Not being able to see others well is also a mental illness

Jealousy, low self-esteem.

Jealousy is not the same as competition. Competition is a kind of psychology and behavior that is not willing to be left behind, while jealousy is a complex emotion of dissatisfaction, anger and resentment that arises when others surpass and replace themselves. This emotion is to use dissatisfaction with the other party to protect oneself and reduce inner panic.

Hello, I don't think it's a pathological psychology to see others well. It may be related to the original family, growing up in a family that likes to compare everything since childhood, it will slowly compare, and finally it will become a psychology of not seeing others better than yourself, I think it is more or vanity is more important.

It's not sick or bad, and people who aren't kind-hearted can't see others good.

Yes, it is the psychology of jealousy, in fact, there are many such people, especially those who have a good relationship with themselves. I can't see the good of others. I realized that I had to adjust slowly. Or you will always be in a bad mood.

This is human nature, and sometimes it is really incomprehensible, but if you think about it, isn't that how life is?

Good is rewarded with good, evil is rewarded with evil, we are good people, just forgive and forgive others, Nan Wu Tan Buddha.

That's not a big gap. I don't think you'll be like that to Bill. Only envy anymore.

It's not a psychology to see others good, because most of the people nowadays are the same, in this world, if you want to live well, only your own parents, so you don't think too much about your psychological problems, as long as it's not that others are better than you, you have too much impatience with others.

Envy, jealousy, hatred!

The ancients said: "Relatives look forward to good relatives, neighbors look forward to poor neighbors"; That is, relatives are good to take care of, and they can help each other; If the neighborhood is good, the neighborhood will be arrogant and look down on others, and if the neighborhood is good, it will seem that they are very faceless, no one has the ability, no one has the ability, no one has the ability, no one has the money, no one lives richly, and they will always feel that they are dwarf, so the neighbors are poor and can't see that others are better than themselves, and they are envious, jealous and hateful.

It's jealousy. Everyone has some such mentality, it's just a matter of degree. Everyone doesn't want to see others better than themselves, and if others are better, they will feel a little jealous in their hearts.

I am afraid that others will ruthlessly abandon themselves after they are developed.

Writer Yang Daxia said that mentality determines success or failure.

People with poor hearts can't see others better than him, they don't have the courage to change the status quo, and they also lack a kind and grateful heart. A person's state of mind is his destiny. Material poverty is a big deal to get rid of by earning money; But poverty is very difficult to do, it is like a shadow, a dark cloud, always hanging over your life.

Not being able to see others is a kind of "jealous" psychology, which is the result of unreasonable assumptions and unclear self-positioning, and is a kind of cognitive fallacy and unreasonable belief.

When this mindset arises, it only increases the frequency of our complaints and does not help us substantially. And blindly complaining will only make us look at life with a negative and pessimistic eye, feel that life is unfair, and thus fall into a vicious circle of negative thinking. Such a person, for the rest of his life, will only live in his own fantasies.

If you can't see the good of others all day long, you will pay more attention to other people's every move, care about some details of life, and ignore the really important and meaningful things in your own life, and waste cognitive resources in unnecessary jealousy and complaining, which is undoubtedly a stupid move. Slowly, you will not be able to find the point to support yourself, and then you will not know how to live better.

Ways to overcome this mentality:

Don't compare yourself with others, no matter how good others are, it has nothing to do with you. The success of others does not mean that there is a lack of success in the world, nor does it mean that you will not succeed, maintain the mentality of "more than the bottom", there are always people in this world who have more than you, and there are many people who are not as good as you.

Cherish what you have, such as having a happy family and lovely children, and shift your attention to what I have, not what I want, you will feel a sense of abundance, bless others, change your thinking, wish others well, understand the efforts, luck, and struggle behind their success, and motivate yourself with the success stories of others, believing that everyone's efforts will have different gains.