marriage or in the ordinary life after marriage, as long as you really love each other, as long as you work hard for your happy life, then eternal love is by your side, not that you have eternal love, but that you have created eternal love.

Believe in yourself As long as there is love, happiness will definitely exist

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Why do some people keep revealing other people's scars? I think the person in this album is very bad, because he always exposes other people's scars, just to show how good he is to step on others under his feet and show himself, so he likes to borrow other people's long tails, in order to commission himself, so I think some people always borrow other people's scars, such people are very bad, they are all for people to raise themselves high, and step on others under their feet, such people are never good, so I think such people are always bad, like this to others, It will not be of much benefit to others to treat him like this in the future, so don't look down on others, because others also have times when they turn over, and occasionally make some mistakes, so you can't beat others to death, so that you can satisfy a person, so I think that people who look at others will solve the bottom of others, Lao Zhai's people, such people are very bad.

Although other comrades do something wrong, I think as long as he changes it, it is a good comrade, and there is no need to always pick up the shortcomings of others, so it has a bad impact on both parties, and it can also cause quarrels and fights, I think no matter what kind of person it is? There is a day when you make mistakes, big and small, as long as you know to correct it at the beginning, so you are a good comrade, for some people are always willing to expose other people's scars, for such people, I think it is not good, everyone should criticize him more, educate him more, if you make a mistake, everyone is okay to reveal your scars, do you think you are comfortable in your heart? Therefore, you should not always expose other people's scars, this is a very bad habit, for such a comrade, you should criticize and educate him more, change your own bad habits from the ideological point of view, you should take care of other people's shortcomings, and in turn, if others expose your shortcomings, what will you think?

That's not good, I think as comrades should do a good job of unity with each other, helping each other is the best, and how good it is to use that energy in work.

Exposing the scars of others is not only hurting others, but also damaging one's own loyalty. When we communicate with people, we must pay attention to avoiding physical defects, taboo "When the other party is unwilling to talk about a certain topic or deliberately avoids it, we must pay attention to changing the topic, so as not to inadvertently touch the "scars" of others. As the saying goes:

Don't say dwarf words in front of the dwarf", if you "don't open which pot and which pot", it will undoubtedly make it worse and hurt others not to say it, and you will not get any benefits, and in the end you will lose both.

People who harm others must be villains, people who have no moral cultivation, and they will not end well if they are spurned by others, it is better not to do things like that, respecting others is respecting yourself.

Sincerely apologize to him and tell him that you didn't mean it Everyone who knows their mistakes and can change them deserves to be forgiven If he is a generous person, he will definitely forgive you!

In fact, apology is the best solution, whether it is intentional or not, you have already made this mistake, apology will resolve the contradiction, don't deliberately emphasize whether it is intentional or not, because whether it is intentional or not, the consequences are the same.

Questions. Here's the thing, some time ago, a person in the village said that his daughter-in-law had a miscarriage, and four months ago, he didn't tell anyone else, and I knew about it when he said it. After a few days, the epidemic came, he went to the duty of a total of three people, just that day my child was sick and coughed, I took the child to the hospital back, he was in the duty room, I registered and told another person, the child has always coughed these days, went to the hospital without medicine, the doctor said allergies, so he bought a bottle of syrup, the other person said that it would be good to drink it, I realized that I had uncovered other people's scars, I said hello to that one, that person had a bad breath, whether it was considered to reveal other people's scars.

This is not a direct statement, and it is not considered to expose other people's scars. You're thinking too much.

Questions. I said that my own child, he was there, and he spoke in a strange way, and I felt a little angry.

Are you overly sensitive, and getting along with people is not so complicated.

Questions. I realized that I had said the wrong thing, so I called Cao's father, and he said to hurry home.

Here's the thing, some time ago, a person in the village said that his daughter-in-law had a miscarriage, and four months ago, he didn't tell anyone else, and I knew about it when he said it. After a few days, the epidemic came, he went to the duty of a total of three people, just that day my child was sick and coughed, I took the child to the hospital back, he was in the duty room, I registered and told another person, the child has always coughed these days, went to the hospital without medicine, the doctor said allergies, so he bought a bottle of syrup, the other person said that it would be good to drink it, I realized that I had uncovered other people's scars, I just said hello to that one, that person was very bad, I saw it, human accidents, let's not think complicated, self-inflicted. It's gone, it's gone.

Questions. Here's the thing, some time ago, a person in the village said that his daughter-in-law had a miscarriage, and he told five adults, and I knew about it when he said it. A few days later, the epidemic came, he went to the duty room a total of three people, just that day my child was sick and coughed, I took the child to the hospital back, he was also in the duty room, I finished registering and saw a companion who was more familiar with him said, the child has a cough these days, went to the hospital without medicine, the doctor said allergies, so he bought a bottle of syrup, and the other person said that it would be good to drink it, I realized that I had uncovered other people's scars, I said hello to that, that person was very bad, and everything was good for others, which was the greatest kindness to himself.

Don't worry about yourself.

Exposing other people's scars, that is, turning out other people's previous mistakes, talking about other people's sore spots, this is immoral, don't expose other people's scars, expose other people's scars, this person will hate you, and even take revenge on you.

Remember that the consequence of someone else's scar is to bring pain to others, if the other person is a grumpy person, it is very likely that the other person will teach you a lesson, and even then the other person may not like you very much, and then you may lose a friend.

Don't have nothing to do when you're full, the consequence is that no one can afford you, and that person will be looked at differently.

I hope it's not you.

The consequences mainly depend on that person's temper, it's really too much to really expose the scars, and I don't want to say it and reveal the scars, it's really a mouthful.

Be kind, don't expose other people's injuries. In this way, you have succeeded in establishing an enemy.

I can only say that there are some things that I don't usually care about, but I still haunt them in my heart. This is the scar that everyone has, hidden in the depths, climbing on thorns.

We may say that we don't care about this thing, but we still have some concerns in our hearts. This scar has a thick scab, and it is hidden somewhere in the light of day, and it will not be easily revealed. However, once this wound is touched, it is often the flesh and skin, and the pain is heartbreaking.

So no matter what, we will be careful to avoid it, but there will always be people who will touch it in a way that feels appropriate for them.

People who like to expose people's scars are psychologically distorted, and always use other people's faults to show their superiority, which is for the sake of fighting and revenge on the scene; People who love to expose other people's scars are also selfish, they like to rub salt on your wounds, see others better than him, their psychology is unbalanced, and they need to find other people's pain points to comfort their own hearts, this is to build other people's pain on their own happiness. But it may also be to achieve a kind of psychological satisfaction.

Some people are outspoken, and they may not use a bad word as "low emotional intelligence". The starting point of such people is not to embarrass others, they may think that this is just a trivial matter, or they may just want to liven up the atmosphere, but "the speaker is unintentional, the listener is intentional", which will still make others uncomfortable to some extent.

Poke other people's sore spots This kind of behavior depends on people and things, even good friends and girlfriends can't chase and poke relentlessly, anyway, I don't like this kind of person, there used to be such people in my circle of friends, they have been blocked or deleted, Stay away from that kind of negative energy people, our lives will be quiet. "Knowing people is suddenly thorough, blaming people is always talking, gathering is suddenly telling all the secrets, when scattering people are suddenly revealing people's scars, and finally laughing at the world."

People who like to expose people's scars are a sign of psychological unhealth. Kind people will always think about making others feel comfortable and happy for themselves. Knowing but not telling it is the virtue and kindness of being a person.

Some people don't think so, scolding bald people in front of monks, **if they have scars, they poke**, this is a manifestation of viciousness.

There is such a plot in the once popular TV series "New Marriage Era": Jian Jia said to Gu Xiaoxi: "How good you are, you are married, and someone will take care of you."

Gu Xiaoxi said to Jian Jia in front of his younger brother: "You used to have Liu Kairui. Not long ago, the unmarried Jian Jiagang and the married Liu Kairui ended their 6-year lover relationship.

Gu Xiaoxi's younger brother also felt that his sister's words were a bit excessive. In this plot, Gu Xiaoxi disregarded the feelings of others and uncovered Jian Jia's scars.

Whether it is small talk, a meeting, or a negotiation, dialogue is the most common way for people to communicate with each other, and conversation is an important way to open the door to communication and enrich their knowledge. In a conversation, the most impolite thing to do is to expose the pain points of others. If the other party is a foreign guest, it is likely that he will misunderstand our country; If the other party is the boss, it is likely that you will lose your job; If the other person is a friend, they are likely to turn against you; If the other party is a customer, maybe your opportunity to make money will be lost once because you don't have a mouth.