What should I do if my parents are unable to afford to hold back?

Updated on society 2024-07-31
27 answers
  1. Anonymous users2024-02-15

    Parents have the difficulties of their parents, and most of their ideas and ideas cannot keep up with the generations. These must be understood, in the past, due to the imperfection of the legal system, most of them held the idea that more is better than less, and forbearance is forgotten, and most of the elderly have such ideas, but you are different, you are still young, don't complain about your parents, don't wait for your parents to seize the opportunity, show your talents, work diligently and law-abiding to strive for a good life.

  2. Anonymous users2024-02-14

    Parents are old and have done what they can do, you, as a man, the next generation, should be considerate of them, it's time for you to support the whole family, to support the whole family with your ability, if you want to hold up your head you should do something, isn't it, the day you get ahead, no one will look down on you and your parents again, isn't it, they came from that era, and still retain the previous way of life, the way of doing things, you can no longer expect them to do anything for you, but what you should do, You do something for the whole family, not blaming the parents.

  3. Anonymous users2024-02-13

    Since you understand the ability of your parents, do you still need to ask their opinions, just do what you want to do, if you don't have money, go to make money and save money first, and while you want to rely on them to invest, while saying bad things about them, people like you will not succeed. There is no character and no stamina, and there is no idea, who has no idea.

  4. Anonymous users2024-02-12

    Parents are incapable, and they are still holding back, in fact, you can find relatives of your parents, such as uncles and uncles, or aunts and aunts and the like to say that parents will listen to them, because they are all elders, and now many parents and young people just can't talk together, you say a word, he may give you back, so only by looking for their peers can they convince them, or find some people who are more convincing or, in your area of more famous people to persuade them, it will also have a certain effect.

  5. Anonymous users2024-02-11

    Nowadays, many parents have this kind of thinking, and their children will not believe their friends no matter what they say, and sometimes their children are not as good as a stranger. If you have the ability yourself, you don't need to discuss it with your parents, you are an adult, and you can already take responsibility for the things you do. Stick to what you think is true.

  6. Anonymous users2024-02-10

    What should I do if my parents are unable to afford to hold back? The best way is to nail him up and pay some money a month, and the old couple can live! There is really no way, because the old man raises us to prevent old age, and we can't say that we don't care about him.

    Although it is better to let them be old. Give him some money and tidy up the house for him. Let them live on their own.

  7. Anonymous users2024-02-09

    No one can say that parents are incapable and dragging their feet, and their parents have the right to support them when they are young, but they have the obligation to support their parents when they grow up, and they cannot despise their parents.

  8. Anonymous users2024-02-08

    Make your own achievements first, facts speak louder than words.

  9. Anonymous users2024-02-07

    It should be better to communicate with your parents. ,

  10. Anonymous users2024-02-06

    Work hard and be positive.

  11. Anonymous users2024-02-05

    Being born in a good family will make you worry about food and clothing, and even fine clothes and food will also make you struggle less in the future. And children born poor sometimes feel inferior, cowardly, cowardly, and incompetent, and feel that they are inferior to others, so they may give up on themselves, slump, and never catch up with children with good conditions!

  12. Anonymous users2024-02-04

    Children can't blame their parents for not being capable. It's not easy for your parents to raise you. If you want to live a good life, you can only hope if you work hard.

  13. Anonymous users2024-02-03

    Parents are parents, and children's affairs depend on their children's own hard work, and parents will not keep their children for life.

  14. Anonymous users2024-02-02

    Others compare me to my parents, and I compare myself to others to tomorrow.

  15. Anonymous users2024-02-01

    When you start to think about your parents becoming a drag, how capable are you?

  16. Anonymous users2024-01-31

    There may be the following reasons for feeling that our parents are always holding us back:

    1. It may be that your parents think that you are still young and have no experience and experience, and they are a little reassuring about you. Maybe they always want to protect you, so whatever you do, they have to ask for details and ask you for what they think.

    2. Perhaps you and your parents need to further communicate fully and effectively. Your parents lived in a different environment than you, and they had different perceptions of things, so it was inevitable that there would be misunderstandings between you. You can explain your thoughts and feelings to them so that they can understand you, which will make it easier to get their support.

  17. Anonymous users2024-01-30

    The reincarnation technique is not good, and the parents who are also unaware of their hind legs have delayed their children's future too much, and the parents who do not know that they are wrong**, the children point out to them, hoping that they will not continue to correct, they don't realize why they want to correct, ** I don't understand what is wrong, the way of educating children is basically all wrong, and they don't understand how much impact their so many wrong ways of educating children have on the future of their children. People are parents who learn the right way to teach their children, but when they encounter ignorant parents, they want their children to teach them how to be parents correctly, so as not to continue their mistakes, isn't it too much to delay their children? Reincarnation is really a technical job, and it hurts to think about it.

  18. Anonymous users2024-01-29

    It may be because the ideological differences between the two generations are too great, and communication is difficult.

  19. Anonymous users2024-01-28

    I am too, my heart is so tired, it's not that I don't work hard enough, others work hard, you can have results, for example, if you work hard to make money, you can buy a house, I work hard, and I have to mention my parents to pay off the debt, no one asks me, are you tired.

  20. Anonymous users2024-01-27

    You need to take the initiative to communicate with your parents, and secondly, let the relatives at home who have a good relationship with your parents talk about it, sometimes people talk too much, your parents will pay more attention to it, and make some changes later.

  21. Anonymous users2024-01-26

    What can you do, what do you want to do.

    Parents all over the world are thinking about their children, and you think it's a drag.

    Or is it really a drag, to have a correct understanding.

    You can communicate with your parents and listen to what they have to say.

  22. Anonymous users2024-01-25

    There is a word called generation gap, this really exists, my parents and I are the same, but there is no correct solution to this kind of problem, if your parents really hold you back, remember, in the future, there are things to talk to your parents less, and more decorate things in your heart. This will make you more mature.

  23. Anonymous users2024-01-24

    Parents' ideas are for the good of their children, and it may be a little inappropriate, but you have to understand your parents more, their intentions are good, and you may not agree with their practices, so you have to communicate more with your parents

  24. Anonymous users2024-01-23

    You have to explain to your parents what you think and what you do, so that they can give you a chance to make your own decisions.

  25. Anonymous users2024-01-22

    If you feel that what your parents are doing is holding you back, first of all, you need to communicate effectively with them, if they don't take your opinion, the communication is ineffective, 1You feel that in some way you can fly farther without them, then you can be bold and do it according to your own ideas.

    2.If you think you want to break the jar and break it and drag you back, then you give him the front leg as well, so that they can see it with their own eyes, what are the consequences of dragging your back legs? Do you really want to see you slump?

    Of course, if the communication is effective, congratulations.

  26. Anonymous users2024-01-21

    Oh oh oh Oh, I see, I didn't understand what you said.

  27. Anonymous users2024-01-20

    Tutu Tututu.

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