When the family was separated, the in laws gave everything to the eldest son, why did it be too late

In today's life, only children are still relatively common, but in the generation of parents, it is normal to have several brothers, especially in some places in the countryside, the thinking is still relatively conservative, not only the preference for sons, but also the idea of eldest sons and grandchildren is also more serious. However, people get along with each other mutually, and only if you are good to others, others will treat you better. Li Li's husband is the second son in the family, when the family was separated, her in-laws gave all the good things to her brother and sister-in-law, and the two of them had nothing, and they regretted it when they got old.

When Li Li married her husband, there was only one yard in the house, because both of her husband and brother were going to get married, so the old couple moved out first, but how to divide a yard among the two sons? Li Li's father-in-law is a very old-fashioned person, and he always feels that the family should be orderly for a long time, and he must think about his eldest son first in everything, so he gave the yard to the eldest son, and Li Li and her husband could only borrow a piece of land from their uncle's house to build a house. Li Li was very unbalanced in her heart at that time, why should she have nothing as a younger son, Li Li also approached her in-laws to theorize, but her in-laws said:

Your man didn't say anything, how old are you? Li Li was very aggrieved after listening to her in-laws' words, and when she went to her husband to tell her about it, her husband chose to be silent.

Although her husband didn't say anything, Li Li could see that her husband was also aggrieved and uncomfortable, and he was holding back his strength to work, Li Li didn't embarrass her husband anymore, and then Li Li went back to her parents' house to borrow 20,000 yuan, and discussed with her husband to do some small business, and the two began to get up early and work in the dark. It's all up to the in-laws to support this family.

After a few years, Li Li and her family have also started their business, and they have opened several supermarket chains, and their lives are also enjoyable, and the eldest brother and sister-in-law worry about the children's tuition fees and expenses every day, and they will ask their in-laws if they have no money, and their in-laws are getting older and older, and they can't do a lot of work, and they are more than enough to do it, but they can't just look at the family, and then look at the development of the younger son in recent years, I really regret the decision I made at the beginning, if I was better for the younger son at that time, Now the old couple will not have such a hard time. Li Li's mother-in-law also went to find Li Li and her family, but every time she didn't have time to speak, she was choked back by Li Li. Now it's too late to say anything, and the old couple can only swallow all the bitterness.

Although Li Li's approach is a bit impersonal, respect and love are mutual, how you treat others in the first place, others will do to you when you need help, so no matter what you do, you must leave room to avoid that no one is willing to lend a hand when you need help.

Because when he got old, his in-laws found out that the eldest son was very unfilial, while the younger son tried his best to take care of him, so he regretted it very much, but it was useless.

When the family is separated, the parents are partial and give everything to the eldest child, but when you are old, you will find that when you need children, it is not the boss who is on call, there are other children, and other children will also respect you very much.

Because the in-laws have always doted on the eldest son, the eldest son has everything on his body, and has developed the habit of the eldest son being idle, and when he is old, the eldest son is not able to take on the responsibility of providing for the elderly, and all kinds of eccentric behaviors in the past have hurt the younger son's heart, and it is difficult to recover the broken relationship.

Because when they were old, the eldest son did not support them. And now they are homeless, and they do not dare to face their younger son.