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Been together for more than 3 years?
Are you about to break up your family?
I'm sorry, sir, but I am a little puzzled by the situation you have described.
Were you married before? Been in an extramarital affair with her for 3 years?
Or have you been with her for 3 years, but your parents are going to divorce at this time?
If it falls into the first case, I would like to ask, can you be sure that the woman you are in love with now (the one you have been with for 3 years) is the only last woman in your life?
If you're sure, then good, you divorce and then marry her.
Perhaps you think that divorcing your wife is cruel and immoral? But it is cruel and immoral to have no love in marriage, and you are now in love with someone else and no longer love her, then you are doing the right thing.
If you are still a little reluctant to give up on your current wife, then ask yourself and her once again in your heart, "Does she still love you?" "If your wife still loves you, then she is happy.
Because in marriage she still has her love for you, and you have lost your love for her in marriage, because you fall in love with someone else, it is said that what you have is happy, and what you lose is painful, so the person who suffers is you.
If you feel that if you want to divorce her and marry someone else, she should have lost you, so she should be miserable.
Then you are wrong, because you are only a concrete of her true love in marriage, and when this concrete does not exist, her true love will continue to another concrete, because her true love in marriage has never been lost. So she is happy and you are miserable.
If your marriage has really come to an end, and your wife doesn't love you anymore. Well, I'm very supportive of you divorcing her.
But when choosing marriage again, I hope you can think about it carefully, are you happy with her now (who has experienced her for 3 years)? Can you accept everything about her, or can she accept everything about you? If the answer is yes, I bless both of you.
I support you to keep going and face it bravely.
But first, you have to divorce and then marry her.
Otherwise, everything is empty talk. I hope you think twice!
If you fall into the second category, my advice is to deal with your family's situation first and then talk about marriage.
Marrying her is a must, it's just a matter of time.
Don't let the trivialities in life wear out your persistent love, since you have experienced 3 years of ups and downs, give each other a perfect ending. Start and finish well.
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Sincerity can move everything, do it with heart, it can be hard, I wish you all.
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Keep up the good work and persevere.
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Hello, if it is two people who truly love each other will try to go to the end, of course, there will be disagreements, contradictions, and sad things in the middle.
1. Love that goes both ways is more likely to come to the end. If two people want to go to the end, then two people need to work hard in the same direction, that is, two people should go both ways and work hard for the same goal. Both people have each other's place in their life planning, and are willing to keep moving forward for the final happiness, and it is easier for two people to encourage each other, care for each other, and support each other to the end.
2. Disagreements and sadness in the process are inevitable. No matter how much two people love each other, there will be differences and many sad things in the process of going through together. But the most important thing is that there are differences, we must explain the problem clearly and find a way to properly deal with the differences, and for unhappy things, two people must understand each other, rely on each other and bear the burden together.
3. Two people who really want to love are willing to make unremitting efforts for each other, and are willing to put each other in their own plans, and at the same time be able to communicate in a timely manner so that the different ideas of the two people can resolve the contradictions in a timely manner, so that the other party can feel their love at all times, and the two people work together for the same goal, and finally enter a happy ending.
Only by exchanging sincerity for sincerity can we exchange true love, and the most taboo in love is deception. If you love, please love deeply, and if you don't love, please leave.
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Jiang Shao will give you an analysis:
Question 1You have doubts about the relationship.
Question 2You ask if there will be disagreements in the middle, which subconsciously means that your ability to resist blows is very strong (emotionally).
Question 3Negative emotions such as sadness and loss will definitely appear on the emotional road.
Question 4Whether the two have the same goal, and whether their hearts yearn for the same.
Personal advice: ** Strengthen the attachment between the two people to this relationship. (Focus: two people) make up their minds to make up their minds that even if they encounter the other party's vexatious trouble, they can ensure that they calmly analyze, tolerate and resolve the matter.
Practice controlling your emotions when you have negative emotions.
And this is very important, the same thoughts, and work together to complete what you think, face the difficulties together, excite the parents to disagree, you can discuss how to solve the lead drying, how to let the parents accept, the most painful is that there is only one person persistent efforts, as if she has a distance of 100 steps from you, she only walked one step, but you have to walk 99 steps, in the end you will be tired to death, the two of them will work together more easily and more motivated together.
The above is Jiang Shao's careful suggestion, I hope it can help you to some extent, support the hand to look!!
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Two people who really love each other go to the end, and there are those who go to the end, and there are those who don't reach the end, and when they fall in love, there must be differences, and there are sad and heart-splitting attacks.
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It is possible to fall in love to the end, but it also requires the efforts and dedication of both parties. Here are some suggestions:
1.Establish healthy communication styles: It is very important to understand and respect each other. In the process of getting along, learn to listen to each other's thoughts and feelings, and don't quarrel over small things.
2.Accept each other's differences: Everyone has their own personality and preferences. In the process of getting along, learn to accept each other's differences and don't try to change each other.
3.Establish common goals: Both parties should set goals together and work together to achieve them. This can make each other feel closer and together.
4.Give support to the shirts: It is very important to support and encourage each other during difficult times. This can make each other feel stronger and more confident.
5.Constant attention and attention: Constant attention and attention can make each other feel valued and cared for, which can make the relationship more stable and long-lasting.
6.Make sacrifices and give: In the process of getting along, sometimes you need to make some sacrifices and gives, which can make the other person feel loved and cared for.
7.Accept change: Life brings about various changes over time. Learn to accept these changes and constantly adjust your emotional management style to adapt to the changes in your life.
Finally, remember that love requires constant effort and dedication from both parties. As long as you truly love each other and are willing to work hard for each other, you can love each other to the end.
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Yes, however, sometimes two people love each other, but they may not be able to be together, love is not the whole of life, sometimes, we will face many problems, we have to make a choice, years old, even, to sacrifice love. Two people should cherish it when they bring it up, don't wait until they lose it, and then they know how to cherish it.
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Is there such a person in your heart?
You may have loved each other, and you may have liked each other, but why haven't you been together?
Maybe he can't chase you for the sake of righteousness between friends...
Maybe it's to take into account the opinions of your family.
You're not together.
Maybe in order to go abroad for further study, he didn't ask you to wait for him.
Maybe you met too early and don't know how to cherish each other.
Maybe you've met too late, and you've already got another person around you.
Maybe you're too late to turn back, and the other person is no longer waiting.
Maybe you're trying to get out of each other's hearts.
But even though you're not together, you're still friends.
But you know from the bottom of your heart that you care more about this person than your friends.
Even if you can't go shopping with him legitimately, you can still be friends who talk about everything.
He has someone he likes, and you will help him chase him verbally, but you don't know very well in your heart
Do you really want him to catch up?
When he is in trouble, you will do your best to help him, regardless of who owes him.
When a boyfriend or girlfriend is jealous, you reassure them that you and him are just friends
But there will be that little uncertainty in your heart.
Everyone has had such a special friend in their hearts in their lives, and they have very contradictory behaviors.
At first, you were unwilling to just be friends, but after a long time, you suddenly found that this is the best.
You'd rather care about him like that than you'd be together and break up someday.
You'd rather be his friend and not be jealous of each other, so you can really talk about everything.
Especially so, you still know that he will always care about you.
can't be a boyfriend or girlfriend, what's wrong with being his special friend?
This special friend in your (your) heart.
Who is it? A lot of feelings are because of wishful thinking, and in the end, I can't even be a friend, and I often feel sorry.
It's a pity that some originally good friendships, but in the end, because the other party likes you, if you don't react, this friendship seems to be difficult to maintain.
It's no wonder that some people are reluctant to take this step.
Because it's like a bet, after confessing, you won't become a boyfriend and girlfriend, or you won't even be a friend.
Some things are not expected by you, maybe the other person doesn't care, you can still be friends, but it's not as good as before.
It's a pity, it's a pity!
But is there a possibility that there is another kind of love orange key situation--- you may never be reconciled to just be friends!
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Not necessarily, time will change everything, you don't see Liu Xiu, Zhu Wen, Li Shimin, Yang Jian and other famous emperors with good wives and infatuated emperors, aren't they still the same as three wives and four concubines!
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Good evening, dear, glad to answer for you. In fact, this is a false proposition, because there is no practical point in discussing this kind of issue, no one has the ability to predict the future, and there may be a crisis in your relationship in the near future, and no one knows what will happen in the next second. Therefore, falling in love now can only represent the present, can only be controlled, and grasped is the present.
That's enough. Dear, if you have any doubts, please feel free to ask, I wish you a happy life.
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Even if you are sure that you can't go to the end, you will be together in general, after all, the process of loving each other, that sweet time is still very good.
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I think it will, as long as two people really love each other very much, then they will definitely be together in the end.
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