Is it appropriate for us to be together? Will parents agree?

=。Hello, how old are you?

He is good to you, as long as your family conditions are okay.

From a realistic point of view, as long as one family of two families is able, it will do.

If both conditions don't work, it's a little... After all, there is a saying through the ages, poor couples mourn everything.

Of course, such a life can also be lived, but in reality, not every family has money and power.

I have a pair of friends who are not in good condition for both of them, and together they have a hard time.

Just one point, they have a good relationship. But the other pair of friends can't do it, arguing every day because of financial problems and so on.

I just want to say that you will be very burdened with him.

Formal work, this is no longer important, this child now as long as he works seriously, see if he works hard.

Parents are wise people.

Of course, if there is a better condition than him, the parents will definitely give priority. They also don't want to watch their children suffer.

You can take him home slowly, just say it's an ordinary friend, and then slowly leak a little bit of information to the parents to see what they say about the child.

In addition, the most important thing is that the two of you get along well as long as you get along well.

My partner is also in poor condition, no diploma, no formal job, no house, and is 8 years older than me.

But my dad took a fancy to him, a very capable, very smart person.

But my mom was a little reluctant. I just think he's unstable.

My partner said he had to clean up the house this year. Don't let me suffer with him.

I don't put pressure on him, I might get the license first, and then, when he feels no pressure, I will get married.

replied to the enthusiastic netizen, who was already a legal couple after receiving the certificate.

When I say remarriage, I mean a banquet, a testimony to relatives and friends.

Isn't it true that most of them get their certificates first and then hold banquets? At least that's the case with the people around me.

I get the certificate first, is it a backward concept of the legal system?

I also have at least a graduate diploma, so I don't even know what junior high school kids have learned.

Thank you for your kindness though.

Talk to your parents, you are only 4 years, but you and your parents have loved you since you were born, and your parents will not harm their children.

fainted, what did the above say, "Get the certificate first, and then get married when there is no pressure!" ”

What kind of backward concept of the legal system is this!! Is this still the case in the countryside? As long as you have a banquet, even if you are married, it doesn't matter if you get a marriage certificate or not!!

Didn't you know that the law doesn't protect "couples" who are not officially registered? Without a license, it is considered cohabitation in the eyes of the law, not marriage. As for how many tables you have in the village, the law doesn't care!!

If you get a marriage certificate, even if you don't have a banquet, you are still married!! Once you break up, it's a divorce!!

Dizzy, why is China's legal education still so backward!! I didn't even figure out how to get married, so I came out to persuade people, isn't this misleading??

The above is gossip and is not aimed at the landlord.

Do you think he can make you happy? Parents are actually very worried about whether you and him can be truly happy. You must think about the major events of your life before making a choice.

It's up to both of you.

In my opinion, when marriage is a major event, the opinions of parents are often not to be ignored, and the objects of opposition of my father and mother Iwano must have their reasons.

After all, they are people who have come from the past, and many times they know more than us, and they can make up for our experience, but it does not mean that what our parents said is all right, and their opinions must be listened to, but they are only for reference, and the final decision is still in our hands.

If you are a novice who has no experience in relationships, and you are young and have no social experience, then you should listen to your parents' advice at this time, after all, they have suffered injuries and detours, and they definitely don't want you to suffer again.

But if you are already an adult who is self-sufficient and capable of not relying on others, then you should respect your own choices and fight for your own happiness as long as you are determined to do them.

Parents only have the right to make decisions, not the right to make decisions. Why? First of all, you must know that in the world of casual shouting, except for the parents who gave birth to you and raised you, no one should care more about your happiness, misfortune, and happiness, right?

So, yes, my parents decided everything. It's all done on the premise that I hope you won't be hurt and won't be wronged!

Why do many parents object to a child's decision? Because they don't have the same starting point as you. First of all, in love, it is the process of contact and understanding between you and your other half, your morning and night relationship makes you have love at the same time, and your parents are just spectators, they can't feel your joys, sorrows, and sorrows, and they can experience your vows, all they can see is that you are happy, and they are naturally happy.

If you often feel aggrieved or sad in this relationship, how can you as a parent bear to let you marry your partner? The second is that there is no smooth sailing in the feelings of digging out the shortcomings, and after all the experiences, if you can still keep going together, remember, I am talking about both sides, not you alone.

Even if my parents were against it at the time, I felt that it was worth loving with all my strength to meet such a person in my life. Because you have to be clear, your parents will grow old and leave us, and the other half of you will be with you in the end.

Hello Zhenchun, I think that after the breakup, it may be under normal circumstances, the parents have already known, and it cannot be said that the parents broke up without knowing it, my views are as follows:

1. Parents will know sooner or later, and when parents know instead of knowing from you for the first time, what kind of situations and phenomena do you imagine will appear.

2. Parents are the people who know your character best, from childhood to adulthood, parents are the people who have been with you for the longest time, and they can see at a glance what you are thinking. So when you communicate with your parents, you can get more comfort from them.

3. Lulu's parents will communicate with you verbally, help you relieve the sadness in your heart, analyze the reasons for your breakup, analyze the inappropriateness between you, and avoid the same mistake last time when you are dating. So as to sum up the experience, instead of being sad for someone who does not belong to you.

4. Sometimes, there is still a certain generation gap between you and your parents, and they don't know your current life, so when you communicate with your parents, try to make it easy to understand.

5. If you don't want to disappoint your parents too much, you can re-associate with someone who is suitable, and as a parent, I just hope that you will start a family as soon as possible, and I hope you can find a reliable person who suits you, and it doesn't have to be with anyone.

Good luck. <>

If you can describe the affairs of the two more clearly and provide more comprehensive information, such as the boy's family situation, personal appearance, height, physical health, work ability, income status, and the situation of the corresponding model girl. It is not possible to give a specific answer. Looking at the hesitant question, I believe that there is a certain gap between the two.

If the parents love deeply, they will oppose the Dan clan together. If you don't care, you'll agree.

Since the parents disagree, then there must be a reason for them, talk to them about what the reason is, and then think carefully.