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When the flood enters the city, the neighbors deliver food to the elderly who are trapped in the next unit, and there is a certain reason why distant relatives are not as good as close neighbors.
Chongqing was hit by floods, causing many people to be trapped, two elderly people in their 80s were trapped at home and could not get out, because of the structural problems of the house, rescuers could not enter, just at the critical time, a lady left behind in the next unit provided food to the two elderly people. Distant relatives are not as good as close neighbors, because the neighbors live relatively close, they can reach out in time to help if they have difficulties, and the relatives at home because they live far away, they can't help if they want to, and the neighborhood relationship is very important at this time.
1. Neighbors live close to each other and can help in time if they are in difficulty. Like these two old people, if there is no help from neighbors, rescuers cannot enter in a crisis situation, and the consequences can be serious. Because neighbors live in close proximity to each other, it's easy to help, and they live together all year round, so they get to know each other better.
In particular, many elderly people who live alone often encounter various difficulties in their daily lives, and it is very fortunate to have a good neighbor to help them at this time.
Second, the relatives live far away, and the whip can't help if he wants to. Just like these two old people, there must be other relatives, but because they don't live together, they can't help much at this critical moment. In the event of a flood, rescuers can't get in, and the relatives of the elderly can't get in, so they can only be anxious and can't help.
3. In times of crisis, a harmonious neighborhood relationship can help you get out of the crisis in a timely manner. Harmonious and friendly neighborly relations are really very important, from the firewood, rice, oil and salt in life, as well as all kinds of miscellaneous things, to all kinds of dangerous situations, neighbors are the most able to help themselves. Especially the elderly and vulnerable groups who live alone, but they need the help of their neighbors, so they usually interact with their neighbors more so that they can not be in a hurry at critical times.
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It is certain that the neighbor who delivers the meal is a good person, why is it said that distant relatives are not as good as close neighbors? At this time, it is vividly reflected, the relatives of the old man may not know that the old man is besieged by the flood, and may know that he can't come back because the distance is too far away, so it is not that the relatives are bad, but that this kind of emergency neighbors are easier to help.
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It is true that distant relatives are not as good as close neighbors. Harmonious neighborhood relations are very helpful for us to build a harmonious society, carry forward the traditional virtues of the Chinese nation, neighbors can always give the most timely and effective help, we should be less concerned with neighbors, and actively establish friendly relations, benefit others and ourselves.
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To be honest, there is an old saying that it is difficult to buy a neighbor, many times relatives are far away, and when there is something, it is often the neighbors who can really help, so it is really a good thing to have a good neighbor.
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It is not necessarily that distant relatives are not as good as close neighbors, and at the moment of flooding, it is inconvenient for relatives to move, which can only prove that the old couple has a good relationship with their neighbors and helps each other in difficult times.
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I think distant relatives and close neighbors have their own advantages.
First of all, if neighbors get along well, in fact, they get along with each other on a daily basis, and then they have small difficulties with each other and help each other, which is actually equivalent to a kind of friendship.
When you have big ups and downs and problems, desperate to help you affirm your relatives, this is family affection. These are two indispensable feelings in life, and there is no way to measure which is more important and which is better than the other.
Everyone you meet in life is fate.
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In such a situation, the real distant relatives are not as good as close neighbors, and no matter how good the relationship is, the distance between relatives will not help you solve the current problem in time, so you should really be grateful when you meet a good neighbor.
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Since ancient times, it has been said that distant relatives are not as good as close neighbors, and in daily life, it is common for neighbors to help each other, not to mention that distant water cannot quench the thirst of the near, and they still need the help of their neighbors if they are in difficulty.
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I have to say that this neighbor is really too enthusiastic, and he lent a helping hand at a critical moment, helped the old man, and praised such a kind person.
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A community in Chongqing was besieged by floods, and the soldiers tried to rush over to rescue several times without success, and Ms. Wu, who stayed behind, found out about it, so she used bamboo poles to deliver food to her neighbors every day.
Some netizens believe that these two old men are really lucky, met such a good neighbor, the key is that the two families basically have no intersection, and they didn't know each other before, because it was not a corridor. Nowadays, many people have not lost communication because of the apartment building, but they help each other when they can.
Some people also think that this Ms. Wu who helped, really a warm-hearted person. She knew that the old people had no food, so she cooked for them herself, and even said that if she had a bite to eat, she would have them. Such a good person deserves everyone's respect, even respect.
For an old man who doesn't know him, be so enthusiastic and praise him.
AbsolutelyThere are also some netizens who think that Ms. Wu is just rubbing hot spots, because this matter was only known after the report, she would definitely think that ** would come to see the old man after some time and have a follow-up report. That's why they will take the initiative to help the elderly, just to earn a wave of traffic.
What kind of person is what he thinks, even if people help the elderly to become famous, but what are the benefits of being famous in the community or in the newspapers? News reports are a temporary thing, and they won't bring much traffic, after all, she is not an acting star and needs traffic.
In ordinary life, you will always meet such kind people, can help when needed, such as righteousness and bravery, when you see a thief stealing something, you will wittily remind others, it is so many ordinary people who have gathered into our current beautiful society, and it is because of them that our lives are better. Please don't look at others with tinted glasses, is it? What do you think of this neighbor?
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I think this neighbor is very humane and very kind, and should be praised.
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It's really heartwarming, after all, this is really a hardship to see the truth, and whether the neighborhood relationship is good or not can be seen from this time. I believe that usually grandmothers and grandfathers are also very caring for their neighbors, and at this time, when they are killed, someone will come to deliver food.
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I think it's very touching, because in such a situation, there is a very rare feeling that the neighbors can help them.
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