How to get out of grief after a loved one died in an accidental car accident

The usual response to grief is generally an instinctive avoidance of pain.

At the moment of learning the "bad news", even for months, people will refuse to accept the facts, refuse to face the truth, and deny what happened.

Grief is inescapable, and it is a normal and reasonable reaction for people to instinctively grieve at the moment of loss.

Julia Samuel, a bereaved teacher and British psychologist, pointed out in the book "The Power of Grief" that allowing yourself to grieve allows yourself to release all kinds of negative emotions in your heart.

On the contrary, it is beneficial to get out of grief, because the first step in grief is to allow yourself to feel the pain.

In fact, not everyone can "release grief" without scruples. Some people may be too introverted and reserved, and some may not want other loved ones to worry too much and have to hold back their grief and pretend to be "strong" or "open-minded."

However, our emotions are a river, and the river will flow into the sea automatically, and if it is blocked and not vented, sooner or later it will explode with greater energy.

The "destructive power" of bereavement is enormous, and it is difficult to say that everyone will come out of grief smoothly over time.

Hello! It is difficult to get out of such sadness, which is to help relatives do good deeds and charity, and to get rid of suffering and happiness. Nan no Great Compassion and Great Compassion Guanyin Bodhisattva!

There are unforeseen circumstances in the sky, and people are in trouble. Don't be overly sad if you accidentally take the life of your loved ones, you must control yourself well and provide convenience for the living.

Either you rely on time to slowly forget, which is not recommended, or you keep yourself busy, and you are too busy to think.

Except for the dead. Whoever hits will find revenge.

The first question, answer: The first thing he faces must be the first problem of family life, followed by the problem of married life, and then the problem of his daughter's education, and then his own psychological problem, he must see a psychiatrist.

The second question, A: According to the problems he faces, the first thing is to find him a suitable job, so that he can face the future life with confidence, how to live without money. The second problem is the husband and wife, that is, to persuade him to be generous and divorce his wife, depending on his wife's attitude, the husband and wife can't live a good life, then his wife will also be very painful, but it is also to talk to his wife about the child.

There are many people who have psychological distortions due to acquired disabilities, which will have a great misleading effect on the next generation, such as: beating and scolding children, domestic violence against children, etc. Be sure to pay attention to the mental health of people with disabilities.

First of all, it is necessary to let Xiaofang relax and solve the psychological pressure in his heart. Then you need to make more useful software to help everyone. Finally, he needs to be allowed to relax and become confident. Hope it helps.

1. First of all, the traffic police shall determine the responsibility for the accident.

2. In terms of compensation, the compulsory traffic insurance will first compensate the other party within the following limits.

Liability limit: 110,000 for death and disability, **10,000, and 2,000 for property damage.

Limit of no liability: 10,000 for death and disability, **1,000, and 100 for property damage.

3. If the compulsory traffic insurance is not enough to compensate, the accident liability determined by the traffic police will be compensated according to the following proportions.

100% of the full responsibility, 70% of the main responsibility, 50% of the same responsibility, 30% of the secondary responsibility, and 0 of no responsibility

If the other party in the accident is a non-motorist, an additional 10% (except for full liability).

4. The following provisions of the "Interpretation of the Supreme People's Court on Several Issues Concerning the Application of Law in the Trial of Personal Injury Compensation Cases":

a.Article 17: Where a victim suffers a personal injury, the person obligated to compensate for all expenses incurred for medical treatment and the loss of income due to lost work, including medical expenses, lost work expenses, nursing expenses, transportation expenses, lodging expenses, hospital meal subsidies, and necessary nutrition expenses.

If the victim is disabled due to injury, the compensation obligor shall also compensate for the necessary expenses incurred by the victim due to the increase in living needs and the loss of income caused by the loss of the ability to work, including disability compensation, disability assistive device expenses, and living expenses for dependents, as well as the necessary expenses, nursing expenses, and follow-up expenses actually incurred due to nursing care and continuation.

Where the victim dies, the compensation obligor shall, in addition to compensating the relevant expenses provided for in the first paragraph of this article on the basis of the circumstances of the rescue, also compensate for the funeral expenses, the living expenses of the dependents, the death compensation expenses, and other reasonable expenses such as transportation expenses, lodging expenses, and lost work expenses incurred by the victim's relatives in handling funeral matters.

b. Article 27 Funeral expenses shall be calculated on the basis of the average monthly wage of employees in the previous year at the location of the court where the lawsuit is filed, and shall be calculated on the basis of the total amount for six months.

c, Article 28 The living expenses of dependents shall be calculated according to the degree of the dependent's inability to work, and in accordance with the per capita consumption expenditure of urban residents and the per capita annual living expenditure of rural residents in the previous year at the location of the court where the lawsuit is filed. if the dependant is a minor, it is calculated to be 18 years old; If the dependant is unable to work and has no other livelihood**, 20 years shall be counted. However, if the age is over 60 years old, the age shall be reduced by one year for each additional year; Those over the age of 75 are counted as five years.

Dependents refer to minors who are legally obliged to support the victim or adult close relatives who have lost the ability to work and have no other livelihoods. Where the dependents have other dependents, the compensation obligor shall only compensate the victim for the portion that should be borne in accordance with law. Where there are several dependents, the total amount of annual compensation shall not exceed the per capita consumption expenditure of urban residents or the per capita annual living expenditure of rural residents in the previous year.

d.Article 29: Death compensation is calculated over a period of 20 years in accordance with the standard of per capita disposable income of urban residents or per capita net income of rural residents in the previous year at the location of the court where the lawsuit is filed. However, if the age is over 60 years old, the age shall be reduced by one year for each additional year; Those over the age of 75 are counted as five years.

In the event of an accident, the handling of traffic accidents is as follows: 1. Division of accident responsibility. The first thing to do after a traffic accident is to protect the accident scene and at the same time call the injured person to the hospital for rescue.

At this time, it is necessary to call the police, and the traffic police will intervene to deal with it; 2. Keep the relevant identity information of the perpetrator for use in the prosecution; 3. Keep the deposit slip for medical expenses.

Treat as a traffic accident: look at the accident responsibility to determine the claim.

Treated as a work-related injury (if there is a work unit):

1. See if the time of the traffic accident is on the way to and from work, if it is a work-related injury, you can also apply to the unit for work-related death compensation.

2. If it is not a work-related injury, you can apply for a non-work-related death pension from the unit.