Is selfishness a mental illness? Extreme selfishness is the root cause of mental illness

<> I have been told more than once that I am selfish (in love), and I used to think a lot about each other and do a lot for each other, even if poor students had no money at that time. Then I found that the other party's attitude towards me was like a doll that was thrown aside when I was happy and unhappy, so I broke up.

I may be a person who is a little indifferent to emotions by nature, I put all my strong emotions in my parents, my tears are very strange, I never feel much love or anything, but I can cry when I see some little things about father's love and mother's love.

I don't have very good friends, and I think my girlfriends are too stupid and fake, just as stupid as true love. Friends, light as water is fine, this distance is the safest. I have a little more male friends, which are related to my interests and hobbies, but they don't have a particularly good relationship because I'm afraid that they will think they have hope, and many of the boys around me are good to me because they have a purpose.

After removing it like this, in fact, there is no one around me, and it will be selfish to be used to being alone. I don't know what the definition of selfishness is, and I've liked people, but they tend to say that I'm the only one in my world, and even a friend cares more about them than I do. But I gave ample companionship and timely verbal comfort, but I didn't know what they wanted.

I have a lot of friends who come and go, I may be happy in my heart when you come, but I may not be able to express it, and I won't stop you when you leave. I can't remember anyone's birthday except my parents (except if I'm in a relationship), but no one remembers my birthday either.

I know I have a problem, my own personality is not very expressive, and I don't like to say what I think in my heart, many times I am inconsistent, it doesn't matter after a long time, I have expectations for you, and if you don't do it, then I don't expect anything from you. I don't care if you're disappointed in me, because I didn't ask you to expect anything from me. In this way, I think that selfishness is indeed a mental illness.

<> I'm indifferent by nature is a single parent for family reasons, my mother will only use me as an emotional trash can, love in the wrong way, I have a very good friend, I sometimes think she is my relative, when I am sad, I comfort me appropriately, say to me that it's okay, it's over, but now that I have grown up, I have their own lives, and I don't want to talk too much about my messy life. Love is incompetent, I am very eager for the family, to be precise, I hope to have a child of my own, touch my child with love and warmth, and leave all the love in my life to her. That's why I keep living...

So I think that selfishness should be relative, for those things you really don't care about, you will choose to be selfish, but for those things that you really care about, you will not think only about yourself like this.

But, due to the single-parent family, I'm used to coming alone for so long, but I'm always told that I'm selfish, and I can't refute it, and I don't know how to refute it, so I'm a little uncomfortable. But don't care about other people, or disguise yourself when you get along with others, sometimes you find that disguise solves a lot of problems.

People are selfish people. Selfishness is a relatively common and pathological psychological phenomenon, which is a mental illness.

It manifests itself in various forms, but there is only one center, that is, it only cares about its own interests, and does not care about the interests of others, the collective, the country, and society.

What is the relationship between mental illness and selfishness? Normal people are not selfish. Mentally ill people are pitiful, miserable, and kind people. Only truly selfish people don't get mentally ill. On the contrary, it will soar, and the unlucky ghost will be scolded by tens of thousands of people. Mentally ill.

Summary. The first type: self-centeredness, others have to revolve around him, distorted selfishness.

This kind of selfish person's unique performance is that he does not understand other people's thoughts, and he can't accept other people's ideas, he doesn't care about other people's opinions and evaluations, he only lives in his own world, and shows "what I think is what I think".

Frankly speaking, wealthy families often create this kind of "self-centered people" the most, for example, princess disease is a typical example, playing small clothes to reach out for food to open their mouths, being cared for by their families, and their parents are responsive to what they want.

As a result, they rarely consider the mood and needs of others, only care about their own moods and needs, and only know how to take, not to give. But this kind of selfishness is not impossible to change, what needs to be changed is the living environment of the ta, let the ta's go through some big tribulations, and the self-reflection after the ordeal will make them reborn.

Extreme selfishness is a mental illness.

The first type: self-centered, others have to revolve around ta, distorted selfishness, this kind of selfish people, the unique performance, is not to understand other people's thoughts, can not accept other people's ideas, do not care about other people's opinions and evaluations, only live in their own world, "what I think is what I think", vividly and vividly. Frankly speaking, wealthy families often create this kind of "self-centered people" the most, for example, princess disease is a typical example, playing small clothes to reach out for food to open their mouths, being cared for by their families, and their parents are responsive to what they want.

As a result, they rarely consider the mood and needs of others, only care about their own moods and needs, and only know how to take, not to give. But this kind of selfishness is not impossible to change, what needs to be changed is the living environment of the ta, let the ta's go through some big tribulations, and the self-reflection after the ordeal will make them reborn.

The second type: extreme selfishness indirectly caused by "low selfishness" From a psychological point of view, low self-esteem is a manifestation of lack of self-confidence, and it is also a mental illness, which has an impact on life, love, work, social interaction, etc. In addition, people with low self-esteem like to stay in the comfort zone that they think is safe.

This kind of person is actually very selfish, why do you say that? Because the reason for their inferiority complex can be traced back to their childhood experience and their original family, some people's low self-esteem is that they were unfortunate in their childhood and had a bumpy experience. For example, being denied, oppressed, bullied, and without love, parents divorced, etc., these experiences made him gradually become selfish when he grew up.

In TA's eyes, the world is cold and cruel, and he is a poor, helpless, and abandoned person by the world, and he feels that everyone in the world is sorry for him, so he must use "selfishness to protect himself", which can be summed up in one sentence, that is: I would rather bear the world than the world should bear me.

Hello, there are two kinds of selfishness: the first is self-centered, and everyone else has to revolve around him, and the second is the distorted selfishness: extreme selfishness indirectly caused by "inferiority".

The first type: self-centered, others have to revolve around ta, distorted selfishness This kind of selfish person, the unique performance of the elderly, is not to understand other people's thoughts, can not accept other people's ideas, the old banquet to promote other people's opinions and evaluations, no care, only live in their own world, "what I think is what I think", show it vividly.

Common sense of life refers to the scientific knowledge summarized by people in daily life, which can be divided into common sense content in various aspects such as physics, biology, chemistry, medicine, first aid knowledge, geography, safety, cosmic celestial bodies, and natural phenomena.

In fact, we all know that people are originally selfish, which is the basis of life reproduction, which is also everyone's humanity. Of course, when we talk about selfishness here, we are not completely selfish, and if we don't have someone else's kind of thing at all, we can't establish any relationship.

The second refers to being selfish in the relationship to calmly put yourself first and prioritize yourself. The more selfish people are, the healthier they are, and there is truth to this statement. The more selfish a person is, the more sophisticated and complex his thinking skills become.

We usually know that those who are selfish are often very calculating.

It is easy to attract people who are like things and people who are grouped, and who have similar interests, attitudes, values, or background factors. For example, if you love sports and football, and if you see someone who likes this, you will have a good impression of him.

If you want to be popular, it is not enough to have similarity, similarity is only the appearance factor that you attract others to get close to you, if you want to have a good impression from the attraction, you also need to call for wax in other aspects, and reciprocal good feelings are also very important.

Value exchange. I get in touch with you, you benefit me, and I can benefit a lot from being with you. If you look closely, you can find that people who are popular are often people who have the best value attributes.

This ** value not only refers to the attraction of material and appearance, but also lies in the identity of the individual.

In life, we will also find a phenomenon that the more similar our interpersonal styles and communication skills, the closer we will be to each other. For example, if you are a very gentle and considerate person, and when you communicate with Chaihua, you meet a person who is also gentle and elegant, and there is no lack of humor, such a person will also make you want to be close.

Whether a person's personality is open-minded, cheerful, tolerant and open-minded will also make a person gain a good relationship.

People, always like to listen to flattery, some people are hypocritical, but they are good at observing words and feelings, if the people around him happen to be a group of people who love vanity and like to listen to flattery, what do you say about his popularity? It's still not bad, and maybe it's going to be praised by everyone.