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Your situation is similar to mine! This period is the gray period! It is impossible to get rid of this and that endurance of pain!
But to tell you one thing, it's man-made, trust in our own abilities. We still have to do filial piety first! I've gotten rid of this pain!
It's just by your own continuous efforts! My experience gives you a simple explanation: first, don't get along with your parents too often!
Have a time to meet. Second: you must have your own business.
Do a better job than before! Let parents acknowledge your abilities! Third:
Don't forget that you can't go home empty-handed! Fourth: Tell your parents more about your work problems!
Let them help you out, but be humble! The main thing is to make the parents feel fulfilled in you. Ability is stronger than you!
Talking about other things as little as possible will be counterproductive! That's all too late for that! Enough is enough!
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Hello, parents always say that their children are not filial, that means that you are not doing a good job, not filial to your parents, as parents if every year on the New Year's holiday parents' birthday, the younger generation has to buy some gifts for the elders, filial piety to the elderly, the old people will not say that children are not filial, because parents are like this, if you don't ask, always want to take some money on your parents to spend, parents will definitely not be happy. And I didn't see any filial piety to my parents or buy anything, so my parents would definitely say that their children were unfilial and had no conscience.
As long as you know how to be filial every year, how much money you give your parents to, and you usually have to ask the elderly a few ** outside, so that parents will say that their children are very filial in front of outsiders, because they don't see their children, no matter what parents don't ask, they will naturally say that their children are not filial and have no conscience.
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If your parents often say that you are not filial behind your back, you must not be good enough in many areas.
In the face of this situation, we must correct our own shortcomings in time, give more care to our parents, and give our parents a little more love. Parents spent their lives raising us, and they broke their hearts for their children all their lives, and now that they are old, it is time for them to repay their parents as children.
In fact, parents do not have high requirements for their children, and they do not need women to give them much wealth, what they want in their hearts is that their children will stay by their side more, and they long for the warmth of their children around their knees. It is so easy for us to give our parents one more greeting and one more word of concern to our parents, but it is very difficult for us to do it!
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When my parents are older, they like to babble in fragments, do nothing all day, always be there with cranky thoughts, and feel good about themselves after making subjective judgments. As a child, follow the parents, just do your best, and don't lose the world or your parents.
There is no standard answer to how to do it, just do your best to do it well.
Because the specific economic situation of each family is different, as well as the energy and physical conditions are different, etc., it is not possible to generalize.
If you have good economic conditions, you can take your parents out for a trip in your lifetime, eat some local specialties, and buy beautiful clothes. It's okay to ask a ** and care about it.
If some children are not in a good financial situation, they can spend more time running to their parents' homes to help clean up and help their parents wash and wash.
In short, it is not wrong to be filial to your parents, no matter what they say, just have a clear conscience for your children.
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Professor Li Meijin once said that today's children are not filial, but they are also cultivated from an early age, because parents do everything to their children, so that children do not interfere in everything, there is an attitude that makes them have nothing to do with their own affairs at home, and they will feel that their good results are because they study hard, and ignore the conditions provided by their parents.
Filial piety, filial piety, filial piety, as long as the parents' requirements are reasonable and the three views are correct, they must be obeyed.
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Parents always say that their children are not filial and have no conscience, at this time you only need to treat your parents well, be filial to your parents, and your parents will not say that you are not filial and have no conscience!
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Parents always say that their children are unfilial and have no conscience. How? Then you will always care about your parents.
Give them a little bit of ** from time to time and ask them how they are? If you care about them, you may feel more comfortable, and maybe if you don't care about them, they will definitely feel uncomfortable. Test your concern, care about them, see if they still say anything?
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Parents say that their children are not filial, then it must be that their children have not done a good job. As a child, you should always go home to see it.
I often chat with the elderly and care about the daily life of the elderly. The most important thing is not to get angry with the elderly.
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What the landlord said is indeed existing, and it is a very helpless thing. Sue, break morals and make neighbors laugh; If you don't tell you, you can't be angry, or you can't get old; sued, the children still didn't care, and even worsened.
This is a matter of upbringing, and it is actually very difficult for families who have formed such a situation to recover from the situation. The elderly have no choice but to seek legal means to fight for alimony and consider places such as nursing homes. Families that are still raising children should also take this as a warning and strengthen the moral education of "loyalty and filial piety" for their children.
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Buy them clothes, buy food, take the money home, or he won't feel your love.
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If your parents say this about you, it may be because you have done something that makes him feel that you are not filial and have no conscience, then you can reflect on yourself appropriately. It's good to work hard for your parents.
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As a child, you should often fight with your parents, and you should communicate and communicate with your parents more, don't let your parents feel lonely, buy a dress for your parents every year, and feel your care.
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When your parents say that you are not filial and have no conscience, it proves that you have not done the attitude of satisfying your parents, and you should care more about your parents.
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If parents always say this, then children should see if they are really in line with this situation, if so, they should change, they should be filial to their parents, if not their parents say so, I think you can communicate with your parents well.
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I think that in this case, you should visit your parents often, buy some delicious food for your parents, and let your parents know that they care about them very much, and only then will your parents be very satisfied.
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Parents actually need their children to care for them properly, so if parents often say that their children have no conscience, they need their children to care more about their parents and do more for their parents.
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Communicate with your parents to see if there is any misunderstanding in the middle, and then show your love with your own practical actions.
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This is because parents feel that we, as children, do not do what he thinks, so we will be more disappointed As children, we should earn more money to our parents, and then give them more, for them to be qualified.
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A little more care and love for your parents.
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As a child, you have to fight for your breath, care about your parents' daily life, and care about their health.
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There's a problem; When one of your fingers hurts, you always pay attention to that finger, right? Parents who see your shortcomings want you to do more perfectly, they are not education experts, don't be them, understand them, you can be in one.
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Who doesn't want to live an easy, stress-free, casual life, but if you do that, you'll find that the world is against you. If one day you really feel that you feel relaxed, it is not because life is getting easier, but because we are getting stronger. Good morning!
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It is something that children should do to honor their parents, first of all, it is a moral thing, and our parents have done a lot for us. We can't take care of our parents because we are too busy with work and have little time, or even rarely go home to visit our parents. When it comes to honoring your parents, the most important thing is not what you do for your parents, but what is your relationship with your parents?
There are many people who have done a lot for their parents, but their relationship with their parents is not good. Some people say, "Why am I not filial and send him money every month, but I am not filial?"
I have a friend who goes to see his parents every Sunday and treats them to a meal. Be willing to give, and resolutely not be selfish. When you were a child, your parents were selfless in their dedication to you, and today, are you willing to pay the price?
If we can't honor our parents, we are selfish. To honor your parents, it is not just a matter of saying two words on the mouth of the faction, but of paying for reality. You need to spend time, energy, and sometimes even money.
If you don't pay the price, you won't be able to honor your parents. If you are accustomed to obeying your parents, it will definitely be a blessing for your life, because this is a very important beginning for you to honor your parents, and you must learn to be obedient. And this "obedience" is not only to listen to what he says, but also to learn to listen to what he has not yet said.
The words he says have a meaning, and the thoughts in his heart have another meaning. To show love to our parents publicly, we as children should learn to express our love and gratitude to our parents in some public places, instead of letting them know in private. But for the physical and mental health of parents, it is a warm impact.
Honor your parents, don't wait.
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Legal analysis: If a child is not filial to his or her parents and does not support his or her parents, he or she may apply to the people's court for mediation, or he may file a lawsuit with the people's court to resolve the dispute. For unfilial children, as parents should first self-reflect, to see whether there are excessive doting or other problems in the education process of their children over the years, which led to the occurrence of today's incidents, on the other hand, we should still communicate well with our children, exchange, strive for emotional influence, let their children take into account the factors of family affection, if this can not be solved, then if it involves the problem of not fulfilling the obligation to support the elderly, I had no choice but to settle the legal situation in court.
Legal basis: Law of the People's Republic of China on the Protection of the Rights and Interests of the Elderly
Article 14: Supporters shall perform their obligations to provide financial support, daily care, and spiritual comfort to the elderly, and take care of the special needs of the elderly.
Supporters refer to the children of the elderly and other persons who have the obligation to support them in accordance with the law.
The spouse of the supporter shall assist the supporter in fulfilling the maintenance obligation.
Article 75: Where disputes arise between the elderly and their family members over maintenance, support, housing, property, and so forth, they may apply to the people's mediation committee or other relevant organizations for mediation, and may also directly file a lawsuit in the people's courts.
When people's mediation committees or other relevant organizations mediate disputes in the preceding paragraph, they shall resolve the conflict through methods such as persuasion and counseling, and family members who are at fault for the dispute shall be given criticism and education.
The people's courts may rule in accordance with law to enforce the elderly's application for recovery of alimony or alimony.
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