What are the psychological hidden dangers buried in resignation?

There are three main psychological hazards after leaving the company, the first is the threat and suppression from the former boss, and the former company boss may deliberately step on himself in front of the new boss. The second hidden danger is that you are likely to worry about facing the panic of losing your job. The third psychological concern is the fear of a new work environment.

1. The negative evaluation of the former company boss on himself. Some bosses will be very angry when they see an employee leaving, and he will be very disgusted with the departing employee in his heart, and even plan to retaliate against the departing employee.

He will deliberately find employees unhappy before they leave, such as arranging more heavy work for employees. He may even give the employee a negative review in front of the employee's next leader, so that the new boss will have a bad first impression of the new employee, and may deliberately make things difficult for his new employee at work.

2. Fear of unemployment. Some employees do not find a new job for themselves in advance before leaving, so after leaving, the employee will be particularly panicked, he may worry about whether he can find a more satisfactory job, he is afraid that he will face the dilemma of unemployment.

Therefore, when we resign, we must find a new job in advance, and then resign after we find a new job, and we must not blindly choose to resign.

3. Fear of a new work environment. When we come to a new work environment, we often feel uneasy about the new environment, and most of us often need a certain amount of time to adapt to a new environment, so we will definitely spend some time when adapting to the new work environment.

We should face our new work environment with a more relaxed and confident attitude, we should not worry too much, we should learn to be happy and optimistic.

In short, after we make the decision to leave, we don't have to worry too much, we just enjoy our decision, do our job well, and we don't have too much burden.

Reluctant to re-enter the workplace, unconfident in themselves, afraid of workplace anxiety, afraid of interacting with superiors, and afraid of not being able to integrate into the new job.

I have no self-confidence in my major, my development will be hit, I will doubt my career plan, I will doubt my future, and I can't accept my life in the workplace.

The hidden psychological dangers are that they are not confident enough in themselves, they are very confused about the future, and they will feel very anxious, and they don't know if they can find a better job, so they will also look down on themselves.

Some people have regained their self-righteousness during their unemployment, while others have lost their way to life during their unemployment.

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Whether it is writing a resignation letter in anger, but in the end he gently puts the resignation letter on the leader's desk, or is wearing small shoes by his own bad stomach leader, and passively resigning, resignation will not be a good experience for everyone. Today, I would like to share the three psychological stages that I may go through after resigning.

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The first stage is panic. After leaving the job, the original routine of 9 to 5 life was interrupted, and I may still wake up early at 7 o'clock, but I have realized that I don't have to go to work, but I am not as happy as I imagined, but I am still a little lost, and even have a sense of frustration and guilt. After about a week of such a life, I began to slowly adapt to it, but my mood will still be in a low state, and the last month's salary is still in the hands of the former company.

The second stage is liberation. After leaving the company for a period of time, I found that I could do what I liked every day, without looking at the leader's face, and even saw all kinds of complaints from former colleagues in the circle of friends, and I had nothing to do with those office grievances, and I would have a feeling of being freed from the shackles. With the recovery of my daily sleep time, and no longer have excessive pressure to make me anxious, I will also have a new feeling, it turns out that this is what life should be, and I have completely fallen into the trap of part-time work before.

In the third stage, Tomohiro is anxious. When you play around freely, and the time is arranged by your mood every day, the freshness of the days when you don't have to work gradually weakens, and your bills are accumulating more and more, and you are in a state where you have no income every day and only expenses, on the other hand, there is no 9-to-5 constraint, and if your self-discipline is not very strong, it is easy to fall into an aimless state of chaos. When the anxiety accumulates to a certain extent, you will start to look for a job, if the job search goes smoothly, it is fine, although after working for a period of time, it may be due to various reasons, and it will start to resign and continue the psychological cycle after resignation, and if the job search is not smooth or you can't find a job at all, then you may let yourself fall into the quagmire of depression, because you are no longer in the mood to play.

Whether you quit your job or are at work, the most important thing is to find yourself and know what is most important to you, rather than becoming a screw that can be replaced at any time.