How can I salvage this relationship? I was confused, and I fought for her.

After reading the information you wrote, I think you belong to the kind of person who has done 90 percent of one thing and still has 10 percent left Don't be pessimistic and disappointed You just need to do the following five things I will make you foolproof First, you have to have confidence in yourself Victory and defeat are a common thing in soldiers Failure is not terrible What is terrible is that you give up (your heart is dead) In fact, the biggest enemy is yourself If you don't even have confidence in yourself Then there is no need to chase others Second, you must chase her single-mindedly Be true and pure Don't be half-hearted Third You have to have perseverance, you have to chase her all the time, don't give up halfway, have the spirit of foolishness to move mountains, fourth, you have to be gentle with her, you have to follow her a little, don't come hard, fifth, you have to be tepid, just chase her, don't chase her too much, but don't be too cold.

Hello friends! It's just my personal opinion, I don't know if it helps you.

I don't think love can be forced, let alone a person's business. In your current situation, she in the story may have thought very clearly, but she just rejected you very tactfully, and if you really love her, don't wait until she is extremely bored to leave.

As the saying goes: you don't have to have someone to love, and a twisted melon is not sweet.

The cause is your disbelief.

Tell her that you will believe her in anything in the future, and really believe her.

With your trust, even if any of the above happens, she will turn her heart in favor of you because of your belief.

What is love? Love is: I want the other person to be happy, even if the person who gives her (him) happiness is not herself.

If you love her very much, keep my words in mind.

Don't be too selfish, it's painful just to think that you don't have her.

Pain is also love, so enjoy the process.

If she does, if she loves you, she will come back, and if she doesn't love you, then it can't be helped, right?

Sometimes feelings are like sand in your hands, the tighter you hold on, the less you can grasp.

Let's communicate the following. You don't want to interfere with her life with self-righteousness, although there are some places where you can be machismo. But don't be too macho either.

Men, you have to show your manly spirit, use your charm, your ability to conquer your opponents, this kind of violence can't solve big problems, you have to learn to be steady, or you will suffer in business.

People are different, it depends on what kind of girl your girlfriend is, machismo should be a little bit, but too much is not good, especially if you are too tight with your girlfriend, most girls will not be able to stand it.

A psychologist once wrote that a mature relationship can be called true love.

There are four stages that must be passed, and that is:

The time required to transition between the independent phases of coexistence and anti-dependency is not necessarily the case, and it varies from person to person.

Phase 1: Coexistence.

This is a time of passionate love, and lovers always want to be tired of being together whenever and wherever they are.

Phase 2: Anti-dependency.

When the relationship is stable, at least one partner will want to have a little more time for what they want to do, and the other will feel left out.

The third stage: independence.

The fourth stage: symbiosis.

At this time, a new way of getting along with each other has taken shape, and your other person (her) has become your closest person.

Together, you support each other and create your own life together.

Together, you don't tie each other down, but grow with each other.

However, most people can't get through the second or third stage, and it is a pity that they choose to break up.

As long as you communicate well, you will be fine with many things, don't play with personality, don't think too much and trust each other, so that the time of the second and third stages will be shortened.

It is not easy to meet and fall in love with your loved one, so don't give up easily.

The two got together because of fate, and they knew each other because they had a heart, and they really had to cherish this blessing, let alone break up.

I hope that seeing the above four stages can really give you some enlightenment and understanding, and we will gradually become the people we love.