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You have lost a lot, but you have not lost everything, you still have life, there is youth, the world is full of helplessness, Wenchuan, Haiti's **, annual typhoons, plane crashes, many natural and man-made disasters have taken away many lives, and even do not give them the opportunity to regret and be sad, and you, at least there is time to reflect. Think about it, except for life that you originally have, everything else you have gained in the process of life, and now you still have life, why can't you get back what you lost, think about why you lost it, because you didn't cherish it when you had it, and you regret it so much when you lost it; So look at what you still have, don't squander it again, your life, your youth, even a coin in your pocket, a watch on your wrist, and this passage of mine, I hope you can cherish it in the future life, and when you regain what you lost, you can also understand its preciousness, so that the situation of today will not be repeated. People only live in the present moment, the past is a tragic story, shed tears and forget him, from now on, since there is nothing to lose, what are you afraid of losing (I'm not instigating you to sin), bravely face the new self.
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If life deceives you, don't be sad, don't be anxious!
Melancholy days need composure :
Believe it, happy days will come.
The heart is always yearning for the future, but now it is often melancholy.
Everything is instantaneous, everything will pass, and what has passed will become a kind nostalgia.
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Don't you know that these things are all earned by yourself? There is no reason why you are not going to die. Not having the ability to get fought for is.
You just look down on yourself like that? Don't kill, I guess you're still young, there are many opportunities, and there are many turning points. See if you insist on it.
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If you want to live happily, it's actually very simple, cherish what you have, look at the positive side of everything, perhaps, this is God testing you? This may be a turning point in your life, grasp it well, and, tell yourself, I am tenacious, and also, family affection will never be lost, the warmth that your parents raised you, think about it, if you feel that you are sorry for them, go back and apologize, with a smile, because society is the same, see how you face it!
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No, there are many reasons why you should live. If you think about those disabled and sick patients, they are all trying to live and fight.
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No, you have to let everything you have lost come back to you. Because you don't have anything now!
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Yes I wished I was a great person when I was a kid. Very famous person, when I grew up, I lived an ordinary life.
even turned life into a mess of chicken feathers, quite disappointed in himself.
The life I longed for as a child felt farther and farther away from me. In fact, my goal is not high, that is, I can live happily, have my own house, and have someone who loves me. Have a stable job. It seems that all of these are there, and it seems that there are none.
<> just feel very tired, only by myself, the way is very simple, injured, slowly healed, and then injured again.
In life, we will encounter all kinds of difficulties: we fail to interview for the job we want; Confessed to the girl he liked, but Shizhao was rejected ......Life is not easy, and hitting one blow after another can really make people feel very disappointed in life.
Three ways to help you re-examine the frustrations and disappointments in your life.
1. Don't deny it for a lifetime just because of one time.
If you make a completely negative decision because of one thing, it must be too impulsive. But too many of our returnees will say, "If I don't get it this time, then I might lose it forever."
If you feel that you don't need to work hard just because of your past failures, you are just punishing yourself for your past failures.
2. Don't dwell on the past and blame yourself excessively.
Letting the mood of disappointment, "punishing" oneself excessively, is another common way. Chinese have a habit of always looking for reasons from themselves when they encounter setbacks.
If I failed this interview, it must be that I am not good enough, and I am not worthy of this good position. ”
3. Recognize failure, and come back if you fail.
Every failure not only brings us emotional pain, but also provides us with new opportunities. Many people succeed because they persist longer, keep learning and improving, and finally succeed.
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Yes! Especially when encountering difficulties and setbacks, I have never been able to come out, I feel that life is very boring, and even I am desperate, but I will only find a smile when I calm down, all suffering is a tempering, and it is the only way to judge boredom in life, and everything will be fine!
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Everyone has a disappointment in life, because we encounter some unhappy things, or bury it when we encounter some confusion in work and life, we will feel very disappointed, but as long as we can adjust our mentality and get through that unhappy time, we will still be full of hope for life.
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When I was helpless and helpless, the stubbornness in my personality immediately told me, you have to cheer up, then I will not be disappointed, because I always believe that every challenge and experience in life can be seen as a baptism and an opportunity to try to explore new ideas for emancipating the mind. Whether you're feeling disappointed or frustrated, we can all think together about how to defuse the situation and change the status quo, so that your life becomes cheerful and the bad mood disappears!
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Real life is an insurmountable wall, facing oil, salt, sauce, vinegar and tea every day, every day when I open my eyes, I feel that I owe a lot of money, I can't pay the rent, I can't get rid of the sophistication of human feelings, the oppression of reality, the total disappointment is too much, the parents' health is not good, the children should buy things to go to school, the family's property fees, parking fees should be paid, and the car loan is about to expire. Life has become a heavy burden on our shoulders, we dare not let go, we dare not give up easily, no matter how heavy it is, we have to grit our teeth and desperately persevere; No matter how bitter Zen Wei is, he has to swallow the bitter water in his stomach. Sometimes the more I think about it, the more disappointed I become, the disappointment in reality, and the disappointment in my own celery!
Of course, I was disappointed, watching other people's lives carefree, and I felt unfair, and then I understood, life is an experience, and it also tests you with hardships and obstacles, everyone will experience different tests, birth, old age, sickness and death, no one can run away, look down, as long as you are still alive, no matter what the situation, it is better than not existing. To live is to have hope.
Reading and interacting with people can help you discover more meaning in life. You can try to arrange some time every day to let yourself do what you like to do, listen to songs, go shopping, surf the Internet, read comic books, whatever, as long as you can make yourself feel happy, you can try to do it without touching the interests of others, in order to enrich your life Secondly, set some goals for yourself (don't choose what is too difficult to complete at first), and then it is best to have a dream of your own (no matter how big or small), so that you can always think about those dreams and goals, and your mood will be better; When you encounter a long vacation, you can go out to do some travel, so that you can not only try a new environment, but also broaden your horizons, and then you can also enrich your experience to a certain extent, which is a good choice; Be familiar with the people around you and your own life, and try to find more of its rarity, in order to learn a certain amount of gratitude and cherishment; Keep an upward and optimistic heart and smile a few times a day, because this world is like this, everyone is not happy enough, and then everyone can find their own happiness!
Correct attitude towards life and way of thinking: If a person suffers from gains and losses all day long, and worries, then fantasy and frustration will "make trouble" in the mind. In fact, this is individualism at work. >>>More
There are a lot of people in this world who are not as good as you, you walk on the street, watching people come and go, everyone has a story behind them, the surface is calm and you don't know what they have experienced, you are really nothing, if you can't open it, it is recommended that you go bungee jumping, jump from a height, and then you will have a new understanding of life, your mother is older, how many years can she scold you in this world? There are mistakes to correct and no mistakes are crowned, and they pass by with a smile.
Everyone has more or less negative emotions of one kind or another, which is normal, but you have to learn to self-adjust, someone is better than you, and someone is worse than you, you always have hope, step by step, you will always find a way out.