What is the current situation of empty nesters? Isn t it miserable?

The empty nesters have a sad evening scene. It's not just empty nesters who are sad.

There is always a lot of pain and suffering in the world. Some blame the misfortune of empty nesters on their children. Then I would like to ask, can the misfortune of empty nesters blame their parents?

Everything grows in balance, and the cycle of cause and effect is exactly the same. I don't want to say if all those empty nesters have committed sins against their children. I don't want to find out if their children are really cruel and cold-blooded, and they deserve to die.

After all, everyone has everyone's life. There are no young and old people on Huangquan Road. It's not just the elderly who are empty nesters and desolate.

This world is already cruel, and who has not experienced many pains and torments.

Why are rural empty nesters sad at night? In fact, the phenomenon of empty nesters is already very serious, not only in rural areas, but also in cities, but rural areas may be even more desolate. One of the most important reasons for the sadness of the empty nest elderly in rural areas is that they do not get the care and care they deserve, their children are not particularly filial, and some children who are particularly excessive even ignore the elderly and leave them to fend for themselves.

Spiritual emptiness and loneliness. We often hear people say that the elderly are like children, this is because the elderly need more care and love, and those empty nesters are very empty and lonely because they have lost their spouses and have no spiritual support. Especially for the elderly who have a deep relationship between the husband and wife, if one of them dies first, the one who stays behind is easy to be overly sad, resulting in a trance.

There are many elderly air-conditioned elderly people in rural areas, who are seriously ill and bedridden due to some physical and mental reasons, and need to be served all day. But even if the children are very filial, they have their own farm work or work to complete, and they cannot always be by the side of the elderly. Especially for those who have been bedridden for a long time, it is possible to have sores or rot on their bodies.

The old age of these old people is very miserable and painful.

Although society is getting better and the lives of the elderly are improving, the actual situation is still not optimistic. A variety of reasons are stacked together, forming the current situation of the old people's bleak evening scene. Yes, most people are kind and have a filial piety.

However, it is the loss to reality, the economy cannot keep up, the lover's non-cooperation, and the catastrophe can completely destroy a person's kindness. You want to be nice to them, you want to communicate with them, but the reality is that it is not something that can be changed by just one person.

The current situation of empty nesters is very bad, they are very lonely in life and cannot be well cared for, which is very miserable.

The situation is still miserable, and it is miserable, because these old people do not have pensions, and their children will not support them.

The current situation of empty nesters is unaccompanied, no one knows about their death at home, how miserable, some elderly people have died for a long time before being discovered, it can be seen how often children do not come.

Empty nesters will all appear now, helpless, hopeless, and lonely psychological states. It's miserable, so go home more often.

It's that I live alone without the company of my relatives, it's really miserable, everyone can't accept it, and I live alone alone.

Empty nesters are unaccompanied and lonely in life. Yes, we need to spend a lot of time with our families.

First, the problem of loneliness in life, there is only one old man left in life, and if the children are not around, the old man is very lonely and lonely, especially there are many old people, who do not know how to go online, cannot communicate with people on the Internet, and talk to no one in their lives, so they are very lonely, very lonely, and have no joy of life.

The second is to face health problems, the elderly have an accident in their body, or an unhealthy life, can not take care of themselves, or there are some parts of life that can not take care of themselves, then in the end the old man is very difficult, children are far from having a place to ask for help, and there is no one to help when they encounter accidents in life, just like this old man, he fell, because the old man is deficient in calcium, and it is easy to fracture a bone if he falls, and he can't even contact the outside world.

On the other hand, it is difficult for outsiders to help them, if it is a case of an elderly person alone, outsiders are afraid of causing some disputes, so they are unwilling to help such an old man.

Si Yingchang is that there are some prejudices against these old people in society, people are old, they can't hear clearly, and they don't speak very neatly, and when others speak, their understanding ability is also relatively poor, and they will also be prejudiced when they go out to do things.

Fifth, there are fewer and fewer people I know in my life, and my friends and relatives who used to be very good with me have caused a certain burden on the psychology of the elderly after they die of illness.

Empty nesters refer to middle-aged and elderly people who have left home after their children leave home.

Empty nesters refer to the elderly who have no children to take care of, live alone or live together as a couple, and are also divided into three situations: lonely elderly people who have no children and no spouses; The elderly whose children are far away and who are left at home; Elderly people who do not live with their children.

With the deepening of social and economic development and aging, the number of empty nesters is increasing, and the elderly are also hail for a serious social problem, because their children are not around for various reasons, and the middle-aged and elderly people who stay at home will have a sense of psychological gap, so there is"Empty nest"syndrome.

Problems faced by empty nesters

1. Economic aspects.

Among the empty nest households, there are some elderly people who live alone, and many of them are economically poor. In 2003, 4,500 of the 6,000 elderly people in Beijing were "empty nesters". These lonely and widowed old people who have no children, daughters and wives, no one to help them support the elderly, they have no income, and economic problems have become the most important problem for them to live.

2. Life.

The elderly are in good health and can still take care of themselves, but once they get sick and their children are not around, there will be many inconveniences in their lives. The onset of the elderly is often sudden, there is no one at home, or the rescue is not timely, and the above phenomenon is difficult to avoid. It has been reported on many news stories that children have left home to work, leaving only the elderly at home, who have died of illness or accidents, and whose bodies have decomposed at home before being found.

This kind of news is not uncommon, which shows that there are many inconveniences and hidden dangers in the life of empty nesters.

Summary. Hello dear! Personally, I think that most of today's empty nesters are lonely elderly people who have no children and no daughters because their children go out to work, and the elderly who live separately from their children.

Hello dear! Personally, I think that most of today's empty nesters are lonely elderly people who have no children and no daughters because their children go out to work, and the elderly who live separately from their children.

Hello dear! The first phenomenon and the first three signs of the present delay indicate that the conditions of the family or the proper handling of the relationship between the family and the people are responsible. I think this has to be looked at by the love of the children, if the children can take responsibility and ignore the conflict with the elderly, then there will be no empty nesters.

The second type belongs to the elderly of the five-guarantee households, which is borne by the state.