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1.Low self-esteem: Some people may feel insecure because of their inferiority complex, and they may alleviate their feelings of insecurity by making others ugly or embarrassed.
2.Jealousy: Some people may satisfy their jealousy by deliberately making someone ugly or embarrassed because they are jealous of their accomplishments or appearance.
3.Controlling: Some people may want to control other people, showing their power and superiority by making them ugly or embarrassed.
4.Malice: Some people may be just pure malice and like to take pleasure in seeing others embarrassed.
Whatever the reason, deliberately making someone else ugly or embarrassed is unethical and can have long-term negative consequences for the victim. If you find yourself in such a situation, it is recommended that you try to avoid associating with such people and seek support and help at the same time.
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Because he is jealous of you.
I'm afraid you're doing better than him.
Better than you. So I suggest that you treat this kind of person better than ignore him, ignore him, and after a long time, he will feel embarrassed and bored, and will not provoke you.
Otherwise, he should be angry and make him feel the seriousness of the matter, but it is still not recommended to do this, after all, it is not easy to get along with colleagues after falling out.
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Summary. The first trick is to pretend that you don't know, so that others will find it boring all the time, so that you won't make a fool of yourself.
The second trick is, you say, to say others is to say yourself, if she still resists, just say, then why do you say me? I didn't provoke you, why do you say me? So if someone says you, would you do it? If you don't want to, don't talk about me!
The third trick is that if you really can't help it, you can tell the teacher! If it's on campus, you tell the teacher! If it's in the unit, tell the superior!
How to deal with someone who makes you ugly.
Hello, is it a matter of work or study?
This kind of person is either too selfish, think it's wrong, don't care about your face at all, maybe you can talk to him in private, for example, if you expose my shortcomings in front of so many people, I will be very embarrassed, please don't do it in the future, if the conversation has no effect, he still reveals your shortcomings in front of others, then you can directly open up, you can explain what is going on directly after he finishes, and expose his shortcomings, he may be embarrassed and then angry and say that you are small-minded, you can't afford to joke, You can just say that if I expose your shortcomings in front of others, will you be happy?
The first trick is to pretend that you don't know, so that others will find it boring all the time, so that you won't make a fool of yourself. The second trick is, you say, to say others is to say yourself, if she still resists, just say, then why do you say me? I didn't provoke you, why do you say me?
So if someone says you, would you do it? If you don't want to, don't talk about me! The third trick is that if you really can't help it, you can tell the teacher!
If it's on campus, you tell the teacher! If it's in the unit, tell the superior!
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<> this is a topic in the category of success studies, to be honest, I was a very shy person a long time ago, I would blush whenever I spoke in front of everyone, and I was very afraid of making mistakes, I was nervous when I made a mistake, I made a fool of myself when I was nervous, and I was even more shy when I was ugly.
But after figuring out a few things, I let go, it doesn't matter, and then I'm relieved, and I'll share my personal thoughts with you here.
1. You are alive for you.
Life is your own, you just live for yourself, and you have to carry it on your own when you are right or wrong. Even if you fail, what can you do, it's a big deal to start all over again.
2. What can a momentary embarrassment say?
If you talk in front of others, work hard in front of others, or make a fool of yourself in front of others, so what, what does it matter to you if everyone laughs or encourages you, as long as you grow up after going through all kinds of experiences, it is enough.
3. Caring about other people's opinions brings too much burden to yourself.
From childhood to adulthood, we kept taking exams and constantly pursuing high grades, for what? In fact, it is to make our parents proud of us. When we grow up, we enter society, and our parents may not know what you are doing, why do we have to burden ourselves so much for other people's opinions.
As long as you feel that enough is enough, everything is worth it.
4. Go your own way and let others say it.
Not to say that we are unparalleled in the world, but each of us is unique in the path, and the way of life is not unified with others, so why do we have to let others identify with us, or we are happy enough. Life belongs to you, as long as you feel that it is worth it. This is an open society, and your persistence may be the recognition of others.
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