What causes a child to yell in public?

Children shouting in public are caused by the fact that parents do not meet their children's unreasonable demands. At this time, parents should not meet the unreasonable requirements of their children, but should learn to let their children vent their emotions first, and sometimes drying the children is actually the best solution. Some parents feel that it is very embarrassing for their children to yell, so they immediately meet their children's unreasonable demands.

If parents blindly indulge their children, then in the end the children will have the same problems in the same situation.

And parents should learn to teach by word and deed in daily life, because some children have a talent for naughtyness. If they do not have a comprehensive understanding of what they are going to do, parents should not scold their children if they do such things in the workplace. Because if you scold your child in a crowded place, your child's self-esteem will suffer.

And they will also take the yelling to another level for their own self-esteem, which is to crawl on the ground.

In fact, you can also give your child something hard, such as telling your child harshly what to do next time if your child is behaving like this. However, this behavior is not recommended for parents, otherwise it will lead to psychological trauma in the child. Learn to communicate with your child and let him know that some unreasonable requests cannot be made.

While learning to be tolerant of children, it is also necessary to understand children, because everyone has done such things when they are young.

I was also reluctant to walk in the supermarket for a bag of snacks, and I believe everyone has this experience. Only by learning to treat children correctly can children change their own practices. I also hope that every parent can understand the true intentions of their children from their children's performance.

It is necessary to learn to let children be civilized people, and let children reason with parents in public, instead of yelling. I believe that after changing the child's unreasonable practices, the child can also maintain a good three views.

It may be that parents do not regulate some of their children's behaviors, children do not know that such places are not allowed to make a lot of noise, and children only care about some of their own feelings.

It is very likely that the child has been under a lot of pressure recently, or it may be because the child lacks love and wants to attract attention, so he will yell in public.

Because of the posture that parents do not stop, parents are more doting on their children in ordinary life.

How to develop your child's ability not to be noisy in public!

Identify the occasion. Sometimes children shout to express excitement or impatience, and parents should do a good job of guiding children to understand that they can't get what they want by raising the decibels, and they must learn to distinguish the occasion, keep appropriate silence in special places, and understand the position of others.

Self-management. This ability is actually developed from the most basic body control and exploration. When the child has developed well in strength, finesse, coordination, balance, etc., he or she has confidence in his physical body control.

A lot of times it's not so much the need to get someone's attention by making a big noise. In fact, it is to seek a sense of presence and identity.

Be a good role model. The power of example is endless. Parents should first self-examine whether there is a behavior that affects others by speaking loudly in public, and secondly, when the child is crying, whether the parents have repeatedly compromised because of the stool and potatoes for face, which will leave the child with the impression of "not following the rules", and the child will cry more and more.

Mom and Dad are imperceptibly influencing their children's every move in the little things in life.

All children are almost the same, and the key factor that distinguishes them from being different people is education.

What should you do if your baby yells or cries in public?

In life, we often encounter bear children who cause trouble and destruction in public, and we have a lot of headaches. What am I going to do? I think that symptomatic and human measures are necessary.

First, understand your child's needs and see why your child is making trouble. Find out the reason, according to the human policy, scientifically guide the children to express their demands in a proper way, criticize and educate those who deliberately make trouble, and even appropriate corporal punishment. For those who refuse to change their ways, communicate with parents and take a variety of means to help children grow, because children are a community of family, school, and social education.

If the child yells when the appeal is not satisfactory, the first thing to know is what the child's appeal is, whether it is not responded to in time, or it is not providing what he wants. If it is the former, parents should actively interact with the child during the first hour of the child's problems and make the child feel that the child is still at the center of the parent's attention. For example, due to Cestbon's young age, he sometimes focuses his attention on Cestbon.

So sometimes, if Dabao doesn't have the first reply when he speaks or asks something, Dabao's voice will get louder and louder, until we ask her question, and it will be repeated all the time, the latter is the case that the parents first tell the child why he can't satisfy him, and then provide something else to divert his attention, and if the child doesn't listen, take the child to a less crowded corner to educate, or directly take the child from this place to someone else.

If the child yells with a funny or excited mindset, I think it is necessary to immediately remind him that this behavior can affect others. This is an uncivilized act. This cannot be done.

You can stop him with words, eyes, expressions. Generally, the child stops yelling or stops after shouting twice. If the child does not listen, it can be dealt with in the above way.

For example, when I hear other children yelling, she will follow, and I will tell her that she can't do this. If she doesn't listen, I'll warn her with a harsher look. If she still doesn't listen, I'll take her to a different environment myself.

If the child is energetic and does not shout poetically, parents should arrange other things in time, including help with work, reading, exercise. No matter what situation your child is in, shout in public, and parents should teach their children the right way to express their feelings. On the other hand, parents learn to control their temper, which can be difficult for some parents, but communicate with their children as patiently as possible.

For example, as a babysitter, I always persuaded myself to control my feelings, and now I am also learning.

If my baby behaves like this in public, of course I will comfort him, and then go home and criticize him harshly, after all, it is obvious that I still have to save face for my child in front of many people.

In such a situation, I will first find a way to calm my baby down, because yelling and crying in public is very rude and I don't want me and my child to be the center of attention.

Around us, if you pay a little attention, you will find that there are many parents who often yell at their children. They think that as parents, they can yell at their children or even point fingers, and they think that by yelling at their children, they can make them submit to themselves.

In fact, this is just wishful thinking on the part of parents, who don't know their children at all. If parents often yell at their children, it can cause many problems for their children. The analysis is as follows:

1.Children who often encounter their parents yelling at themselves are actually only superficially convinced, but according to psychologists, most children are actually not convinced. It's just that they don't say the grievances in their hearts, but if they don't say it, it doesn't mean that they have no opinions about their parents.

According to the survey, children who are often yelled at by their parents will find ways to resist their parents and alienate their parents. The most common phenomenon is that they choose to be silent in front of their parents, too lazy to communicate with them, and unwilling to share things with their parents.

In their hearts, they maintain a chasm and distance from their parents.

2.Parents like to yell at their children, and as children, they are likely to form the habit of yelling, which will have a negative impact on their children's personality development.

I know a beautiful classmate, Dandan, although she is often reticent and reluctant to talk to her classmates, her sven appearance makes people feel very comfortable. But once we saw her yelling at her own mother, as if she hated her own mother from the bottom of her heart.

If you often yell at your child, then your child will form such a personality, and he will be more irritable when he encounters things, and he will also grow up to yell.

Frequent yelling at children will cause children to dare not speak and be timid, which will have a bad impact on their future communication skills.

Frequent yelling at your child will make your child more introverted.

will not dare to communicate with people. will be insecure.

If you often take your child to yell, your child will grow up with no confidence and will be timid.

We all know that children are very noisy, they are startled by anything, and they always like to yell. Sometimes patience can be patient with them, and sometimes when you're in a bad mood, it can be annoying. Yourself, why do children always like this?

Mainly because children don't understand anything, it is the time when they need to be cared for and cared for by others. There are many times when we see this. When children make mistakes, their parents will always lie to them and say, if you continue like this, they don't want you.

And children tend to take it seriously and then they don't know what to do. In fact, this also shows that a child's expression is very simple, and his thoughts are also very simple. He longs for the care and care of his parents, but because he doesn't understand anything.

Every time he yelled, his parents would run over to see what was going on with him. Over time, this will make the child form an illusion that as long as he yells, his parents will see this side and pay attention to him, so they like to yell.

Another reason is that children are very timid and short, so they appear weaker. Just like animals in nature have their own protective colors, children also have their protective colors. It's as if the louder they shout, the stronger they are.

So they usually show themselves strong by shouting.

Everyone grows from a child to an adult, and there is a reason why children often yell, think about it, have you ever yelled when you were a child? In general, children often appear in this situation because children want to work hard to show their sense of existence, to prove their existence in this way, children are naïve, always use a variety of naughty, noisy states to show themselves.

It is also easy to understand that the little one will have its behavioral characteristics at every stage of development. Children tend to have more energy than adults, which also means that the child is very healthy, and the child is willing to shout so play with him and do not suppress his nature.

In general, when a child suddenly yells, parents will always reprimand the child harshly in order to avoid embarrassment, so that the child stops shouting and keeps quiet, this method is ineffective in many cases, we can let the child know that he is already angry with his behavior through certain reactions. You can also ignore your child and stop yelling after a while if he doesn't get a reaction from you.

When the child is still young, he often can't realize how he should express his emotions, so he always shouts to show that this is his feeling, and there is no right or wrong feeling, and the child's feeling should be accepted by the parents. Parents must think more from the child's point of view and understand the child more.

I think children are yelling mainly because they want to attract the attention of other people, but they don't know how to attract others because of their age, and yelling is almost an instinctive reaction that they can do.

When children are infants, because they don't have the ability to speak, they don't know how to express themselves when they are hungry and uncomfortable, and they wet the bed, but they want to tell others when they are uncomfortable, their instinct is to make noises, and the most direct way is to cry, and when they cry and have adults to take care of themselves, in their subconscious, so that they can get attention and their problems can be solved. So, when babies grow into children, this initial impression may still affect them. When I don't know how to communicate, I choose to yell, and if my serious difficulties are not solved, I will even cry.

There is also a lack of comprehensive understanding of social morality in children, they live in their own world, do not know that many things need a quiet environment, and do not know that keeping quiet is a sign of politeness. They still don't know enough about the world, they think that the world may still be centered on fun, and the joys, sorrows, and sorrows are relatively simple and undisguised. When children experience more things, they will have a basic understanding of these things, and they will know that yelling and making noise is a bad behavior, and they will correct it, which also needs to be gradually instilled and educated by parents.

In general, children like to yell out of the instinct of "seeking attention", many people may find it more annoying, but everyone is a child, in fact, think about their previous simple world, the world where joy, anger and sorrow are immediately expressed, I think children are very good like this.