Why do filial piety get sick? Why is there no filial son after a long illness?

During the practice of filial piety, people's body and mind are also in a kind of grief, not yet out of the sadness of losing their loved ones, people's mental state will not be very good, the mental state is not good, the mood is not good, the mood will make people's body have uncomfortable symptoms, illness is born is this truth, long-term in a depressed state will be sick, so people still have to learn to let go and learn to adjust their emotions, no matter how big things do not go on forever, will bring themselves down, the deceased will never know the grief of the living, Those who are alive still have to live and go on!

Recently, I watched Bi Shumin's "Filial Piety is Priceless" and was deeply touched. I was impressed by her astonishing insights, unique analysis, and incisive language. However, the most important thing is to make me truly appreciate the weight of "filial piety".

The student in her pen, when her family was in difficulty, her father died, and her younger siblings were waiting to be fed, she insisted on going to graduate school, and her mother had no choice but to sell blood. Think about it, who can a person who can't even love his mother, who else can he expect him to love?

There is also the wanderer whose parents are seriously ill in bed and who left categorically, and he doesn't even have the least filial piety or family affection, so what is the use of his empty skin for the family and society?

But think about yourself, what kind of filial piety you have done to your parents. Although there is a great difference between their behavior and theirs, from the perspective of "filial piety", it is not the same. Even my parents didn't get their own gifts for their birthdays, let alone Father's Day and Mother's Day.

When the parents are sad, there is no comfort. I believe that there are many people like me.

Watching my parents treat my grandfather is also very different from how I treat them.

The college entrance examination is coming, and there is only more than a year left, and I usually quarrel with them, now think about it, how unfilial I am, how pitiful I am.

Maybe it's only been a little more than a year to spend time with them, maybe I should cherish this time. But what should I do with my filial piety? A mansion is a pure black doctor's hat, a table of delicacies from the mountains and seas, a prosperous dress full of flowers, and tens of thousands of dollars.

Can I give them these, can I afford them? Perhaps, I can give them a weed, a little flower. As Bi Shumin said, on the scale of love, they are equivalent.

Filial piety, what a beautiful word. There are twenty-four filial piety stories in ancient times, and today, Yin Wuyong cut off all his scalps three times to save his father during the newlywed honeymoon period.

However, many people take it upon themselves to wear earrings with piercing their ears and engrave tattoos on their bodies for the sake of beauty, which is a great disrespect to their parents and a great disrespect to life. The "Book of Filial Piety" says that the body is skinned, and the parents who receive it dare not destroy it, and the beginning of filial piety also explains this phenomenon very well.

I believe that every sincere and loyal child has made a grand wish of "filial piety" to his parents in his heart, believes that the future will be long, believes that the water will come naturally, and believes that he will be successful and famous The day when he returns to his hometown, he can calmly fulfill his filial piety. But people have forgotten, forgotten the cruelty of time, forgotten the transience of life, forgotten that there is a kindness in the world that can never be repaid, and forgot that life itself is fragile and fragile. ”

Without this logic, there will be no such result, most likely because taking care of the elderly is tired and sick, and filial piety must also take care of themselves.

Maybe not the right way. Be filial but don't be foolish.

Indeed, only when people are sick, especially when they are seriously ill, can they know who is really good to you.

There is no filial son in front of the bed for a long time, not only the old people have no filial sons, but also young people have no lovers and friends. Taking care of the sick is a very troublesome, energy-consuming and money-consuming thing, and only those who truly love you and are truly good to you will be willing to spend money, energy, and time to accompany you and take care of you.

Ways to prevent getting sick:

1. Illness from the mouth, diet should be hygienic, through washing and high temperature disinfection, to prevent infection with some bacteria and viruses.

2. It is also necessary to pay attention to the balance of drinking eggplant food, and not to focus on your favorite food according to your own preferences, and reject other foods, resulting in nutritional imbalance in the body and breeding diseases.

3. Illness is born from the heart, which means that people's psychological factors can affect people's mood and produce some psychosomatic diseases, so maintaining mental health is also a prerequisite for physical health.

4. Open-minded, cheerful, everything has two sides, when we see the bad side, it will be gloomy and depressed, but when we see the other side, it is a wake-up call for us, it is experience, it is hope, for a long time in this mode, people will have no depression, no anger, no anger, no sadness, and all organs can be nourished by qi and blood.