What to do if your first love fails, and how to face the failure of your first love?

Updated on psychology 2024-07-03
20 answers
  1. Anonymous users2024-02-12

    Maybe you'll pay attention to this first love! But think about how many more are really successful! And that woman is older than you! Fret not! First love is just a process! Be careful not to love so hard in the future!!

  2. Anonymous users2024-02-11

    Be strong, why bother......There is no grass ...... anywhere in the world

  3. Anonymous users2024-02-10

    You are still young, study well and everything will be there in the future.

  4. Anonymous users2024-02-09

    Just find another one.

  5. Anonymous users2024-02-08

    Do you really love her, if so, then let it go, let everything be arranged by fate!!

  6. Anonymous users2024-02-07

    Find something to do, and you're good to go.

  7. Anonymous users2024-02-06

    Who hasn't been young.

    Don't get too angry, learn to let go.

  8. Anonymous users2024-02-05

    It's still young now, there will be better girls waiting for you in the future, let it go slowly!

  9. Anonymous users2024-02-04

    It doesn't matter if your first love fails, everyone has a first time, you may meet a girl you like more after this failure, and the joy of love is the real love, don't keep remembering her! Think about something else!

  10. Anonymous users2024-02-03

    At the age of 15, try to turn your attention to studying, maybe that sister doesn't want to hurt you.

  11. Anonymous users2024-02-02

    Learn to lose your reputation, and you can't lose your merits.

  12. Anonymous users2024-02-01

    Hehe, it's okay if your first love fails, the most important thing is that you know how to love. Summarizing is the most important part of failure.

  13. Anonymous users2024-01-31

    It would be nice to find another one.

  14. Anonymous users2024-01-30

    It's going to pass slowly, and you're going to meet better girls.

  15. Anonymous users2024-01-29

    This、It's okay.、Try to forget about her.、And then find someone better than him.、Hehe.。

  16. Anonymous users2024-01-28

    It's puppy love, learn to forget her!!

  17. Anonymous users2024-01-27

    Hey, this kind of person should forget.

  18. Anonymous users2024-01-26

    I haven't been in a relationship or experienced my first love, so I can't share my personal story. But I understand the many emotional entanglements and growing explorations that people go through in their first love, and here are some suggestions that may help:

    Sincere communication: First love is not easy, due to lack of sufficient experience and self-confidence, confusion and contradictions often arise. Therefore, it is important to communicate sincerely in a relationship, both psychologically and in life.

    If you have any doubts and confusions, you should actively communicate, clearly express your thoughts and feelings, and solve the problem as soon as possible.

    Respect yourself and each other: In a healthy relationship, both partners should be respectful of each other's feelings. Over time, if you find that there are too many differences or conflicts in each other's personalities, values, interests, etc., you should make adjustments in time, or give up appropriately, rather than forcing an unhealthy union.

    Remember your own plans: First love should not be a dependency or obstacle that interferes with our other relationships or lives, so it is important to remember your life plans and goals. Treat this simple relationship as a learning and experience in your own growth and interpersonal interactions, and master it well and grasp the time.

    Cherish experiences and feelings: Whether the first love is a success or a failure, it is a valuable experience and feeling. For those memories that are worth remembering and cherishing, we should keep them and reflect on the gains, mistakes and lessons learned, so as to make useful preparations for a better life in the future.

  19. Anonymous users2024-01-25

    First love is beautiful, but few people can join hands with first love to the palace of marriage, many people can't understand why first love is hard to forget, but in the end most of them end in breakup. Let's analyze from the perspective of love psychology, why does first love always end in a breakup?

    1. First love is usually carried out many years before the age of trial marriage, and people in this chaotic age group have a weak ability to resist pressure, and a little trivial thing between couples may lead to emotional breakdown.

    2. The relationship that started in high school will break up because you are not in the same college; Relationships that start in college will break up because they don't work together after graduation. It can be seen that many first loves are defeated by distance.

    3. At the time of first love, couples often bring a lot of harm because of misunderstandings because they are immature in their considerations. For this reason, even if they barely maintain their first love for four or five years, in the end, the two people will precipitate too many complaints about each other because of too many quarrels.

    Many people will never forget their first love, but the biggest reason is that their first love is a painstaking process.

    It is also a process for people to explore true love, so it is easy to take it deep or leave it in people's memory, of course, even if the first love fails, we must ensure mental health and bravely welcome new feelings.

  20. Anonymous users2024-01-24

    .Get to know each other well before falling in love for the first time, after all, the word first love still sounds very beautiful. Although I personally don't think there's anything very special about first love.

    2.The first love must be the person you like, if you are together because of emotion, sympathy or other factors, believe me, you are likely to break up. If you find that you don't like it at all after being together, or you are together because of something else, then make it clear.

    Don't start by mistake. Better a finger off than always aching.

    3.Try not to regret your first love as much as possible, and treat your other half well. Your significant other may be your marriage partner, and if you really like him, then be together. From first love to marriage, it may be a very happy thing.

    4.Don't give the first time to the other party easily, maybe because I am conservative in my thinking, and I always feel that the first time this kind of thing has to be left for later marriage, or the marriage is almost decided. In case your marriage partner is more mindful of this kind of thing, it may have a psychological impact at that time.

    Although I may be conservative, there is one thing I must say, protect yourself.

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It's normal, it's quite hard to forget someone, so there's no need for you to forget about him, hide her in the deepest part of your mind, and slowly start a new life! A person is just a part of your life, she is not all of yours, believe in loving him and support his choice, don't hurt him, hurt yourself! Let's start a new life.

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I've also had this experience.,And my boyfriend on the mobile phone text message or QQ are very close.,But when you meet, you're embarrassed to speak.,If you want to talk about the solution,I still think it's best for boys to take the initiative.,If boys are so shy.,Then what progress can there be.。 If he is embarrassed to speak, then you take the initiative to ask him what is causing this, so that he may take the initiative to be intimate with you. Since he is in a bad mood, you take the initiative to comfort him, let him feel your thoughtfulness, he does not tell you his worries, probably because he is afraid that you will worry about him, this is a sign that he loves you, don't miss a person who loves you, I hope you can think more yourself.