I want to get a divorce, but his parents are very good to me, and my parents like him very much, wha

Then analyze the reasons why you want to divorce? After all, marriage is a matter for both parties, only you know whether the shoes are suitable for you, and what your parents see may only be superficial.

But if everything else is suitable, but you don't feel it, then reflect on yourself, first of all, you must change your wrong thoughts, and watching Korean dramas can't save love. Since you are married, marriage is not child's play, and you must be responsible not only for yourself, but also for your family and parents.

Let's find out why.

Is their relationship broken? If it's some habitual maladaptation. Then it's a minor issue.

If there is a breakdown in the relationship. It's the big problem. You'd better find out why they got divorced.

Let's see what problems exist between them. Found out. We'll be able to figure out how to help you find a way to solve their problems......

…It was you who married him, not your parents who married him.

If you want to divorce, the grounds are really clear and serious. Talk to your parents and they'll understand.

But you say you're a good man, huh?

If your parents don't understand, or your reasons are very unreliable, and you can't bear to rebel against your parents or can't be independent on your own, I advise you to forget it.

By the way, if it's because of another man, you can't leave.

Don't ask too much for everything, and if you're happy, don't separate. If unfortunate, separate. After all, someone else is not you, and they can't make decisions for you.

It's to divorce your husband, what about his parents

Summary. If it is indeed his mother's fault, but he is blindly frank, I think it is better to leave, your reluctance will only make him fearless and contemptuous.

My husband always asks me for divorce because of his mother, and if I have a little bad attitude towards his mother, he will divorce me.

If it is indeed his mother's fault, but he is blindly frank, I think it is better to leave, your reluctance will only make him fearless and contemptuous.

Of course, you can also try to tell your husband explicitly: "You should be filial to your parents, I will not object to your behavior, but don't forget that you are married, you have a responsibility to me and my future children, and you need to put our family first". In fact, most men can listen to the reason, when the man hears his wife's statement, he can realize the harm of his foolish behavior, and he can also realize the responsibility he should bear in the family, so that the man can not make changes.

Therefore, when a woman treats a foolish husband, she needs to communicate with her husband first, let her husband realize her own problems, and slowly let her husband make changes.

If you feel that you have a clear conscience, and your husband is still like this, then this means that it is his excuse, you can ask your parents-in-law in front of your husband, whether you are good to them, of course, your father-in-law and mother-in-law will not want you to divorce, and at the same time, you must reflect on yourself being better to your parents-in-law, which is also reducing the burden on your husband.

Since you are married, you can't divorce because of some things that can be changed by yourself, he said that you are not good to his parents, then you should communicate well with your husband, understand what he thinks you are doing badly, you also express your views, understand each other, deal with the relationship between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law, and the relationship between husband and wife, you and your mother-in-law love the same person the most, you also communicate well, I believe your relationship will be much better.

Communicate with him, if you don't do well, it's really unfilial, then if you still love your husband, then you must try to change, love your parents with the passion of loving your husband, which kind of you will get more love from your husband, the family will become more and more harmonious, the family is full of great love, and the road to divorce will be farther and farther.

It is recommended that both of you sit down and have a good talk, let him say that he thinks you are not good to his parents, how he asks you to be filial to his parents, and how he treats your parents, if he wants to divorce you for all kinds of reasons, he can have a clear conscience.

You can communicate well with your husband, and also tell your husband that you will be filial to his parents in the future, and strive to make your husband forgive you.

Libei, it is obvious that your husband regards the original family as more important than your small family, and it is appropriate to support the elderly, but this is your husband's obligation.

To try to communicate with him, in fact, many times it is because of the lack of communication between the two people, or he thinks that what he sees is the truth and tells his own difficulty, if you don't want to divorce, try to show a weak side.

First of all, see if his parents are good to you. If your in-laws are at fault, you don't do it well, and it's reasonable to accept it, and you can tell him what you think. If they are very good to you, and now they need you to take care of you, and you are not doing your best, then you have to reflect on it.

From now on, treat your in-laws well, let your husband see your changes, and then he will not divorce you again.

Then his parents are good to you, if they are good to you, if they are not good to other people's parents, then they shouldn't be, if they are not good to you, you don't have excusable feelings for his parents, just communicate with your husband and talk about things.

Then this problem should be dealt with by your parents-in-law, as long as you ask your parents-in-law to help you say a few good words in front of your husband, it will be fine.

If this is indeed your problem, you must change your attitude, if you feel that you have no problem with what you are doing, you can communicate with your husband, what should be done, everyone should understand each other.

Have a good chat, the other party feels that he is not good, if there is indeed a problem, try to make up for it. If you're good enough, let the other person know.

Because of the mother-in-law and daughter-in-law problem, your husband wants to divorce you, so it depends on how you deal with it, if you feel that this marriage is still necessary to be saved, then you should fight for it.

Men like their wives to be filial to their parents, after all, it is everything that their parents give him, so you should also honor his parents and your own parents.

Then is he good to your parents.

You see that you say this, you know that your husband is similar to a girl, divorce just divorce. Saying that you are not good enough for his parents means that you are doing okay, and he is a little too demanding of you, which most women can't do.

Summary. I want to get a divorce, but my parents don't agree, what should I do, first, how many years have you been married, and then? What are the reasons why you want a divorce?

Is the spearhead between your husband and wife? Have you ever thought about it? There is also whether you have tried to communicate, tried to solve, or said that the idea of divorce was there at the beginning, which has to be combined for very, very many reasons, as your parents, they definitely don't want you to divorce, because persuasion and not persuasion to leave, this is normal, they don't understand your personal inner thoughts, don't understand your experience, don't understand your care, so they definitely won't want you to divorce.

I want to get a divorce, but my parents don't agree, what should I do?

I want to get a divorce, but my parents don't agree, what should I do, first, how many years have you been married, and then? What are the reasons why you want a divorce? Is the spearhead between your husband and wife?

Have you ever thought about it? There is also whether you have tried to communicate, tried to solve, or said that the idea of divorce was there at the beginning, which has to be combined for very, very many reasons, as your parents, they definitely don't want you to divorce, because persuasion and not persuasion to leave, this is normal, they don't understand your personal inner thoughts, don't understand your experience, don't understand your care, so they definitely won't want you to divorce.

If you want to get the support of your parents, you must explain to your parents what the reason is, your parents will think more about what to do with your life after divorce, and you have to give them enough confidence to tell them, because you have your own certain plan, and you can live well.

My parents, thinking about the children.

Also, tens of thousands of loans, divorced to give child support, so my dad asked me to let me settle, but the relationship is not good, the personality is not compatible, and it will not go down.

Are you as a man or as a woman? It's normal for parents to tell you like this, because if you really get divorced, what should you do with your children, right, Liang Xiao thought about it clearly, and his parents disagreed, and they were talking to you from an outsider's point of view.

Parents stand in the perspective of hundreds of people, he thinks that you are not suitable for divorce now, because he takes into account the children, then what about you, as an insider, you only think that you can't live with the other party, without taking into account other factors including future life, if you want to divorce, you must make it clear to your parents, you can handle it.

Summary. Hello, glad to answer for you. You can first let them be separated for a period of time to calm down, and then feel whether their lives have changed, or worse, and work hard to do ideological work, the reason why they have not divorced for a long time is also because of your existence, use your actions to impress them If they don't listen to any of your persuasion, you can use some promises and actions to prove yourself, use your actions to move them, and let them know that your family can not be without anyone.

After all, adults don't understand the world, children don't understand, maybe adults have adult decisions, no matter what they say, they won't understand, if so, it's better to let them go, they can do whatever they want, you can only wait and see what happens. Respect their choice Parents divorce, there must be a reason, as the saying goes, a twisted melon is not sweet, since they don't want to live together, even if you persuade them to stay, everyone living together may not be happy. After all, after the divorce, you need to belong to either party, which is up to you to make your own decisions, and who you want to live with, you must think about it, because once you decide, it may affect your life.

Hello, glad to answer for you. You can first let them be separated for a period of time to calm down, and then feel whether their lives have changed, or worse, and work hard to do ideological work, the reason why they have not divorced for a long time is also because of your existence, use your actions to impress them If they don't listen to any of your persuasion, you can use some promises and actions to prove yourself, use your actions to move them, and let them know that your family can not be without anyone. After all, adults don't understand the world, maybe adults have adult decisions, no matter what they say, they won't understand, if so, it's better to let them go, they can do whatever they want, you can only wait and see what happens.

Respect their choice Parents divorce, there must be a reason, as the saying goes, a twisted melon is not sweet, since they don't want to live together, even if you persuade them to stay, everyone living together may not be happy. After all, after a divorce, you need to belong to either party, which is up to you to make your own decisions, who do you want to live with, you must think about it, because once you decide, you can start writing Tong can affect your life. I hope my whisper can help you.

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Summary. Hello, understand your mood at the moment. However, this matter is not a matter of face, if you feel that you can't go on, then divorce!

I want to divorce him, but his family is very good to me.

Hello, understand your mood at the moment. However, this matter is not a matter of face, if you feel that you can't go on, then divorce!

Can you tell me why you want to get divorced? Is your marriage really irretrievable?

Isn't it convenient to say?

Regarding the handling of this matter, the suggestions are: 1. Do your best to save the marriage. What is the contradiction between the husband and wife, the difference is in the **, whether Shihu is a subjective reason, or an objective reason......Whether the contradiction can be resolved and how to solve it ......2. If you want to divorce, properly handle the children and property issues, and break up peacefully.

Don't look at Li Liangren's face, and family members should not forcibly interfere. 3. After the divorce, keep in touch with each other, and help each other if necessary. So that the marriage is not there, the family affection will always be there.

If you have children, you should avoid causing harm to your children to the greatest extent, regardless of whether you are divorced or not, your relationship with your children is always ready to exist, and you should consider the child's growth, education, and upbringing, and who the child lives with, and respect the child's wishes.

It can be seen that you are a kind and affectionate person. It's a helpless thing, but you still have to make a rational choice!

Wishing you happiness! <>