The attitude of blind dates, what is everyone s attitude towards blind dates?

Seeing the word ordinary friend, I have to feel sorry for the landlord. But there is still a chance.

1. The landlord has feelings for this girl. Maybe the girl didn't receive the message of the landlord's affection, and the girl didn't let you know you better, judging that she didn't feel it, so she didn't want to go deeper.

2. The girl thinks it is suitable to be an ordinary friend, which roughly means that you can't be my boyfriend, but it seems that you can still keep in touch with you, and it seems that the first impression is still recognized by you.

3. In this tepid state, the landlord must show enough endurance and perseverance to show his feelings for this girl. Because the girl still left a chance for you, after all, some people like their own girls think they have a lot of face. At the same time, you must also improve your own level, who will be able to resist a charismatic man.

4. It seems that she is twenty-one years old, and it seems that the psychological age of the landlord is probably not mature enough for this girl. You have to put more thought into it, show that you care about her very much, and you will soon get started. Do some more homework, such as the things she likes, her zodiac sign's blood type, personality, etc., and do what she likes.

5. Do your best and obey the destiny of God. Be prepared to be rejected at any time.

It's too young, twenty-year-old girls are still playing at the age of playing, and it's too far away for them to get married on a blind date.

If the upstairs says that it is good, the landlord will give it to him.

What is the right attitude for blind dates? The correct attitude that both men and women should have in the face of blind dates is:

First, in the face of blind dates, both men and women should take it seriously, because blind dates are generally introduced by matchmakers, and out of respect for matchmakers, blind dates should be taken seriously.

Second, the correct attitude that a blind date should have is sincerity, and you should sincerely introduce yourself to the other party, so that both parties have a good impression, and by learning the real relevant information, in order to make the next decision.

Third, the correct attitude that blind dates should have is to take the initiative, especially the man, who should take the initiative, take the initiative to introduce himself, take the initiative to introduce some relevant information to the woman, take the initiative to find a topic, and not be cold.

Fourth, the correct attitude that blind dates should have is that both men and women should pay more attention to it, not perfunctory, in order to show their sincerity, no matter how busy they are, they must arrive in advance, and they must not be late.

Fifth, the correct attitude that a blind date should have is that both parties should be careful in dressing, dress appropriately and generously, not too casual, in order to show seriousness and respect for each other.

Sixth, the correct attitude that a blind date should have is to be kind and kind, when the two parties get along, not only to be sincere, but also to be honest, trust each other, understand each other, and both parties are working hard towards marriage.

Seventh, the correct attitude that blind dates should have is that both parties should be aggressive and actively strive for, and at the same time, they should respect each other's hearts, respect each other's choices, do their best to talk, and understand each other. Or go with the flow.

Eighth, the correct attitude that blind dates should have is not to conceal them, such as whether there is a history of marriage or whether there are any major physical defects, etc.? should be told truthfully, so that you can be honest with each other, and in the process of falling in love, you will also be at ease.

Ninth, the correct attitude that blind dates should have is to seek truth from facts, do not bluff, do not exaggerate, and do not slap a swollen face and become fat, both parties should abide by honesty and reputation, so that the other party can fully understand themselves, so that both parties can go further and walk more steadily.

Tenth, the correct attitude that blind dates should have is to seize the opportunity, fully show their advantages, clearly express their sincerity, euphemistically explain their requirements and standards, and sincerely look forward to a good result.

In short, the correct attitude that blind date should have is very important and must have, the correct face of blind date, honest self-expression, generous performance, active pursuit, both respect for the heart, and respect the other party's choice.

1. Don't be prejudiced against blind dates.

Older single young people should not have prejudiced or preconceived ideas about blind dates in the first place, such as thinking that blind dates are a shameful thing, or that blind dates are a very cheap thing. Actually, there is nothing wrong with blind dates per se. Blind date is also a way and means to get married.

It's just that blind dates are more realistic and utilitarian than free love. Because everyone goes on a blind date for the purpose of marriage, some conditions will be more specific when going on a blind date.

This may make some older single young people feel uncomfortable and uncomfortable, but this is the characteristic of blind dates. This method of blind date is more suitable for older single men and women who are in a hurry to get married, but they are struggling to find a suitable partner around them or their social circle is too narrow. If you want to go on a blind date, then you have to get your attitude right.

You don't despise blind dates. Only in this way can you be at ease in the process of blind date and not feel too embarrassed.

2. If you don't want to go on a blind date, you don't have to be reluctant.

If you don't want to go on a blind date, then you don't have to force yourself to go on a blind date. Many older single men and women are not firm enough to take a stand, although they are very reluctant to go on a blind date, but when they are forced to be upset by their parents, they may be forced to accept a blind date. Therefore, in the process of blind date, they will feel like sitting on pins and needles, which is very painful and embarrassing.

In fact, you can righteously refuse a blind date from the beginning.

Since you are full of resistance to blind dates, then you should refuse blind dates from the beginning. Don't be soft-hearted and promise your parents to go on a blind date. If you don't have a desire for marriage or a passion for blind dates, then you don't need to compromise.

When you go on a blind date, then you will find that the blind date will become a shadow in your life. You will become very restrained in the process of blind date, and the whole state will make people feel very uncomfortable, very embarrassed, and there will also be a cold scene. So, you either refuse to go on a blind date at the beginning, and since you have decided to go on a blind date, then you have to have a proper attitude and not be afraid of it.

3. Pay attention to the process of blind date, and don't care too much about the result of the blind date.

If you want to resolve the embarrassment of the blind date, you need to look down on the results of the blind date, you just need to enjoy the blind date process. If you find that the blind date is worth your heart, then you have to take the blind date seriously. In the process of communication, you should let go of your reserve and interact more sincerely.

The result of the blind date is nothing more than two kinds: one is that the blind date is successful, and each other feels that it is suitable, so naturally everyone is happy; One is that the blind date fails, and they don't like each other, or you look at others but they don't look down on you, or people look at you but you don't look down on others. If it's the second case, then you don't want to continue associating.

Taking 10,000 steps back, the worst result of a blind date is just a blind date failure. There's nothing to lose for you. You won't lose a piece of meat because of this, you just have a clearer and more clear understanding of what you really want through blind dates.

Blind date, what is everyone's attitude? Novelty, embarrassment, helplessness?

What kind of blind date view is correct? I believe it should be based on the three views of the individual.

I have very few blind dates, but the blind dates are a bit long. I don't have the sharpness to see at a glance whether the other person is a good fit or not. I like to get along with each other by feeling, and when I am comfortable chatting, I will gradually learn about other aspects.

Thanks to these experiences, I know exactly what kind of people I want to work with.

Standards and principles are powerless in the face of fate. Only fate can meet, and fate can last for a long time. What does it matter if the blind date fails, growing up in the process is the real gain.

When going on a blind date, I will take the initiative to bear the expenses of eating, watching movies, etc., not the current A a, I like the form of communication where you invite once, I invite once, and usually gifts are also exchanged gifts of equal price. No need to pick up, no need to send, there is no one who takes advantage and who suffers.

At the beginning, they all got along as friends, and when they met once or twice, they felt that they wanted to understand and continued to get along, which was not suitable or embarrassing. But the elders don't seem to accept it, and they feel that the state of continuing to understand each other is "boyfriend and girlfriend"! How can it be so sloppy?

Is it that easy to find a partner?

Shouldn't it develop from a friend relationship to a lover relationship, and then rise to the good of two surnames? Anyway, what do I think.

So why did my two blind dates last long?

Reason 1: Because of unclear communication, two people have different concepts of blind date, and there will naturally be contradictions. I "thought" that young people think like this, but I just thought that in fact (the male one) was very introverted, and his parents assisted me and gave me 100% certainty, but the boy's thoughts are the thoughts of the previous generation, and he thinks that I am his girlfriend.

Good guy, I didn't confess during the relationship, I didn't explain the relationship, of course I can't accept it.

Reason 2: Because people change. I can be sure of my thoughts and feelings, but I can't be sure what the other person thinks.

In the early stage of getting along, the whole person gave me the feeling that I admired, and I wanted to learn from him to make myself excellent. In the later stage, when I told me about my original family and work, I felt that this person really trusted me and wanted to cherish him, but after taking off the mask of disguise, I felt that he had lost the light that made me worship. Our communication was becoming more and more ineffective, and when I said one sentence, he needed to ask a question and let me explain the meaning of the first sentence in one sentence.

This....I can't bear it, there are communication problems, what else is okay? And after I made my blind date view, the other party still couldn't get it, so I could only let go early and not keep it for the New Year

Reason 3: No one is perfect, and there are also problems with my view of blind dates, which I have slowly explored in practice. I hope to meet better people, renew my mindset, and become a more wowish person!

Blind dates are also a way to get to know each other.

You don't have to exclude.

Engage with sincerity.

If appropriate, is the best outcome.

If it's not suitable, it's normal.

Don't expect too much and don't take it too seriously.

In this way, when you have the opportunity, you can seize it in time and achieve your life's work.

1. If I am an introvert, not good at socializing, and my basic conditions are not very good, I want to find myself.

The other half is a little difficult, so I agree that the blind date can help me solve the problem of finding a love partner.

Second, if my conditions are better in all aspects, or even say that there are many people who pursue me, I don't approve of using blind dates to solve the problem of love, after all, the way of free love feels more practical, understands each other better, and is sweeter and happier.

3. As for some individual areas, the kind of blind date marriage arranged by parents is completely arranged, I am firmly opposed, because this kind of blind date between men and women is completely for the purpose of marriage, and it is even said that there will be no love!

1.Dress appropriately and be literate.

2.Respect each other's ideas.

3.Ladies are preferred.

One is inner rejection. Many people are disgusted, rejected, and disgusted with the form of blind date from the heart, and feel that they have become a commodity to be sold at a price, and they are picked and picked at will, and they can't get over that hurdle psychologically. In addition, you may meet the opposite of what you like, and even the boys who combine the points they hate, naturally, disgust and rejection go to the top.

Second, the matching degree is too low. Many people have encountered this situation, the introducer always likes to introduce excellent boys and excellent girls, but often to no avail. It must be affirmed that the boys and girls are really good individually.

However, being good doesn't mean being a match. may like and value each other differently, there is no problem with normal communication, and being friends is like-minded, but becoming a lover can probably only be a lover who is not satisfied. Thus, the drawbacks of the introduction are revealed.

However, I would like to point out that even if you are in free love, there are cases where you find that each other is not suitable and break up peacefully, so why should you be so demanding that the blind date must be fate?

The third is that it is too transparent. Almost all married people admit that when they got married, they were more or less confused, and they didn't think about it deeply, so they went with the flow. And now unmarried people, basically have received higher education, have a certain amount of knowledge and insight, plus in the society for many years, know people and things have formed a set of their own unique opinions, can quickly judge whether this person meets their own preferences, can also be said to be not so easy to deceive and easy to handle.

Fourth, they are unwilling to wronged themselves. This is typical of older unmarried young people. Everyone has been living independently for nearly 30 years, many are still only children, and no one wants to be wronged or even compromise for someone they don't like very much.

If your parents and elders are concerned, your thoughts are still stuck in their time. Thinking about the material life is consistent, and does not take into account what the real thinking of young people is today.

And what my elders introduced, everyone doesn't know much. It may be at a different level in thought. Parents yearn for a stable life.

For young people, what their parents introduce is not necessarily the best, because they used to think about haircuts. I was watching my parents' introductions before, and I was already forcing myself to accept it. If you accept it, you are compromising with your parents, so many young people are facing blind dates with a rebellious attitude, what they need is a comfortable love, not a kind of bound love, which is equivalent to marriage, they want freedom, the blind date introduced by parents may be in the village, the better young people in the village For young people from the outside world, they may have a bad attitude towards the blind date we introduced.