Why some children are particularly difficult to teach

Today's children have a stronger sense of independence, unlike in the past, when they obeyed their parents and teachers in everything.

Parents and teachers give children some truths, some instructions, children will first think in their own minds, and then choose whether to listen to or not, accept or not.

Today's children, parents take care of them in every possible way but are prone to psychological problems, while the education that the elders received when they were young is much simpler and more extensive, but they rarely have psychological problems! The reason for this phenomenon is that the elders were exposed to fewer people and things when they were young, and their lives were simpler, so their thoughts were more pure.

First of all, the elders were exposed to fewer people and things when they were young. Today's children can be exposed to more people and things through more channels, so their thinking is more complex, so they are prone to psychological problems. When the elders were young, they were exposed to relatively few people and things, so the elders' thinking when they were young was not complicated, so they were not prone to psychological problems.

Secondly, the life experience of the elders as children is simpler. Although today's children are young, their life experiences are more complicated, which is also the root cause of their psychological problems. For the elders, their life experience when they were young was relatively simple, so they didn't think much about it, so they were not prone to psychological problems.

Finally, the elders were more pure in their minds when they were young. Today's children are prone to psychological problems because they have seen and heard more, so they have complex ideas. In contrast, the elders are less prone to psychological problems because their experiences as children are relatively simple, so their thoughts are more pure.

It is precisely because of the above three factors that although the elders received a simple and extensive education when they were young, they were not prone to psychological problems. If today's children were in the same environment, they would not be so prone to psychological problems.

Do you feel that today's children are getting harder and harder to teach?

Because today's children are becoming more and more open-minded, the way parents educate their children is not correct, so it is becoming more and more difficult for today's children to teach.

I have to say that now children mature earlier, their thinking is broader, some children ask the knowledge is difficult to answer, in addition, children are spoiled at home, it is also a reason why it is becoming more and more difficult to teach.

There can be no corporal punishment, no verbal abuse, and the ruler has withdrawn from the pulpit. The children's minds have also changed, and the binding force on the children is not enough, so it is difficult for children to teach now.

In fact, the earlier you give your child pure moral education, the better, and some problems will be corrected when the child is older. Especially at the age of 3 or 6, it is a critical period for the formation of children's personality, and if parents do not pay attention to it, they will let their children have little wisdom, but no great wisdom.

It is recommended that you go to the Children's Academy, with the help of the great power of traditional culture, for the children to cultivate their minds, set an example of sages, so that children understand filial piety, know how to deal with it, be gentle and elegant, and have the style of a gentleman.

Because children are now affected by film and television content and computer knowledge, self-growth is faster, compared to our contemporaries to have a lot of new knowledge, we must update our knowledge in time, and at the same time give children enough space to develop, so as to eliminate the generation gap with children and resonate.

Because usually no one competes with him, thinking that everything is his own, and self-centeredness is too serious.

Do you feel that today's children are getting harder and harder to teach?

Here's an answer to that question for you. First of all, the reason why children are prone to psychological problems is that because children lack an emotional outlet, when people feel wronged, angry and fearful, negative thoughts will rise in their hearts, and even some extreme travel thoughts.

First of all, a large part of the life of today's children is learning, learning, every day is the two points and one line of home and school, life is too monotonous, and the entertainment method is also monotonous, only mobile phones, tablets, TVs, and these entertainment methods, many parents are unacceptable. So you say that the child is carrying the pressure of learning, the pressure of social difficulties, and the criticism and education of parents, but the child has no way to express it, then he will not be psychologically happy.

The second is that although parents were beaten and scolded when they were young, they had a lot of emotional outlets, such as running to the fields, yards, streets, catching tadpoles with friends, spreading wild, and visiting small supermarkets. It's something that today's children can't understand. Then there is the reputation of the town such as children's outdoor activities are very necessary.

Nowadays, children are often prone to fall into the cycle of one-way thinking, and are easy to become narrow-minded, selfish and paranoid, and easy to get into the horns, which is caused by the reduction of the natural environment, so they are not interested in the things around them, they are not focused in class, and they like to procrastinate. The parent's solution, of course, is to respect the child equally, accompany the child, and satisfy the child's emotions, feelings, spiritual enrichment and concern, only by doing this, can we better help the child. I hope I can help friends in need.

Think about it, when did Chinese children start to become difficult to teach?To put it simply, it starts with Chinese parents who are very concerned about education. It is right to care, but as long as you care a little too much, it will inevitably become "your own branches, and you will sell it to others".

When you look back, when you were very young, your parents would have spent as much effort to teach you as you did, and I am afraid that there were not many people. I'm afraid they'll not even have time to make money, so how can they have time to teach you?But when you grow up, today's virtue is actually okay (everyone laughs), and it's not bad to **.

But the strange thing is that even though we have spent so much effort today, to study, to go to class, and try our best to teach our children well, the children's quick appearance is often unsatisfactory, and sometimes even flattering. The more people want to teach their children well, why is the end result counterproductive?

I often say: Words and teachings are better than teaching by example, and teaching by example is better than not teaching. Teaching by example is something you still want to teach, but the real essence of education is often not taught on the outside.

In ancient times, the master did not teach much;The ancients taught their children, and often they didn't teach them very much;But this is not very taught, but it is actually the biggest taught. Children learn best if they don't care about what they want to teach. If I deliberately try to teach you something, you will easily resist it.

Sometimes you deliberately don't want to teach you, and you will be more serious.

Nowadays, children are difficult to teach because they are influenced by too much from the outside world, and now that information is developed, children can be exposed to a lot of things.