Emotional entanglement, fear of marriage! Emotional disputes are frequent, do you feel afraid of mar

In fact, there are many girls who have that feeling before they get married, I have had it before, although I am not married, I see those who are married one by one, I never want to get married, but when I talk about the object, and finally people mention marriage, I am also afraid, after two failed relationships, I finally have this conclusion, maybe the reason I was afraid at the beginning was because I was only old, I always felt that I should be in love at the age of love, so I don't want to be bound by marriage when I should be in love, I have always thought so, When I reach the age of 26, I must marry myself, at that time I am not small, play again, I can't afford to play anymore, a good man has been snatched away, I can only pick a bad one, so it is wise to marry when I am in the prime of my youth, and looking at the world, it seems that the mainstream is that people are going to get married at a certain age, think about getting married you will have a complete other half, a man, and a child, that child will call you mother, call your husband and father, what a happy thing it is, When you are old, your children's children will call you grandma, and when you are lonely, you will be accompanied by your old man.

So thinking about it so much, you are already 31 years old, and you have met such a good man, you should be happy to get married, don't be afraid, I wish you happiness!!

I think it's good to find someone who is good to you.

What is the main reason why you feel afraid of marriage?

In fact, this should be different for each person's specific situation, and there should be different results. The main thing should be the problem of mentality. If you have a bad mentality, it's actually a worry about anything, a fear.

So we first have to learn to control our emotions. We must learn to adjust our mentality, we must learn to adapt to the environment. If you really can't achieve a better state, then you can use a psychologist appropriately.

In fact, some people feel afraid of marriage because he mainly thinks about the bad side. In fact, there are many good sides to getting married. If you meet the right person and meet someone who matches your three views, then you should feel very happy.

And it should also be a good reliance for one more person to face the problems in life. It's better to help each other and face everything in life together than to face it alone. And you can enjoy the joy of family life by getting married.

Don't live this life in vain, don't live this beautiful life in vain. There are two sides to everything, so there are pros and cons. Make a decision after weighing the pros and cons.

Yes, because you have seen too much of this kind of news, when you meet others, you will consider whether the other person will be this kind of person, and you will have doubts and fears about the other half and the relationship.

No, because in the event of an emotional dispute, it is because you don't find the right person or you don't see the person clearly, and you choose to settle, love and marriage are still very beautiful.

I don't panic because this is just an isolated case, and most people's lives are quite normal.

People who are about to get married understand that the relationship between the two will change qualitatively from now on. Love is free, you can meet whenever you want, and after marriage, you can be together every day. During a relationship, you can cancel your date when you're in a bad mood and do whatever you want.

This is not the case after marriage, even if you are in a bad mood, you have to go to work, earn money to support your family, and when you return home, you have to cook, buy groceries, wash dishes and clothes, and educate your children. People marry to meet emotional needs, the need for stability, and the need to carry on their families. Marriage is a kind of contract, and from then on, both of them have to do what they should do, take responsibility, fulfill their obligations, and naturally have to pay a certain price.

It is precisely because of the above-mentioned changes in perspectives and lifestyles before and after marriage that some people are about to enter the marriage hall and have an unpredictable and inexplicable worry about their future life situation.

You have to comfort yourself and tell yourself that a flower, a sedan chair, you can only wear such a hat on your head! This is a negative way, at least not a solution, but it has its effect, at least it can make one party calm down and face up to their marriage, if you feel that the other party is not good, it is because you have not done enough, after all, marriage is not a child's play, and the clutch can be handled calmly, so no matter how serious the symptoms, we must take "cherishing" as the overall situation, and tolerate and tolerate each other. It's better to grow old than to part ways casually, leaving regrets that can never be made up.

Happy Fun! Happiness!

Yes, because I don't know the future, I have to face it, I am at a loss, I am very helpless After getting married, it will be fine, and there are two people in life to face together.

yes, I was nervous at the time, but then it was fine, just let it be.

Hello friend. The highest level of love is presumptuousness, when you can't be presumptuous in front of a person, it means that your love is still reserved!! When you do: it means that you are 100% in love!!

However: presumptuous people, only a few people can understand, understand, and accept!! Such as: our parents, the dearest people!! And the rest: we will all smile and keep a proper distance!!

Elegance is the best lubricant for relationships at the beginning!! When you get acquainted with each other for a long time: when and where do you always maintain 100% elegance, that is not elegance is artificial, it is caused by a long distance!!

The closer the distance, the more we can discover the shortcomings of others: when two people who have been in close proximity for a long time have a clear understanding of each other's shortcomings, wrinkles, acne, stinky sweats, shortcomings, stinky tempers, etc., you can still love and never give up, then you are the real love!。